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These are things that helped me when I was overly analytical / over analyzing, most guys have this issue, just thinking too much.
Some ideas, for what they're worth... Maybe stop thinking so much and start feeling more.
Find that deep down hunger for a girl and let it drive you. Slow down. Quiet down. Approach only the targets you're genuinely interested in. Come from a genuine place always.
Screen/ qualify more (in a genuine way, ie write down what you're looking for in a girl and start screening/qualifying for those traits). Stop thinking in terms of statistics, wins, losses, fuckups, etc. The very fact that you're thinking that way is probably holding you back. If its not blatantly obvious, which it very well may be, girls can sense that they're just a number on a quest that really has nothing to do with them. It causes incongruence.
When you get home at the end of the night I bet you aren't thinking "wow of all the girls I've met recently, Sarah was really cool, and I really enjoyed the feel of her soft lips. I think she's someone I'd like to spend more time with," but instead "#3 kiss close for the month. That's ok i guess, but I should have fucked her, had I not fucked it all up. More girls tomorrow." Big difference in attitude between the two. I'd stop keeping track of numbers entirely. Seems a very Blackdragon thing to do.
You have a massive new skill set, but seem to have hit a plateau, so time to switch it up.
Maybe go out to just enjoy yourself and not care so much about landing a girl unless one really pops at you. Maybe go out to see a band or DJ you like and not game at all for a night. Maybe pick back up a hobby you've set aside to do all these approaches.. basically try anything you can think of to get out of your head and back into yourself.
Some ideas, for what they're worth... Maybe stop thinking so much and start feeling more.
Find that deep down hunger for a girl and let it drive you. Slow down. Quiet down. Approach only the targets you're genuinely interested in. Come from a genuine place always.
Screen/ qualify more (in a genuine way, ie write down what you're looking for in a girl and start screening/qualifying for those traits). Stop thinking in terms of statistics, wins, losses, fuckups, etc. The very fact that you're thinking that way is probably holding you back. If its not blatantly obvious, which it very well may be, girls can sense that they're just a number on a quest that really has nothing to do with them. It causes incongruence.
When you get home at the end of the night I bet you aren't thinking "wow of all the girls I've met recently, Sarah was really cool, and I really enjoyed the feel of her soft lips. I think she's someone I'd like to spend more time with," but instead "#3 kiss close for the month. That's ok i guess, but I should have fucked her, had I not fucked it all up. More girls tomorrow." Big difference in attitude between the two. I'd stop keeping track of numbers entirely. Seems a very Blackdragon thing to do.
You have a massive new skill set, but seem to have hit a plateau, so time to switch it up.
Maybe go out to just enjoy yourself and not care so much about landing a girl unless one really pops at you. Maybe go out to see a band or DJ you like and not game at all for a night. Maybe pick back up a hobby you've set aside to do all these approaches.. basically try anything you can think of to get out of your head and back into yourself.
