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Wannabe seducers always want to stick it through a seduction
They believe that since they do things on a girl’s terms the girl would choose them over guys who would rather things were done on their own damn terms.
How wrong!
Most girls would chase down a guy that wants things done on his own terms,all things being equal, than they would a “whatever you say ,milady” kind of guy
Now don’t be silly and go around demanding that everything be done on your own terms.
There is a fine balance …
A fine line where you can have things done on your own terms while still being flexible.
Rule of thumb:if it feels like you are going out of your way to do things for her, then you are probably doing it on her terms .
A guy that wants things done on his terms is okay with dropping gals any day of the week .
For guys that haven’t done it in the past ,they may have a feeling that it is wrong to drop gals …
Why not feign being her friend ,if being her lover failed(fails?), and slip through the backdoor to get in her pants?
If you’re thinking this way , you’d be better advised to up your game.
Won’t she think of me as a bitter resentful guy ?
You’re worried about how other people think of you and are out to please them no matter how they treat you.
A carefree guy doesn’t drop chicks because he is bitter or resentful that some chick doesn’t want the seduction to progress forward.
Nuhuh.
It’s just that he’s got no interest in girls that are not compliant enough and easily gets over girls he couldn’t get…
Nor does he care what she’ll think of him.
It’s the very reason why he is carefree.
Besides he’s past that point of having to worry whether a girl likes him or does like him NOT.
He’s made peace with the fact that “you can’t get them all” .
I guarantee you these guys are the most outcome- independent guys out there.
Heck, they can drop a chick while leaving the door open for her later on if she has a moment to reconsider what she thought of him.
Dropping girls doesn’t have to be you lashing out and cursing she’ll regret what she’s done.
Instead it can be,” Boy,she isn’t cracking.I’ll bid her adieu”.
And doing that –walking away while leaving on a good note.
Who knows she’ll circle back later?
Nor does it also have to be sticking in there to turn things around when instead you are chasing
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You’re a different breed .
Chicas are used to things going their way …
Used to being pampered and being handled with soft gloves.
You can be the guy that “breaks” her out of her routine.
Yet it doesn’t have to be adversarial when you do it.
Nor do you need to be needy about moving things forward.
It’s not the end of the world when things don’t progress further as you wished.
A guy that does things on his terms does as he pleases.
And if a girl is unnecessarily lots of work for him , he can elect to go pick up one that things progresses easily with.
You should never fail to bring that asshole side of you even when you are a genuine man .
Nice guys are all OK with things not going their way and accepting their fate(s).
Loser effect behavior.
The genuine guy with his asshole side underneath never forgets that what he wants comes first ,within reason of course.
You can be him .
Chad Tyrone.
They believe that since they do things on a girl’s terms the girl would choose them over guys who would rather things were done on their own damn terms.
How wrong!
Most girls would chase down a guy that wants things done on his own terms,all things being equal, than they would a “whatever you say ,milady” kind of guy
Now don’t be silly and go around demanding that everything be done on your own terms.
There is a fine balance …
A fine line where you can have things done on your own terms while still being flexible.
Rule of thumb:if it feels like you are going out of your way to do things for her, then you are probably doing it on her terms .
A guy that wants things done on his terms is okay with dropping gals any day of the week .
For guys that haven’t done it in the past ,they may have a feeling that it is wrong to drop gals …
Why not feign being her friend ,if being her lover failed(fails?), and slip through the backdoor to get in her pants?
If you’re thinking this way , you’d be better advised to up your game.
Won’t she think of me as a bitter resentful guy ?
You’re worried about how other people think of you and are out to please them no matter how they treat you.
A carefree guy doesn’t drop chicks because he is bitter or resentful that some chick doesn’t want the seduction to progress forward.
Nuhuh.
It’s just that he’s got no interest in girls that are not compliant enough and easily gets over girls he couldn’t get…
Nor does he care what she’ll think of him.
It’s the very reason why he is carefree.
Besides he’s past that point of having to worry whether a girl likes him or does like him NOT.
He’s made peace with the fact that “you can’t get them all” .
I guarantee you these guys are the most outcome- independent guys out there.
Heck, they can drop a chick while leaving the door open for her later on if she has a moment to reconsider what she thought of him.
Dropping girls doesn’t have to be you lashing out and cursing she’ll regret what she’s done.
Instead it can be,” Boy,she isn’t cracking.I’ll bid her adieu”.
And doing that –walking away while leaving on a good note.
Who knows she’ll circle back later?
Nor does it also have to be sticking in there to turn things around when instead you are chasing
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You’re a different breed .
Chicas are used to things going their way …
Used to being pampered and being handled with soft gloves.
You can be the guy that “breaks” her out of her routine.
Yet it doesn’t have to be adversarial when you do it.
Nor do you need to be needy about moving things forward.
It’s not the end of the world when things don’t progress further as you wished.
A guy that does things on his terms does as he pleases.
And if a girl is unnecessarily lots of work for him , he can elect to go pick up one that things progresses easily with.
You should never fail to bring that asshole side of you even when you are a genuine man .
Nice guys are all OK with things not going their way and accepting their fate(s).
Loser effect behavior.
The genuine guy with his asshole side underneath never forgets that what he wants comes first ,within reason of course.
You can be him .
Chad Tyrone.
