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Social Circle Advice?

Blondie

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Apr 14, 2013
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I moved abroad recently and I have an unfamiliar situation on my hands. I've lived here long enough to make alot of friends at my current school and many other international schools near mine (largely due to the social graces learned form this site, thanks a million!). This normally would be a great thing but it is to the point where almost half the people my age out at clubs or bars I have either met before or we have several mutual friends. This makes english speaking attractive girls who I can really "cold approach" hard to find. Due time to sharpen up my social circle game.

My question here is for any of you who have any "social circle game" advice to post it here so we can all grow of the better!

Thanks for reading and any advice helps!
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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Dec 20, 2012
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I don't have a ton of experience, but its best to keep things on the periphery for social circle. Ideally it would be someone who you haven't talked to before or isn't in your friend group. Say a friend of a friend.

This way there is less judgement less of a problem as well as a safety valve if things go bad "ah it's whatever I didn't really know them anyways"
 

dvjackson

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Apr 16, 2013
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Remember everyone's name and use them frequently, even if you never hang out with them. Simply demonstrating that you have broad familiarity with everyone surrounding you reflects amazingly well on you.
Flirt(lightly) with every girl. Don't be selective. This is generally good advice but it's important here because an "everyone knows everyone" environment can breed jealously and drama when you pick and choose only certain girls to give your attention to. If you're just a flirt then it won't look unusual when you actually do game a girl.
 
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