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So, a girl basicly threw herself at me at a bar...

darklarik

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Just looking for some general advice, havent had this happen to me this smoothly :v
Literally was drooping by a bar (to say hi and chat with a friend) on my way home after another bar after my other friends left home, i get their, i look around, my friend left, then, basicly, this really hot chick, who is chilling with her girl friend and her 2 guy friends, just looks at me (word of note, i recently did a bit of a huge make over to myself, hair, clothes, beard, im basicly looking rad as hell), and jsut asks for my name and attention then just goes straight to the "Has anyone ever told you your increadibly good looking?" She was not drunk btw.

So we chatted, turns out she was trying to decide between me and 2 other guys, i (and with of one of her buddys), convinced her i was the best choice. So after the other 2 guys left, we made out, and she needed to go home. Now, unfortunately, i couldent go back to her house (she said she really wanted me to go with her too) since her girl friend was visiting her from another province for the day and was crashing at her place. So, i got her number, said i would love to see her again, which she reciprocated, and left. Soon as i get home she adds me on facebook too.

So, this was last night. How should i go about this? Should i wait a day? Should i strike today (not sure ill be able to ima kinda busy), ask her out during the week? What kind of text should i shoot with (and yes i read the texting made simple article), because she was already super into me it seems. Never had a girl shoot herself at me this quickly (taken i am looking like a boss now).

Word of note: Last month had a huge breakup, still a little shaken, not looking for anything serious. Maybe a friends with benefits? or somethin along those lines.

Soo, tips, advince? please?
 

ray_zorse

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Don't overthink this! Yeah sure strike while the iron's hot... did u send an icebreaker? My theory is to send the icebreaker 1-4hrs after meeting, if she doesn't respond to the icebreaker NEXT, and if she does then setup the date the next day for my next available dating window. By the way I suggest to ignore the special circumstances around this and treat as any other seduction, one thing you have going for you is she initiated and seemed keen but there's a number of things against you (1) you made out with her and didn't seal the deal (2) you met her in nightgame and are now trying to date her, emotions cool a lot by the light of day (3) verbalizing too much stuff in regard to attraction tends to kill the tension. It would have been smarter to tease her a bit and not make out with her until you had her isolated. Anyway who knows, she may be legit. Invest a little to reward her large investment to date. But look out for signs of friendzoning or missed window behaviour (she acts like everything is fine and nothing has changed since her ardent expressions of attraction, but strangely throws up millions of roadblocks to you moving anything forward) and if you see those then instantly cut all investment and just leave her hanging, either NEXT or let her move things forward.
Ray
 
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