“St. Patrick’s Day Parade After-party”
So in my city there are several bars that have events after and probably during the parade. However, I have NEVER gone to anything other than the parade. So I drove by well after the parade, and went to eat at a bar/restaurant. While in line I meet two girls, I ask them what I missed and where to go. They drunkenly but politely told me where (while shocked that as a resident, I didn’t know). I bought them a snack. It didn’t cost much and I figured I would be polite back. Instead of sitting with them (uninvited), I ordered a beer in the separate part of the place (you have to if you want it) and scoped out the place. After not really getting anywhere with anyone else, I caught the girls before they left to thank them again and ask for their names in case I see them later (a third girl arrived). I got their name and went off to the other bar. (But I forgot those names by drink #2) I chatted with a few people here and there, and then hit the dance floor. Anyway, I opened 7 girls, and got 1 number. Here’s the rundown 3 were too drunk, 2 took a pass, 2 gave me a good conversation (one of which gave me her number). One of the girls that I had a good conversation with, insisted on finding her friends. I should have told her that we should let them chase us, and turn that into a game. Also, there was a girl that kept staring at me on the dance floor, but after I danced with her the guy (boyfriend?) that danced with her earlier started fussing with her. (I really should have gotten more numbers). Anyhow, there was this pretty brunet that I met from a city nearby. I told her that her hair was pretty (truth), and that I wanted to know her name; asked where she was from; what brought her out tonight; etc. I chatted a bit more about stuff going on around us, and eventually got the number. I was nervous but called. Here is an article on 1st phone calls: https://www.girlschase.com/content/tacti ... -call-girl. Unfortunately, when I called back she seemed hazy and not single. So here’s my take away: 1) If you want to dance you have actually take someone by the hand; 2) ALWAYS, ask if they’re single; 3) The conversation happens off of the dance floor; 4) In day game there’s no drunken fog to contend with, but sadly no liquid courage and less social context. If you guys have any notes to add, please let me know.
So in my city there are several bars that have events after and probably during the parade. However, I have NEVER gone to anything other than the parade. So I drove by well after the parade, and went to eat at a bar/restaurant. While in line I meet two girls, I ask them what I missed and where to go. They drunkenly but politely told me where (while shocked that as a resident, I didn’t know). I bought them a snack. It didn’t cost much and I figured I would be polite back. Instead of sitting with them (uninvited), I ordered a beer in the separate part of the place (you have to if you want it) and scoped out the place. After not really getting anywhere with anyone else, I caught the girls before they left to thank them again and ask for their names in case I see them later (a third girl arrived). I got their name and went off to the other bar. (But I forgot those names by drink #2) I chatted with a few people here and there, and then hit the dance floor. Anyway, I opened 7 girls, and got 1 number. Here’s the rundown 3 were too drunk, 2 took a pass, 2 gave me a good conversation (one of which gave me her number). One of the girls that I had a good conversation with, insisted on finding her friends. I should have told her that we should let them chase us, and turn that into a game. Also, there was a girl that kept staring at me on the dance floor, but after I danced with her the guy (boyfriend?) that danced with her earlier started fussing with her. (I really should have gotten more numbers). Anyhow, there was this pretty brunet that I met from a city nearby. I told her that her hair was pretty (truth), and that I wanted to know her name; asked where she was from; what brought her out tonight; etc. I chatted a bit more about stuff going on around us, and eventually got the number. I was nervous but called. Here is an article on 1st phone calls: https://www.girlschase.com/content/tacti ... -call-girl. Unfortunately, when I called back she seemed hazy and not single. So here’s my take away: 1) If you want to dance you have actually take someone by the hand; 2) ALWAYS, ask if they’re single; 3) The conversation happens off of the dance floor; 4) In day game there’s no drunken fog to contend with, but sadly no liquid courage and less social context. If you guys have any notes to add, please let me know.
