social media is the best long-term game you can have

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

In the past couple months, something strange has started to happen to me. I used to add my matches on dating apps and approaches to my IG account and we would follow each other. As I started to upload pics and get into my photography hobby, my following started to slowly grow. It was then that I slowly started to pick up on something which has culminated to the past couple months, I was sleeping with girls who happened to meet me months ago and followed me on social media.

A key part of this is to have an attractive enough lifestyle where you are doing cool shit and taking pics of it.

I am starting to see that Instagram DMs are a better return on investment than a phone number.

The idea is that say for some reason you and a girl cannot meet right away, you'll stay in touch through IG. You take cool pics of you doing cool shit or at a cool event, she will pick up on it, as long as what you told her is congruent with your account. After a while she notices and the tension builds. Maybe she visits your city or happens to find a week she is free, now you pounce and capitalize.

You come into the interaction with more value shown.

As for mystery, she will be curious to find how you are living the kind of lifestyle you are and want to ask you questions about it.

So far it has worked like magic for me.

 

[sumwunimetonce]

So it seems most pics on my insta need to include me. How do you get good quality photos of yourself on a regular basis? Who do you get to take them, I need a decent number until my face does not look stupid

 

[michaelking23]

I’d love to hear some of the other pros thoughts on this. My Instagram is cool as fuck with tons of dope pics of me and me doing cool shit. I always get compliments from people I know irl (classmates, clients, friends, acquaintances etc) and people messaging me or talking to me in person about my stories and posts (I’m able to do this cool shit due to my lifestyle and work)

Texting is a tool to get a girl onto a date. Instagram has DM’s that everyone uses. Why not use Instagram the same as texting but also add her being able to somewhat get a glimpse of how much of a high value man you are?

Some cons I can think of are:

-Lots of hot girls have hella dudes in their DM’s majority of times.
-It’s usually ‘normal’ to get a girls phone number instead of an Instagram. So she might get different thoughts of you if you ask for a # instead.
-Girls probaly aren’t as active as they are in their DM’s vs texting. However, I know women are always on their phone, so if it’s been hours after sending your text or DM, you can kinda assume that’s a bad sign
-DM’s might get a more casual convo vibe (could just be my own mindset and perspective, I’d love to hear another angle)

For those guys who have an awesome IG feed, this could be a great tool to use to get a girl on a date instead of texting and risking her not responding, flaky, non intrested etc. If she loses that emotional thrill that one of the articles mentioned, and you text her the next day to set up a date, she could end up not responding. But through Instagram DM’s she can see your feed and then have somewhat of a glimpse of your value and mystery of how you’re living like that.

Hope to hear from others and their inputs

 

[Space]

Depending on your job you may want to separate your professional life (and your online presence related to that) from your private life (and its online outlets such as your Insta).

Of course if you are an investment banker then debauchery is naturally part of your job description.