What it do fellas, ShotCalla's back for post #2. What I will discuss in this post is about you dudes stepping y'all game up. I'm going to go through everything you guys need in order to step your game up
What you guys gotta realize is that we men are of higher value, the man is the bread winner, the man is the king, the man is the protecter and provider. You men need to change the mindsets you have of not being good enough and being afraid of these females. I understand that you can be shy and nervous, you're doing something out of your comfort zone and you don't want to look bad and get rejected. It's understandable, it's hard to put your ego out there to get hurt, but what you have to understand is you don't have too worry about it so much and make it more than what it already is.
Just think if one of your friends heard you were scared to talk to a girl, would you admit it to him? I bet not. What if he challenged you to talk to that girl that keeps eyeing you?, you gonna look like a bitch or go up to her and say whatevers on your mind just to not look like a bitch. You see that's what my point is don't worry too much about getting rejected, your getting girls for you, your talking to girls to get better experience with them.
Just realize what you're afraid of, your afraid of a 100 pound chick. This girl is smaller than you and weaker than you, 9.5 times out of ten when you get rejected she won't make a scene, it will be polite or not as bad as you think it is. Even if she's tries to shit on you, put her in her place your a grown ass man and she's a female.
Growing up I was always very aware of flaws, I notice a lot of shit and so do my cousins( it must be a family thing). But you gotta know that nobodys perfect. Use that and Put people in there place when they need to be put in it. You have to work on you and be a better you day after day. You need to save up some money and not waste it on things you dont need(buying thing for females that aren't yours is one). You guys got to get in shape and build muscle, nothing feels Better than knowing you can kick someone's ass if they look at you wrong. Treat yourself to some nice threads or what ever makes you happy. You gotta be "zen" look that up. Read chase's blog. I love his articles because it's more than just about getting girls, it makes you a better you and helps you to defeat your inner demons. Real shit. The jist of my post is YOU'RE #1 and don't let anyone tell you different.
Well that's my second post hope it helps you fellas out.
Peace,
ShotCalla
What you guys gotta realize is that we men are of higher value, the man is the bread winner, the man is the king, the man is the protecter and provider. You men need to change the mindsets you have of not being good enough and being afraid of these females. I understand that you can be shy and nervous, you're doing something out of your comfort zone and you don't want to look bad and get rejected. It's understandable, it's hard to put your ego out there to get hurt, but what you have to understand is you don't have too worry about it so much and make it more than what it already is.
Just think if one of your friends heard you were scared to talk to a girl, would you admit it to him? I bet not. What if he challenged you to talk to that girl that keeps eyeing you?, you gonna look like a bitch or go up to her and say whatevers on your mind just to not look like a bitch. You see that's what my point is don't worry too much about getting rejected, your getting girls for you, your talking to girls to get better experience with them.
Just realize what you're afraid of, your afraid of a 100 pound chick. This girl is smaller than you and weaker than you, 9.5 times out of ten when you get rejected she won't make a scene, it will be polite or not as bad as you think it is. Even if she's tries to shit on you, put her in her place your a grown ass man and she's a female.
Growing up I was always very aware of flaws, I notice a lot of shit and so do my cousins( it must be a family thing). But you gotta know that nobodys perfect. Use that and Put people in there place when they need to be put in it. You have to work on you and be a better you day after day. You need to save up some money and not waste it on things you dont need(buying thing for females that aren't yours is one). You guys got to get in shape and build muscle, nothing feels Better than knowing you can kick someone's ass if they look at you wrong. Treat yourself to some nice threads or what ever makes you happy. You gotta be "zen" look that up. Read chase's blog. I love his articles because it's more than just about getting girls, it makes you a better you and helps you to defeat your inner demons. Real shit. The jist of my post is YOU'RE #1 and don't let anyone tell you different.
Well that's my second post hope it helps you fellas out.
Peace,
ShotCalla
