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WittyJester

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How do I start social media from scratch? I have little to no friends. No social/partying/pickup friends. How do I start from scratch. Where do I find friends who go to parties and how I find the best parties, the most attractive friends and people to do pickup with and etc?
What about social media, how do I gain a following as fast as possible with practically only 100 followers? How do I use it effectively?
 

Tr1cky

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First question is why do you want to develop a social media and/or have a large following?

Why do you feel you need "cool" friends in order to game? Game is a solo sport.

Once you develop game, applied charisma, you will meet people and bring them into your life naturally. If people dont WANT to be around you, your game is off.
 

WittyJester

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First question is why do you want to develop a social media and/or have a large following?

Why do you feel you need "cool" friends in order to game? Game is a solo sport.

Once you develop game, applied charisma, you will meet people and bring them into your life naturally. If people dont WANT to be around you, your game is off.
I have absolutely nothing going on in my life. I have charisma but I stay at home practically all the time. Having a social life is doing activists as a group.
Also, game does not have to be a solo thing. Part of the experience at least from my perspective is being able to enjoy your conquests with friends and share theirs/yours.
 

WittyJester

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First question is why do you want to develop a social media and/or have a large following?

Why do you feel you need "cool" friends in order to game? Game is a solo sport.

Once you develop game, applied charisma, you will meet people and bring them into your life naturally. If people dont WANT to be around you, your game is off.
In day game, they suggest joining a community but they don’t give any example of what types of communities or where.
 

WittyJester

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First question is why do you want to develop a social media and/or have a large following?

Why do you feel you need "cool" friends in order to game? Game is a solo sport.

Once you develop game, applied charisma, you will meet people and bring them into your life naturally. If people dont WANT to be around you, your game is off.
Social media is a form of value. Social media matters to women therefore it most be important to males. Having high value friends is a form of value giving me easy Access to hotter women.
 

ElderPrice

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Step 1: Create social media profiles.
Step 2: Go where these cool, attractive people go. For example, nightclubs. Go to one. When you see cool people, talk to them and try to befriend them. When you see a couple guys approaching women that clearly aren't in their group, talk to them and befriend them. They're probably working on game.

Don't get your hopes up initially because you may come across as a little needy, but keep at it and soon enough you should have cool friends who do fun things, and some that like to develop their skills approaching women.
 

Toby2030

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Which communities to join is indivdual. What do you like to do and use your life on? Go do that, and you'll quickly meet a lot of new people. Your job at that point is then to be invitational and make shit happen. Create events, suggest things to do, let people introduce you to their friends etc.
 

WittyJester

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Which communities to join is indivdual. What do you like to do and use your life on? Go do that, and you'll quickly meet a lot of new people. Your job at that point is then to be invitational and make shit happen. Create events, suggest things to do, let people introduce you to their friends etc.
Step 1: Create social media profiles.
Step 2: Go where these cool, attractive people go. For example, nightclubs. Go to one. When you see cool people, talk to them and try to befriend them. When you see a couple guys approaching women that clearly aren't in their group, talk to them and befriend them. They're probably working on game.

Don't get your hopes up initially because you may come across as a little needy, but keep at it and soon enough you should have cool friends who do fun things, and some that like to develop their skills approaching women.
what do you do for entertainment during quarantine? Besides tv and reading
 

FunGuy

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Social media is a form of value. Social media matters to women therefore it most be important to males. Having high value friends is a form of value giving me easy Access to hotter women.
Im gonna have to cosign with Tr1cky, you have to be honest with yourself and question why ur suddenly interested in creating a social circle and getting followers on social media. The answer you gave is extremely ambiguous.

Chances are that what you seek to gain from building a social circle and social media following is actually more work than seeking it in another way. My guess is that your doing it to get with women.

Considering that you have absolutely no social circle at the moment, you would have to build one by meeting new people. Best way of doing this is to find social hobbies you enjoy doing and meet people there. You could use that time cold approaching women instead, its up to you to decide what is a better investment of your time.
 

Toby2030

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@WittyJester I work a lot, exams, dates, going out to parks and cooking food with friends, private parties, rented a cottage for a week at the ocean with friends, playing soccer/volleyball/wakeboard etc... Do what you want to do, and invite people to do it with you. I can understand that it's hard to meet new people under corona and join new communities. But plan out what you want to do once everything is normal again.
 

Mondo

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As some of the other guys already pointed out, there are better ways to make new friends.

When life gets back to normal, I would join some sort of class or activity. The more you're genuinely interested in it, the better.

Pick up soccer, art classes, dance classes, improv, etc.

Shit, just approach a dude you think is cool. One of my best friends I cold approached because I thought he was cool. lmao.
 

WittyJester

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As some of the other guys already pointed out, there are better ways to make new friends.

When life gets back to normal, I would join some sort of class or activity. The more you're genuinely interested in it, the better.

Pick up soccer, art classes, dance classes, improv, etc.

Shit, just approach a dude you think is cool. One of my best friends I cold approached because I thought he was cool. lmao.
Cold Approach dudes? I feel that would be so awkward
 

WittyJester

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@WittyJester I work a lot, exams, dates, going out to parks and cooking food with friends, private parties, rented a cottage for a week at the ocean with friends, playing soccer/volleyball/wakeboard etc... Do what you want to do, and invite people to do it with you. I can understand that it's hard to meet new people under corona and join new communities. But plan out what you want to do once everything is normal again.
That’s awesome. My problem is I feel like I need friends to make friends type of thing. I want to go to private parties and I haven’t been to any in a long ass while
 

Mondo

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Cold Approach dudes? I feel that would be so awkward

You're going to have to put yourself out there and do something like a cold approach anyway to meet people.

When I met this guy I saw him stop a cute girl and talk to her. I was actively looking for friends because I had just moved to the area and walked up to him. "Hey, I saw you chat up that girl. That takes balls man, and I appreciate that kind of thing in a person."

He's one of my best friends now, and this also led to a business opportunity where I had a passive income for a few months.

Fortune favors the bold.
 
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