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Summary: Meet a girl at the venue where I work, number close her effortlessly.
[Lisa] Asian American [Rating: objective 8/subjective 7][Age: @22](closed)
*note: the disparity in objective/subjective rating is based on the fact that [Lisa] simply became less attractive to me as I got to know more about her personality.
Open: natural
[Lisa] showed up at the venue where I work. She was AFoG of her group, and was also throwing out a rather superior vibe. It was Halloween, and she was dressed quite sexy and looked damn good. I actually figured she would be too challenging for me at that point, so I didn't pay too much attention to her. She came back later with her friends trying to score free drinks. I told her they weren't available, but she persisted. "Tell you what," I said, "This one is for you." I handed her a free drink card.
She figured she "had" me at this point and pushed for more free drinks for her friends. "Sorry, can't help you." I said. Old me would have been bending over backwards to hook her and her friends up with drinks, but even though I figured I was destroying any chance I would ever have with her, but new I would be even worse off if I became supplicating and gave her what she wanted. She left disappointed, but then actually came back and started chatting with me later. I was mildly surprised, but made sure not to show it. Then she number closed me.
Her: "Well, I guess we'll chat again later."
Me: "I don't know how, I don't have your number."
Her: "Well, you have a phone, right?"
Me: "Yeah..."
Her: "Well let me give you my number."
My standard wing, who works with me (Red-1) was standing nearby. He has his own methods of getting girls, but he also knew old me, and could not believe how much I'd changed in a couple months. "You got that girl's number?" He asked, incredulous. I confirmed. "How??" You hardly talked to her, I'm so jealous..." I just shrugged.
Move: N/A
Escalation: N/A
Close: N/A
[Interaction Rating]: 3
It was very interesting to watch my behavior after reading GC, and compare it to how I would have reacted before. I would have been bowled right over by [Lisa]'s hotness, and her forward attitude. I would have tried to do everything possible to "get in good" with her, which of course would have been the exact wrong thing to do. Other than that though, this was not a very educational interaction.
[Lisa] Asian American [Rating: objective 8/subjective 7][Age: @22](closed)
*note: the disparity in objective/subjective rating is based on the fact that [Lisa] simply became less attractive to me as I got to know more about her personality.
Open: natural
[Lisa] showed up at the venue where I work. She was AFoG of her group, and was also throwing out a rather superior vibe. It was Halloween, and she was dressed quite sexy and looked damn good. I actually figured she would be too challenging for me at that point, so I didn't pay too much attention to her. She came back later with her friends trying to score free drinks. I told her they weren't available, but she persisted. "Tell you what," I said, "This one is for you." I handed her a free drink card.
She figured she "had" me at this point and pushed for more free drinks for her friends. "Sorry, can't help you." I said. Old me would have been bending over backwards to hook her and her friends up with drinks, but even though I figured I was destroying any chance I would ever have with her, but new I would be even worse off if I became supplicating and gave her what she wanted. She left disappointed, but then actually came back and started chatting with me later. I was mildly surprised, but made sure not to show it. Then she number closed me.
Her: "Well, I guess we'll chat again later."
Me: "I don't know how, I don't have your number."
Her: "Well, you have a phone, right?"
Me: "Yeah..."
Her: "Well let me give you my number."
My standard wing, who works with me (Red-1) was standing nearby. He has his own methods of getting girls, but he also knew old me, and could not believe how much I'd changed in a couple months. "You got that girl's number?" He asked, incredulous. I confirmed. "How??" You hardly talked to her, I'm so jealous..." I just shrugged.
Move: N/A
Escalation: N/A
Close: N/A
[Interaction Rating]: 3
It was very interesting to watch my behavior after reading GC, and compare it to how I would have reacted before. I would have been bowled right over by [Lisa]'s hotness, and her forward attitude. I would have tried to do everything possible to "get in good" with her, which of course would have been the exact wrong thing to do. Other than that though, this was not a very educational interaction.