long story short. I broke up with my last gf almost two years ago and since then I've been single. I've hooked up with quite many chicks during this time but ideally I'd like to have a new steady girlfriend who I can connect to more than just sex. I rarely really like a girl. And when I do and express interest, they mostly seem not be interested in me. If I'm like "meeh, I kinda like her a bit and am kind of disinterested", they are all over me. Classic but kind of frustrating 
Recently I've hanged out a few times with a social circle girl. We know each other for a while but never been in the same close circle and never talked before. It seemed she like me too but I was slow to make a move and now in the party (we were all wasted there), she went home with my good friend. I don't know if they went to her place, but it's likely. He is a good friend of mine and he is married. Although he currently is not really interested in her wife and kind of is screwing around, then it's not really likely he is leaving her wife. It's unlikely he is really interested in her too. But I really liked her.
Can I do anything to turn it around. Try to ask her out for 1:1 for a date. If she doesn't come out, then completely stop the chase and next her?
Or next her right now before asking her out even? We have not done anything, but she should know I like her from how we interacted with each other.
She is in my close social circle I currently hang out, so I will see her either way at some point.
I'm 33, she is 27. She is an actor.
I'm quite high status but I think bit I've played my cards not right.
I'm an event producer, entrepreneur and a designer. A creative but no sure how high status I am in her eyes.
Not being super sure in myself probably caused the "rejection" in the first place.
My last breakup caused me to doubt myself sometimes which I stupid.
I tend to get oneitis a lot. I don't know why but I seem to be able to really concentrate on one girl at a time.
It was an intense loving relationship with my last gf, so the bar has been raised and casual sex interest me less. I crave for deeper connection.
Recently I've hanged out a few times with a social circle girl. We know each other for a while but never been in the same close circle and never talked before. It seemed she like me too but I was slow to make a move and now in the party (we were all wasted there), she went home with my good friend. I don't know if they went to her place, but it's likely. He is a good friend of mine and he is married. Although he currently is not really interested in her wife and kind of is screwing around, then it's not really likely he is leaving her wife. It's unlikely he is really interested in her too. But I really liked her.
Can I do anything to turn it around. Try to ask her out for 1:1 for a date. If she doesn't come out, then completely stop the chase and next her?
Or next her right now before asking her out even? We have not done anything, but she should know I like her from how we interacted with each other.
She is in my close social circle I currently hang out, so I will see her either way at some point.
I'm 33, she is 27. She is an actor.
I'm quite high status but I think bit I've played my cards not right.
I'm an event producer, entrepreneur and a designer. A creative but no sure how high status I am in her eyes.
Not being super sure in myself probably caused the "rejection" in the first place.
My last breakup caused me to doubt myself sometimes which I stupid.
I tend to get oneitis a lot. I don't know why but I seem to be able to really concentrate on one girl at a time.
It was an intense loving relationship with my last gf, so the bar has been raised and casual sex interest me less. I crave for deeper connection.
