Girlschase righteously suggests to move quick. And to kiss a girl soon after you've come back.
I don't really kiss on the mouth anymore much. I prefer neck kisses, which in my opinion have much lower resistances and can be more conducive to sexual escalation.
What I think is key is what happens after the first escalation attempt. If you receive a strong refusal, you should take it slow(er).
It's because refusal upon refusal in a short time span will do two bad things:
1. Reinforce in her mind she doesn't want
2. Keep highlighting your ineffectiveness
It happened to me a few times now that I went with this "make it happen ASAP" mentality, and it only turned out well with women who were at least somewhat receptive to begin with.
My rule of thumb is that if I can kiss her neck for at least a few seconds without being pushed back, then keep going for more and more in short succession until she starts getting into it or you can move to the bed.
But if she removes your hand very quickly, doesn't let her hand rest on your or you can't manage to kiss her (neck), you are better served by stopping for a longer while and get out of the "escalate quickly" mindset to rebuild comfort/attraction/intrigue.
I don't really kiss on the mouth anymore much. I prefer neck kisses, which in my opinion have much lower resistances and can be more conducive to sexual escalation.
What I think is key is what happens after the first escalation attempt. If you receive a strong refusal, you should take it slow(er).
It's because refusal upon refusal in a short time span will do two bad things:
1. Reinforce in her mind she doesn't want
2. Keep highlighting your ineffectiveness
It happened to me a few times now that I went with this "make it happen ASAP" mentality, and it only turned out well with women who were at least somewhat receptive to begin with.
My rule of thumb is that if I can kiss her neck for at least a few seconds without being pushed back, then keep going for more and more in short succession until she starts getting into it or you can move to the bed.
But if she removes your hand very quickly, doesn't let her hand rest on your or you can't manage to kiss her (neck), you are better served by stopping for a longer while and get out of the "escalate quickly" mindset to rebuild comfort/attraction/intrigue.