So there is this cute receptionist at my office that I really like. I followed your awesome techniques and slept with her. Wahoo. 'Nother notch in the belt right? Wrong. Like I said, I really really like this one and I would love to pursue a relationship with her. But she's playing games now. She's hot and she's cold. She's interested and uninterested. All communication happens on her terms. And it's obnoxious. How do I smash these dumb games and move forward with this particular lass?
Slept with her twice. Now she's playing games.
- Thread starter Koliekins
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Hey Koliekins
A lot of this can have to do with everything that led up to you bedding her... how long did it take you to bed her? What expectations did you set? How in control of the relationship has she been thus far?
It might help to post all the details so that people can help you figure out why she might be acting this way.
- Franco
A lot of this can have to do with everything that led up to you bedding her... how long did it take you to bed her? What expectations did you set? How in control of the relationship has she been thus far?
It might help to post all the details so that people can help you figure out why she might be acting this way.
- Franco
We met a few weeks ago when I started my new job. I could tell she was initially interested but I generally seemed aloof and warm and friendly but distant for the first few weeks. I started becoming closer and closer with her getting her to open up details about her life and getting her to trust me. That was a big task because she is a very closed off non trusting person. So I got her to the point where she would hang out with me (I took her to a Jiu Jitsu class and after we wandered around while I got her to open up about her life and past). We hung out a few days later... Ill finish this up in a bit
Ok. We're back.
Hung out a few days later. Made cookies and stuff at her place. Went to a work meeting together. Came back to her house. Escalated. Magic stuff happened. You know the drill.
She was very hard to escalate though. It took me a couple of hours. She is very much in control of things though. How do I restore the balance?
Hung out a few days later. Made cookies and stuff at her place. Went to a work meeting together. Came back to her house. Escalated. Magic stuff happened. You know the drill.
She was very hard to escalate though. It took me a couple of hours. She is very much in control of things though. How do I restore the balance?