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Recently, I have come to conclusion that the social circle game is the most effective type of game, and incorporating certain themes/situations/patterns from social circle game solves many of the issues existing in other types of game. I've been going out to the same social circle every weekend, for the last few weeks. I have built plenty of social proof and I actually get approached more often than I approach. That night, just within about 2 hours I was approached by 4 women. One of them I took to bed next evening.
APPROACH
We were in a restaurant which turns into a bar in the evening. I was locked in, sitting comfortably next to the event organizer at a table with tall chairs. I already know several people in this group, both women and men. I've been seen talking to plenty of chicks over several weeks.
Women seem to be pretty strategic with their approaches. They patiently wait until I'm out of conversation, preferably alone, maybe with one other person. In other words, they make it easy for themselves. Well done ladies.
So I got approached by this Lebanese chick. Initially we had a good conversation, then when a friend of mine came over and it died a little bit. She seemed to be more engaged talking with him than with me. I was in the abundance mood though. I knew that she was attracted to me and that I don't need to push it now. Also, this dude's game isn't that impressive, so I wasn't concerned that he would steal her from me.
CHANGE OF VENUES
At some point, a smaller group of around 10 people, they decided to change venues. I wasn't really that much interested in going clubbing, but I submitted to the social pressure and went with them
On the way to the club and in Uber this Lebanese girl kept engaging me, so we had some light banter. I hugged her when we were waiting in the line. I hugged her because I saw concern on her face as this was a high end club but she was wearing rather casual clothes.
In the venue we danced together as a group. She was a good dancer and she also liked how I danced. We complemented each other a lot. About smiles, dancing styles, fashion, etc.
ISOLATION
I isolated her somehow accidentally. Three of us (me, her and another dude), we went to have a drink. But he disappeared quickly leaving two of us alone. In isolation we talked a bit more serious (I wouldn't say very deep thought). We kissed and I pulled a seed. I asked her if she likes wine and I told her about a really great red wine I bought recently. I invited her to try the wine. And then she asked: "When?": I said, "Tomorrow". This is was the first mistake. I should have said, "After we get tired of the crowds here and want to relax in the chilled mood."
RETURNING TO THE GROUP
After the drink we returned to the group. We danced more, bantered more. It was pretty solid socially.
MISSED STAGE - 2ND GENERATION VERBALS
Unfortunately I missed this stage again. When we were isolated, I escalated physically (kissing). However, I didn't take this opportunity to prevent her potential ASD. I didn't do any sexual prizing neither and I half-hearted my pre-seed.
It seems to me that these are the three components which are still missing in my mid game.
PULLING
The pull was little weird actually. I told her that it's getting late and that we should head home and drink some of this wine I invited her for. She said I invited her for tomorrow and that I shouldn't change my mind. After a little bit of back and forth, she said that she will come to my place but tomorrow, not today. I agreed, we exchanged numbers and parted ways.
NEXT DAY
Next day, everything went as expected. We texted a little bit and she arrived at my place in the evening. We had a normal, date like conversation for about an hour or an hour and a half. Then I started escalating.
The interesting part was fractionation. Some time ago I've incorporated fractionation in my physical escalation and it seems to work wonders. Yesterday I only had to do it once though. Usually I escalate on my sofa. I push things forward and when there is resistance, I stop, we talk for few minutes, and I get back to escalation. Yesterday I did the same, but instead of just talking I went to the kitchen and brough strawberries. In the pull stage of the fractionation we were talking and eating strawberries. When I got back to push stage again, there was no more resistance. And it went straight until the end from that point. The conclusion is to use the pull stage of the fractionation for something romantic and it may melt the resistance.
APPROACH
We were in a restaurant which turns into a bar in the evening. I was locked in, sitting comfortably next to the event organizer at a table with tall chairs. I already know several people in this group, both women and men. I've been seen talking to plenty of chicks over several weeks.
Women seem to be pretty strategic with their approaches. They patiently wait until I'm out of conversation, preferably alone, maybe with one other person. In other words, they make it easy for themselves. Well done ladies.
So I got approached by this Lebanese chick. Initially we had a good conversation, then when a friend of mine came over and it died a little bit. She seemed to be more engaged talking with him than with me. I was in the abundance mood though. I knew that she was attracted to me and that I don't need to push it now. Also, this dude's game isn't that impressive, so I wasn't concerned that he would steal her from me.
CHANGE OF VENUES
At some point, a smaller group of around 10 people, they decided to change venues. I wasn't really that much interested in going clubbing, but I submitted to the social pressure and went with them
On the way to the club and in Uber this Lebanese girl kept engaging me, so we had some light banter. I hugged her when we were waiting in the line. I hugged her because I saw concern on her face as this was a high end club but she was wearing rather casual clothes.In the venue we danced together as a group. She was a good dancer and she also liked how I danced. We complemented each other a lot. About smiles, dancing styles, fashion, etc.
ISOLATION
I isolated her somehow accidentally. Three of us (me, her and another dude), we went to have a drink. But he disappeared quickly leaving two of us alone. In isolation we talked a bit more serious (I wouldn't say very deep thought). We kissed and I pulled a seed. I asked her if she likes wine and I told her about a really great red wine I bought recently. I invited her to try the wine. And then she asked: "When?": I said, "Tomorrow". This is was the first mistake. I should have said, "After we get tired of the crowds here and want to relax in the chilled mood."
RETURNING TO THE GROUP
After the drink we returned to the group. We danced more, bantered more. It was pretty solid socially.
MISSED STAGE - 2ND GENERATION VERBALS
Unfortunately I missed this stage again. When we were isolated, I escalated physically (kissing). However, I didn't take this opportunity to prevent her potential ASD. I didn't do any sexual prizing neither and I half-hearted my pre-seed.
It seems to me that these are the three components which are still missing in my mid game.
PULLING
The pull was little weird actually. I told her that it's getting late and that we should head home and drink some of this wine I invited her for. She said I invited her for tomorrow and that I shouldn't change my mind. After a little bit of back and forth, she said that she will come to my place but tomorrow, not today. I agreed, we exchanged numbers and parted ways.
NEXT DAY
Next day, everything went as expected. We texted a little bit and she arrived at my place in the evening. We had a normal, date like conversation for about an hour or an hour and a half. Then I started escalating.
The interesting part was fractionation. Some time ago I've incorporated fractionation in my physical escalation and it seems to work wonders. Yesterday I only had to do it once though. Usually I escalate on my sofa. I push things forward and when there is resistance, I stop, we talk for few minutes, and I get back to escalation. Yesterday I did the same, but instead of just talking I went to the kitchen and brough strawberries. In the pull stage of the fractionation we were talking and eating strawberries. When I got back to push stage again, there was no more resistance. And it went straight until the end from that point. The conclusion is to use the pull stage of the fractionation for something romantic and it may melt the resistance.
