J Wick,
At the end of the day, most workout programs will probably yield similar results if you push yourself and have correct form (and correct diet).
Here's a few five day routines for you to play around with:
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/wotw94.htm
Here are some rules that every good program should follow:
Squats, Deadlifts and Pull Ups are very important excrcises. Try to include them into your routine. Hire an experienced trainer if you need help correcting your form. it's well worth the money to avoid injury.
Aim for low reps to increase strength (4-8 reps). There's nothing wrong with the 10-15 range, but I find this to be a good way to get guys to overcome plateaus.
Last, make sure you eat proper. Google your calorie requirements (Harrison / Benedict is one example). Here's a link:
http://manytools.org/handy/bmr-calculator/
If you're trying to put on weight, add calories (about 300 - 500). Looking to lose weight, reduce by the same amounts. These are all guidelines. You may have to fine tune them to your personal requirements. Make sure your protein-carb-fat ratio is where it needs to be too.
You can only build about 1 - 2 pounds of solid muscle a month with a proper routine and diet. Just something to keep in mind.
If you're experiencing pain, as you said with your dips, chances are something is wrong with your form unless you have a pre-existing injury. If it's an injury, then try to change up your positioning. You can lean forward a bit to use your chest to help out. A closer grip will also utilize your triceps, wider grip can strain your shoulder more if it's bothering you.
Again, there are lots of varying opinions on this type of stuff and a variety of methods that work (as well as a lot that don't, unfortunately). So it's important to seek out reliable sources. These are just some ideas to get you started.
-John