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SOCIALLY SANITARY TEXTING
BUILDING SOCIAL FRAME THROUGH TEXT
3 tactics for showing women you're not a social outlier
BUILDING SOCIAL FRAME THROUGH TEXT
3 tactics for showing women you're not a social outlier
What is Social Frame?
The social frame is a concept coined by Gunwitch. It refers to the malleable social dynamics constructed in every virtual or physical interaction.
One way to build social frame is to communicate to women you're socially similar to her and not part of an opposing group. This causes her to feel more comfortable around you and....melts resistance towards exploring the exciting possibilities between you two....
It can be accomplished through text using the following 3 tactics: landmarking, implicit social proof, and othering.
1. Landmarking
Explanation: Communicate that you are familiar with her environment by mentioning relevant landmarks in locations important to her. It could be from her hometown, the city you're both living in, or any environment you're discussing that she's found herself in
HB: youre in medellin?
FOG: yeah what neighborhood are you in
HB: im in san janvier
FOG: oh, close to the metro cable. nice place.
HB: yes, very close.
HB: where do you live?
FOG: your heart
FOG: yeah what neighborhood are you in
HB: im in san janvier
FOG: oh, close to the metro cable. nice place.
HB: yes, very close.
HB: where do you live?
FOG: your heart
2. Implicit Social Proof
Explanation: Imply that you've communicated with and had relationships with other people before in work and play.
FOG: hi darling are you from around here
HB: hiii im venezuelan
HB: living in medellin.
HB: and ur canadian?
FOG: canadian yes
FOG: ive heard so much about venezuela
HB: yes?
FOG: yeah my ex girlfriend kate is venezuelan and she told me some good things and bad things about the culture
HB: ohhhh u like venezuelans?
HB: hiii im venezuelan
HB: living in medellin.
HB: and ur canadian?
FOG: canadian yes
FOG: ive heard so much about venezuela
HB: yes?
FOG: yeah my ex girlfriend kate is venezuelan and she told me some good things and bad things about the culture
HB: ohhhh u like venezuelans?
HB: so what kind of things do you like to do?
FOG: i love to volunteer at the old age home
its very fulfilling to visit with the old folk
HB: aw thats so sweet! i bet they have good stories how often do you go?
FOG: i love to volunteer at the old age home
its very fulfilling to visit with the old folkHB: aw thats so sweet! i bet they have good stories how often do you go?
3. Othering
Explanation: Compare and contrast yourself and the girl against other less desirable social groups on a topic. Communicate that its you and her vs. the other people. This forces her into a "either you're with me or against me" position.
HB: where are you from?
FOG: canada, you?
HB: im venezuelan but ive been living in colombia since 2018
FOG: ive heard so much about venezuela
HB: omg hopefully the good things about it!! our arepas are the best.
FOG: ive tried them and i agreewhats your opinion on colombian arepas?
HB: jajajaj well the ones from the coast are good and arepas de heuvo soooo good. but still prefer venezeualans jajaja
FOG: some people do not like arepas de heuvo. i cant believe it they are crazy
HB: omg get away from those people, probably theyre psychos or dont like happiness
HB: both options are not cool at all
FOG: canada, you?
HB: im venezuelan but ive been living in colombia since 2018
FOG: ive heard so much about venezuela
HB: omg hopefully the good things about it!! our arepas are the best.
FOG: ive tried them and i agree
whats your opinion on colombian arepas?HB: jajajaj well the ones from the coast are good and arepas de heuvo soooo good. but still prefer venezeualans jajaja
FOG: some people do not like arepas de heuvo. i cant believe it they are crazy
HB: omg get away from those people, probably theyre psychos or dont like happiness
HB: both options are not cool at all
