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Yesterday I went out with my buddy. I'm feeling more and more tired of online giving less and less results and I kinda just wanted to see some hot girls, so we went to this place with a bunch of little restaurants and places that serve beer and drinks. This beautiful, intelligent girl I met on Tinder that I've been seeing for a while was out of town, so I figured I had to go and see some other kittens to feel a bit better.
So we got there, and as we are in line, there are those two hot girls in front of us (this place tends to attract some posh girls that go there overdressed, looking for some attention, I can only assume). The shorter one on the left have a deliiicious big round butt and an average (cute-ish?) face, while the taller one, on the right, has a more beautiful face, but less of an impressive body (though I would still bang the shit out of her). My friend tells me:
"The shorter one is mine!"
"I'm very okay with that", as I didn't quite realised yet how big and delicious the other girl's ass (and tights) were
I look a bit better at it, and damn, she looks hella fine, and I say "Well, now I understand why you wanted her lol" (I'm almost getting hard seeing this girl, with her little boots with high heels, pantyhose, a little wool-ish skirt really accentuating the shape of her butt, it's cold here in the south of Brazil and those girls are managing to look both classy af and super sexy at the same time).
Generally there's not a line to enter this place, that is more of a collection of little food/drink stores all together, but there's a buuuunch of people there (apparently clubs and bars are forbidden, but places like that being packed are fine). One police car eventually gets there, the coppers are talking to the owner, apparently, but it seems the whole line is managing to keep the place within the rules.
Some guy that works there goes walking by the line and telling everyone there's not any alcohol there anymore being served, so a bunch of people (including some hot girls) start leaving the line. My friend tells me we should bounce and start looking for an Uber to get us to some other place that is open. I tell him:
"Dude, you can drink alcohol anyday of the week at home, why do you wanna leave now?", I'm talking kinda louder than usual so the girls around can maybe hear us (I'm not screaming though lol). "Though that's kinda bad, I drink a lot at home, become an alcoholic, then I go to rehab, come back, then rinse and repeat" (I said jokingly, and the girls in front of us seemed like they found it funny, dunno)
"What's the fun in drinking soda with our food in a Saturday?"
"You gotta a point", I said, "but it's already kinda late," (it was like almost 8PM, and place are closing 10PM at most around here now) "plus we don't know if this other place is even gonna be open, police might show up there, plus look at those hawwwt girls here, Jeeesus" (this part I say a bit quiter lmao).
After that, there was some uncertainty with the people on the line that were still there, but all that people leaving made us get inside sooner. Sadly, the weird vibe kinda killed my will to talk with the girls in front of us, though most of it was just me being a pussy, really. The truth is, I've had some success with girls, but I pretty much only cold approached in night clubs, and they are now all closed (I've bedded some girls from social circle and Tinder, but the ones I fucked or even kissed from cold approach were all from night clubs or uni parties). So I really struggle to believe that I'm able to approach girls in place that aren't quite made for people to meet up and where it isn't super expected that people make out with randoms (and there's no alcohol, of course dutch courage helps...).
We get inside, the lady getting us there asks where we wanna sit, we say in the second floor, where we can get a better view of the place and it tends to have some hot girls. But we get there, and there's only a few big groups of people like celebrating birthday or shit like that, not any girls that might be game or even that hot (also we just saw bootylicious girl and her friend sitting on a table downstairs), so we decide to switch. We get some beer (apparently the guy just said that to discourage people from getting in, as the place was quite packed already and police was there), mine tastes like butt, but ok. We eat some skewers, while we watch those hot girls moving around with her friends. Most of them are just with one girlfriend, so it would be perfect for us to approach, but this friend of mine is generally not that great at approaching, and I'm also a bit in a state of too much approach anxiety on those less familiar environments.
After eating we leave our table to move around and take a better butcher at those chicks, my friend is like "we gonna lose our table!" but I'm like "who cares, we don't wanna be just sitting around like two lazy fucks anyway", so we go and do our little "putivolta" (if you haven't ever watched Acapulco Shore, girls in this show say this to refer to walking around while looking for people to "mingle" with, it's kinda of a portmanteau of "hoe" and talking a walk/look "around" - in the original Spanish I believe it's said "putivuelta", I just use the Brazilean version, pretty much the same hehe).
Still, I don't approach any girls, some of them give me, or my friend, approach invitations, and some look so fine I wanna approach anyway, but my fear of rejection just gets me. I feel kinda bad, but I still wanna stay in there and see if I can summon the courage to do it, somehow (as often I did, with little to no effort, on those places).
After a while we decide to get some icecream (I really like having icecream when it's cold for some reason, I feel like it helps me get warmer somehow, though at this point it feels warmer there). I took off my stilish leather jacket a while ago, since inside it didn't feel this cold, I feel a bit underdressed as the only good shirt I had is white and also my jeans only good jeans available were light brown, so there's very little contrast (though these pants do make my cock appear a bit bigger lmao). I'm also wearing my usual Adidas black & white shoes, I love how durable those are and how stilish but also casual they look, I don't really like wearing "proper leather shoes" as I was forced to wear them back in police school everyday and I hated them.
So we are sitting there, finishing our icecream, and still nothing, no will to approach, I mean, no real way my dumb brain can convince itself it can do it. There are two couples of cute girls around us, one to each side, plus a bunch of hot girls scattered around the place, but they are starting to leave, as it's almost closing time. I tell my friend "let's do just another putivolta", and he agrees, though he's kinda bummed out and wants to leave already. I keep encouraging him pointing out how hot those girls around us are, and how cool it would be if we could pick up some of them. I also point out this guy walking around with his big, cute dog, hoping to to get girls attention (most of them just ignore him, but eventually he's talking to some), and joke that we should buy some dogs to get girls.
As we are almost leaving, I see this short, veeery sexy (bleached) blonde looking at me, kinda smiling, and she's so hot and looking like she wanted me to approach that suddenly I know that I'll kick myself afterwards if I don't do anything. So I kinda stop, and tell my friend to wait for me, he tells me, ok. I kinda start walking towards her, taking the long way (there's some decorative little trees between us) towards her, but as I'm halfway there, I can't stop thinking about what the fuck am I going to say to her, how this is weird, how she could reject me, that I'll be inconveniencing her friend, and all those bullshit thoughts that I know are all just me being a pussy and my brain trying to fuck me up. But still, I can't do it (yet), so I just go back to my friend (dunno if she saw me, to be honest), and tell him I can't do it, that I'm a big chicken...
So he just tells me (to my surprise) that "we won't be leaving until you approach!", kinda smiling, but kinda serious, not moving an inch!
Somehow, this was just the push I needed: I couldn't leave (or course I could, but my dumb brain can't tell the difference, maybe?), so I just HAD to approach this girl. Suddenly, it's like an objective I HAVE to get done, and just a check on a list, so I STOP thinking about all this bad stuff that is gonna happen. Now, I'm just like I'll just approach this girl, I've done this a thousand times (more like a couple of hundred, but you know what I mean) in night clubs and parties, this can't be that different. It doesn't matter that I say, I just got to walk up and talk to this girl, and it's done, easy peasy.
I walk up to them, on the most confident way I can at this point.
As I get there, I don't know exactly if I should approach both of them or what, her friend is not really my type but I wouldn't mind having her too lol
I just stand there for a second, in front of them, they kinda stop talking and the girl that was eye fucking me before does the game again, so I know it's game on:
"Hi, how are you?
", looking very much into her eyes and doing my best to convey intent
"Hi, I'm fine, hbu?"
"I'm great, what is your name?"
"I'm M, nice to meet you"
"I'm B, nice to meet you too.
Sooo, I thought you were really cute I just wondered if you could give me your Instagram or something like that...", at this point I can tell that I'm going too much in autopilot, the last approach I did was like an year ago, hot little blondie from some club during Carnival, and I really just got her Instagram, but it was like suuuuper on, as she saw me almost devouring some chubby cute girl, and she pretty much getting wet there with me, and me also kissing some other hot girl there (and being a cool, funny, sociable guy overall).
I'm thinking in my head I should have tried to at least kiss this girl then and there, but she's with her mask on, I'm with my mask on, police is inside already kinda overseeing people leaving, so I thought I best not try to push my luck. Also, it's pretty much my first approach on some random place, it wasn't exactly daygame (as it was night, to start with), but it also wasn't the club/party game I'm used to, so I'm a little nervous. She answers:
"Yeah, sure", so I hand my phone for her to type her to follow herself, my hands kinda shaking a bit, I try my best to not show, but dunno, I think just how fast I tried to unlock my phone and give it to her would already give up how nervous I was (not thaaaat much, but nervous, for sure). She follows herself, her account is private, then she tells me: "I'm gonna follow you back when I can... yadayadayada" (something like that, I couldn't quite understand exactly what she said).
Thinking back now, I should suggest some date and then try to get her number, or even IG or whatever, but getting her to agree on a date would have been much better. But, again, it was like my first approach like that, coming out of the blue, so I don't beat myself for it too much.
Also, there's rumors (more like my aunt that works at some medical stuff) that next week we gonna have some total lockdown starting, due to how things are going here, so no dates anymore. Also, this beautiful smart girl I'm going out with for a while now said her mom is out of town this week, so I'm gonna be fucking the shit out of her at hers, hopefully (she kinda wanted me for "something a bit more serious" and I agreed, now I'm kinda, well, I want something a more "open", but she was telling me she felt like I only wanted sex, and I eased her mind about that, so I think we're good and I'm not leading her on or anything). Anyway, those are silly reasons not to ask her on a date, so shame on me, but oh well, whatever.
Ms. M still haven't followed me back (or even accepted me to see her IG, which I found kinda weird), and it's been more than a day now, so maybe she was just being nice, seeing how excited I was to meet her? No idea really, I was kinda bummed out she seemed so receptive and then... nothing.
But at least, now I feel like I can approach girls... well... anywhere really, at least when I feel like the girl wants me to, when the game is "on". It seems very silly, but I feel like this is a little of a big breakthrough for me, really (my friend was like "I can't believe you actually did it man, she was the hottest girl here, you're a legend!" lol, nice to have such a hypeman). Moving forward, I'll try to approach girls in more unfamiliar situations/places, and try to tweak my approach to actually get something off of it (to be honest, I have no idea how much talking to build familiarity you need with most girls, in clubs you mostly just build sexual tension and try and close, with this one I went from opening straight into closing lmao). I'm very grateful for my friend for going out with me this day, and for myself, for staying there and trying to get something.
Peace yall ✌
So we got there, and as we are in line, there are those two hot girls in front of us (this place tends to attract some posh girls that go there overdressed, looking for some attention, I can only assume). The shorter one on the left have a deliiicious big round butt and an average (cute-ish?) face, while the taller one, on the right, has a more beautiful face, but less of an impressive body (though I would still bang the shit out of her). My friend tells me:
"The shorter one is mine!"
"I'm very okay with that", as I didn't quite realised yet how big and delicious the other girl's ass (and tights) were
I look a bit better at it, and damn, she looks hella fine, and I say "Well, now I understand why you wanted her lol" (I'm almost getting hard seeing this girl, with her little boots with high heels, pantyhose, a little wool-ish skirt really accentuating the shape of her butt, it's cold here in the south of Brazil and those girls are managing to look both classy af and super sexy at the same time).
Generally there's not a line to enter this place, that is more of a collection of little food/drink stores all together, but there's a buuuunch of people there (apparently clubs and bars are forbidden, but places like that being packed are fine). One police car eventually gets there, the coppers are talking to the owner, apparently, but it seems the whole line is managing to keep the place within the rules.
Some guy that works there goes walking by the line and telling everyone there's not any alcohol there anymore being served, so a bunch of people (including some hot girls) start leaving the line. My friend tells me we should bounce and start looking for an Uber to get us to some other place that is open. I tell him:
"Dude, you can drink alcohol anyday of the week at home, why do you wanna leave now?", I'm talking kinda louder than usual so the girls around can maybe hear us (I'm not screaming though lol). "Though that's kinda bad, I drink a lot at home, become an alcoholic, then I go to rehab, come back, then rinse and repeat" (I said jokingly, and the girls in front of us seemed like they found it funny, dunno)
"What's the fun in drinking soda with our food in a Saturday?"
"You gotta a point", I said, "but it's already kinda late," (it was like almost 8PM, and place are closing 10PM at most around here now) "plus we don't know if this other place is even gonna be open, police might show up there, plus look at those hawwwt girls here, Jeeesus" (this part I say a bit quiter lmao).
After that, there was some uncertainty with the people on the line that were still there, but all that people leaving made us get inside sooner. Sadly, the weird vibe kinda killed my will to talk with the girls in front of us, though most of it was just me being a pussy, really. The truth is, I've had some success with girls, but I pretty much only cold approached in night clubs, and they are now all closed (I've bedded some girls from social circle and Tinder, but the ones I fucked or even kissed from cold approach were all from night clubs or uni parties). So I really struggle to believe that I'm able to approach girls in place that aren't quite made for people to meet up and where it isn't super expected that people make out with randoms (and there's no alcohol, of course dutch courage helps...).
We get inside, the lady getting us there asks where we wanna sit, we say in the second floor, where we can get a better view of the place and it tends to have some hot girls. But we get there, and there's only a few big groups of people like celebrating birthday or shit like that, not any girls that might be game or even that hot (also we just saw bootylicious girl and her friend sitting on a table downstairs), so we decide to switch. We get some beer (apparently the guy just said that to discourage people from getting in, as the place was quite packed already and police was there), mine tastes like butt, but ok. We eat some skewers, while we watch those hot girls moving around with her friends. Most of them are just with one girlfriend, so it would be perfect for us to approach, but this friend of mine is generally not that great at approaching, and I'm also a bit in a state of too much approach anxiety on those less familiar environments.
After eating we leave our table to move around and take a better butcher at those chicks, my friend is like "we gonna lose our table!" but I'm like "who cares, we don't wanna be just sitting around like two lazy fucks anyway", so we go and do our little "putivolta" (if you haven't ever watched Acapulco Shore, girls in this show say this to refer to walking around while looking for people to "mingle" with, it's kinda of a portmanteau of "hoe" and talking a walk/look "around" - in the original Spanish I believe it's said "putivuelta", I just use the Brazilean version, pretty much the same hehe).
Still, I don't approach any girls, some of them give me, or my friend, approach invitations, and some look so fine I wanna approach anyway, but my fear of rejection just gets me. I feel kinda bad, but I still wanna stay in there and see if I can summon the courage to do it, somehow (as often I did, with little to no effort, on those places).
After a while we decide to get some icecream (I really like having icecream when it's cold for some reason, I feel like it helps me get warmer somehow, though at this point it feels warmer there). I took off my stilish leather jacket a while ago, since inside it didn't feel this cold, I feel a bit underdressed as the only good shirt I had is white and also my jeans only good jeans available were light brown, so there's very little contrast (though these pants do make my cock appear a bit bigger lmao). I'm also wearing my usual Adidas black & white shoes, I love how durable those are and how stilish but also casual they look, I don't really like wearing "proper leather shoes" as I was forced to wear them back in police school everyday and I hated them.
So we are sitting there, finishing our icecream, and still nothing, no will to approach, I mean, no real way my dumb brain can convince itself it can do it. There are two couples of cute girls around us, one to each side, plus a bunch of hot girls scattered around the place, but they are starting to leave, as it's almost closing time. I tell my friend "let's do just another putivolta", and he agrees, though he's kinda bummed out and wants to leave already. I keep encouraging him pointing out how hot those girls around us are, and how cool it would be if we could pick up some of them. I also point out this guy walking around with his big, cute dog, hoping to to get girls attention (most of them just ignore him, but eventually he's talking to some), and joke that we should buy some dogs to get girls.
As we are almost leaving, I see this short, veeery sexy (bleached) blonde looking at me, kinda smiling, and she's so hot and looking like she wanted me to approach that suddenly I know that I'll kick myself afterwards if I don't do anything. So I kinda stop, and tell my friend to wait for me, he tells me, ok. I kinda start walking towards her, taking the long way (there's some decorative little trees between us) towards her, but as I'm halfway there, I can't stop thinking about what the fuck am I going to say to her, how this is weird, how she could reject me, that I'll be inconveniencing her friend, and all those bullshit thoughts that I know are all just me being a pussy and my brain trying to fuck me up. But still, I can't do it (yet), so I just go back to my friend (dunno if she saw me, to be honest), and tell him I can't do it, that I'm a big chicken...
So he just tells me (to my surprise) that "we won't be leaving until you approach!", kinda smiling, but kinda serious, not moving an inch!
Somehow, this was just the push I needed: I couldn't leave (or course I could, but my dumb brain can't tell the difference, maybe?), so I just HAD to approach this girl. Suddenly, it's like an objective I HAVE to get done, and just a check on a list, so I STOP thinking about all this bad stuff that is gonna happen. Now, I'm just like I'll just approach this girl, I've done this a thousand times (more like a couple of hundred, but you know what I mean) in night clubs and parties, this can't be that different. It doesn't matter that I say, I just got to walk up and talk to this girl, and it's done, easy peasy.
I walk up to them, on the most confident way I can at this point.
As I get there, I don't know exactly if I should approach both of them or what, her friend is not really my type but I wouldn't mind having her too lol
I just stand there for a second, in front of them, they kinda stop talking and the girl that was eye fucking me before does the game again, so I know it's game on:
"Hi, how are you?
", looking very much into her eyes and doing my best to convey intent"Hi, I'm fine, hbu?"
"I'm great, what is your name?"
"I'm M, nice to meet you"
"I'm B, nice to meet you too.
Sooo, I thought you were really cute I just wondered if you could give me your Instagram or something like that...", at this point I can tell that I'm going too much in autopilot, the last approach I did was like an year ago, hot little blondie from some club during Carnival, and I really just got her Instagram, but it was like suuuuper on, as she saw me almost devouring some chubby cute girl, and she pretty much getting wet there with me, and me also kissing some other hot girl there (and being a cool, funny, sociable guy overall).
I'm thinking in my head I should have tried to at least kiss this girl then and there, but she's with her mask on, I'm with my mask on, police is inside already kinda overseeing people leaving, so I thought I best not try to push my luck. Also, it's pretty much my first approach on some random place, it wasn't exactly daygame (as it was night, to start with), but it also wasn't the club/party game I'm used to, so I'm a little nervous. She answers:
"Yeah, sure", so I hand my phone for her to type her to follow herself, my hands kinda shaking a bit, I try my best to not show, but dunno, I think just how fast I tried to unlock my phone and give it to her would already give up how nervous I was (not thaaaat much, but nervous, for sure). She follows herself, her account is private, then she tells me: "I'm gonna follow you back when I can... yadayadayada" (something like that, I couldn't quite understand exactly what she said).
Thinking back now, I should suggest some date and then try to get her number, or even IG or whatever, but getting her to agree on a date would have been much better. But, again, it was like my first approach like that, coming out of the blue, so I don't beat myself for it too much.
Also, there's rumors (more like my aunt that works at some medical stuff) that next week we gonna have some total lockdown starting, due to how things are going here, so no dates anymore. Also, this beautiful smart girl I'm going out with for a while now said her mom is out of town this week, so I'm gonna be fucking the shit out of her at hers, hopefully (she kinda wanted me for "something a bit more serious" and I agreed, now I'm kinda, well, I want something a more "open", but she was telling me she felt like I only wanted sex, and I eased her mind about that, so I think we're good and I'm not leading her on or anything). Anyway, those are silly reasons not to ask her on a date, so shame on me, but oh well, whatever.
Ms. M still haven't followed me back (or even accepted me to see her IG, which I found kinda weird), and it's been more than a day now, so maybe she was just being nice, seeing how excited I was to meet her? No idea really, I was kinda bummed out she seemed so receptive and then... nothing.
But at least, now I feel like I can approach girls... well... anywhere really, at least when I feel like the girl wants me to, when the game is "on". It seems very silly, but I feel like this is a little of a big breakthrough for me, really (my friend was like "I can't believe you actually did it man, she was the hottest girl here, you're a legend!" lol, nice to have such a hypeman). Moving forward, I'll try to approach girls in more unfamiliar situations/places, and try to tweak my approach to actually get something off of it (to be honest, I have no idea how much talking to build familiarity you need with most girls, in clubs you mostly just build sexual tension and try and close, with this one I went from opening straight into closing lmao). I'm very grateful for my friend for going out with me this day, and for myself, for staying there and trying to get something.
Peace yall ✌
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