Casual/FWB STRATEGY TO RE-INTEREST A FORMER FLAME

[Anonymous]

I met a girl at school this spring, we became friends for a few weeks through a common school program and eventually things started heating up. We started having sex often up until the summer when the semester ended. She was really into me and said how she's so used to guys chasing her that chasing me was new to her and that she knew she liked me more than I liked her. The kicker is she's free-spirited and very casual about sex and loves it (had 11 partners up through the spring) and for sure has been banging other guys since then. She was one of my first consistent hookups besides girlfriends so it has been a bear trying to move on (and moving to a new area this summer hasn't helped meeting new women).

We go back to college in a couple weeks, and I need help in figuring out a game plan to rekindle a casual hookup. I realize there may be no shot and since she was already into me and we were talking/having sex she may just be shut off now. I'm thinking about hitting her up when we're both back at school and asking if she wants to hang out for a bit when she's free, have a couple drinks at my place, casual talk for a bit, and then make a move. But after not talking for months and her being with other guys I don't want to chase quickly. Is it better to hang out a bit over a drink, not make a move, then hit her up again a couple days later and make a move then? Or ask her one night if she's going out and maybe catch up at the bars and try to take her home?

Any strategy advice would be really helpful. Making this happen would clear my head.

 

[Clarity]

Also in a similar situation, advice appreciated.

 

[Chase]

New / Clarity-

It's been my experience that - provided you were the one they chased after, lusted for, and really enjoyed being with head-and-shoulders above most (or all) of their other partners - normally all you need to do is invite a girl to meet up with you and just keep things calm and semi-romantic and they will all but tackle you at some point.

I would probably suggest NOT making a move, but rather structuring the meet in such a way that the girl feels very strongly in favor of making a move herself (that is, something romantic - maybe a walk through a dark park, a movie at your place with the lights out, etc.).

Chase