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Gentleman,
I just turned 29 and I can tell you I've never felt better. My diet, workouts, job, and overall well being are in a great place. On top of that I am hungry for more every day.
I still have my days though, where I just don't feel it...and I am so much more aware of keeping my fundamentals locked down these days that I really notice when I am not on my game. And sure enough it always seems like I have my best opportunities to meet new women when I am not "feeling" at my best. No witty remarks, no solid eye contact, you get the picture.
Do you guys have any tips for getting out of these mini funks? 90% of the time it is only a matter of me just getting to the gym and getting a good nights sleep.
Are these mini bouts of not being at your best normal? Any tips on pulling though and approaching women when you are in this state would be greatly appreciated.
On another note: 2 months ago I posted on "Keeping your cool when a girl rocks your world" viewtopic.php?f=3&t=2201#p9985
Well this girl and I have stayed in touch and I can tell you, the tables have turned. I went from falling into being softer than baby shit with this one to having her chase me....my tactic? One you will see in this forum and message board time and time again. I stopped caring if I ever saw her again and focused completely on myself and meeting other women. I'm getting fitter, stronger, and feeling better every day. I took a vacation for myself, received a Top 30 under 30 award in my industry, and feel like I am kicking ass.
I have a date with a hot brunette who works in my building on Friday while the girl I was formally chasing just sent me a pic of her ass in some very nice undies if I do say so myself.
Now I've chased this girl before, and now I have her initiating conversation, sending me pics, giving me details on her life I don't ask about etc. Anyway...this girl did rock my world and I would love to get with her again. But this is usually where I fuck up. I lose my cool and start texting with my cock and balls.
I'm a busy guy, and I have roommates, do you guys think it's to risky to propose getting a hotel room with this girl next week? As in asking her what her schedule is and playfully asking for a dirty mid week rendezvous ?
A two part post I know but any advice would be much appreciated.
I just turned 29 and I can tell you I've never felt better. My diet, workouts, job, and overall well being are in a great place. On top of that I am hungry for more every day.
I still have my days though, where I just don't feel it...and I am so much more aware of keeping my fundamentals locked down these days that I really notice when I am not on my game. And sure enough it always seems like I have my best opportunities to meet new women when I am not "feeling" at my best. No witty remarks, no solid eye contact, you get the picture.
Do you guys have any tips for getting out of these mini funks? 90% of the time it is only a matter of me just getting to the gym and getting a good nights sleep.
Are these mini bouts of not being at your best normal? Any tips on pulling though and approaching women when you are in this state would be greatly appreciated.
On another note: 2 months ago I posted on "Keeping your cool when a girl rocks your world" viewtopic.php?f=3&t=2201#p9985
Well this girl and I have stayed in touch and I can tell you, the tables have turned. I went from falling into being softer than baby shit with this one to having her chase me....my tactic? One you will see in this forum and message board time and time again. I stopped caring if I ever saw her again and focused completely on myself and meeting other women. I'm getting fitter, stronger, and feeling better every day. I took a vacation for myself, received a Top 30 under 30 award in my industry, and feel like I am kicking ass.
I have a date with a hot brunette who works in my building on Friday while the girl I was formally chasing just sent me a pic of her ass in some very nice undies if I do say so myself.
Now I've chased this girl before, and now I have her initiating conversation, sending me pics, giving me details on her life I don't ask about etc. Anyway...this girl did rock my world and I would love to get with her again. But this is usually where I fuck up. I lose my cool and start texting with my cock and balls.
I'm a busy guy, and I have roommates, do you guys think it's to risky to propose getting a hotel room with this girl next week? As in asking her what her schedule is and playfully asking for a dirty mid week rendezvous ?
A two part post I know but any advice would be much appreciated.