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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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This is pretty short report since there really weren't any issues at all - please ask for any details, so theres not much to talk about - the only reason I'm putting it up is because this girl was amazingly fit and and is an olympic athlete seriously hot and I want to know how to keep things going despite her being away till the summer.

Basically I went to a dinner a friend had organised and casually met her when she came over to talk to our table. The rest of the meal I caught her looking at me a few times. She told me after everything that she initially thought a friend of myn was good looking but he had a gf and said that my intro was seriously strong and she wasnt used to that. Basically she said it was the standard arrogant jock type interaction she really goes for, I think she also really liked my accent and the fact that my schooling is high level. I just left it at that - some strong eye contact later. I waited till the end and went over asked for her number so our group could catch up with hers later keeping talk to a minimum. We then ended up going out for drinks as a group. Organised to go to a social event later in the evening so we split, we sat away from each other on a bus ride over in our groups - giving her plenty of space.

I went to the social playing pool and she finds me and we chat play a game of pool - she beats me... I pick her up throw her around a bit. Shes very physical strong both mentally and physically. I tell her we should go and check out london since she wants to go out and explore the next day, tell her around 7.

Very little texting - she is clearly into it she even facebooks me that she had a good time. Very relaxed texting next day - call her tiger in the texts.

We meet up go to a few bars show her around, I probably let her have one drink too many, basically it was a sealed deal after the first two bars and should have shortened and simplified the date, so if anything we had too much of a good time - drunk girls are not as fun but she wanted to get smashed, kiss teasing her she clearly wants to kiss I tease her and suck on her lips a little. She sobers up a bit by the time we get back - really quite quick to sex - no resistance - I think this is all down to the teasing and a little the alcohol. We have sex shes so flexible! I make her squirt and she says that its normal for her. We do it about 3 times, twice once she's sobered up and then go to sleep. In the morning she is resistant to doing it again. I think I needed to have a chat with her like in the "walking the line" article since she says she already feels too guilty. Its her one month anniversary (although shes been seeing him for longer) the next day with her bf. I say ok - could have done some good here I feel

We have breakfast and she gets a cab, she leaves back to ireland where she lives - she does plan to come back for the whole summer but this clearly isnt a short term prospect.

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We had a long 2 hour skype convo 4 days after she got back and we talked about a lot, quite a bit about sex - she feels I'm one of the few people she can talk to about it and shes very inexperienced - she doesnt really feel guilty about her BF that much - especially since it turns out he got with his ex while she was away! And she made him feel guilty about it!
Shes invited me to come and visit her there but it was clear that when I brought it up it was too early to start planning that in this convo. A small issue is that her bf is apparently good in bed and they have A LOT of sex - not likely thats going anywhere down - although a major point of interest: he comes around her place and bascially almost lives there now - she said she feels like its going to get really intense or already is - she seems unsure how to feel about this. I thought this might be a good place to step in - I am could be something she should have on the side to stop things getting too serious for her and her getting hurt - this guy is clearly not at her level in most other things than meatheadedness and at this age its only a matter of time right.

I've told her I'm seeing someone but its a little less serious and intense and that I only see her once a week

What should my plan be in these skype convos - I get the feeling like she really respects me and sees me as experienced (shes only 18) so she wanted to hear all about my crazy sex - althogh I dont want to give her too many ideas or shell do them all with her bf before I get another try! Bascially this girl is seriously cool intelligent and smoking hot and I want to know how I can maximise my chances to go as far as possible with her possibly on a visit over and when she comes to stay in the summer. Ideal situation would be that she is with her bf for now for convenience but actually wants to be with me - which then happens in the summer. At the moment I'm taking it cool and she just texted me "happy v day :)"
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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UPDATE

this girl has been texting me occasionally - nice sort of friendly texts - not sure how to respond - I cant see her since shes not in the country.... so whats the aim? I"ve tried to get sexual but she resists it....talk to her - become too friendly? dont talk to her - loose touch...

I;m thinking just talk and flirt a little - but over text I feel this gets dry


thinking maybe set up a weekly skype date
 

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Space Monkey
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I once had a buddy in your exact situation. He just skyped her occasionally (maybe once or twice a week - always with a shirt off) until he finagled a way to get her to come back for a mini-vacation. I think he got her to take off her shirt too at one point. Charming lad, he was.

He then bailed on her by telling her he couldn't meet at the last second and went off to some sports game.

She kept on skyping.

*shrug*
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Gentle_Phrases said:
I once had a buddy in your exact situation. He just skyped her occasionally (maybe once or twice a week - always with a shirt off) until he finagled a way to get her to come back for a mini-vacation. I think he got her to take off her shirt too at one point. Charming lad, he was.

He then bailed on her by telling her he couldn't meet at the last second and went off to some sports game.

She kept on skyping.

*shrug*
hmmm - yeh I think I'll just lay off - she seems quite into her bf at the moment - they are sexing alot so there isnt much I can do from here an things seem a little tryhard. Just wait till she either invites me again or comes back.... just need some experience as to what would be best till then
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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