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Hello guys, just want to quickly introduce myself. I am a new user here on the forums, but I have been a reader of this website for over a year now. It has transformed my life tremendously. I have become a lot more confident approaching women, and leading interaction and finally closing them. With that being said, I'm still learning the game, and would like some advice.
A few days ago I went to the auto show with a friend of mine. After walking for couple hours, we decided to rest for a little, and sat inside of a pickup truck. Within a couple of minutes this girl, who is an absolute stunner,she also happens to be a representative for one of the car makers, approaches the pickup truck from my side and starts to chat with us. She asks "Where are you guys going", so we just started joking around for a couple minutes. So she decided to get in the back seat and chat with us some more. We start talking about her work, how she travels 5 months of the year to different auto show events.
After a few minutes, she starts asking me about some of the local trendy spots I would recommend to her. She says "I sit in my hotel rooms with a bottle of wine, bored out of my mind and need to go out somewhere". I give her a few spots, she writes them down. The conversation was going great, I was teasing her about her weight saying that she needs to go to the gym, even though she was perfect, I was giving her pregnant pause when I didnt like what she was talking about. I thought, I came off as a confident guy. However, after ending the conversation and telling her we needed to get going, I thought to myself, maybe she didnt just want to find out about some local spots, maybe she really wanted a strong confident men to hang out with and show her a good time while shes in the city. She kept saying things like "Im young, outgoing, etc etc.
So my question to you guys, how should I have pushed that conversation to where I would portray myself as a confident men, who can show her a good time and ended up with her number. Keep in mind that she is a 27 year old, very well educated woman. I dont have too much experience dealing with girls who are just absolute stunners. I know that I have to treat them like any other girl and not be intimidated by her looks. But more importantly what can I do so something like this doesnt happen again? Should I just be more aggressive and push the envelope as soon as see signs of her being interested? Thank you guys.
A few days ago I went to the auto show with a friend of mine. After walking for couple hours, we decided to rest for a little, and sat inside of a pickup truck. Within a couple of minutes this girl, who is an absolute stunner,she also happens to be a representative for one of the car makers, approaches the pickup truck from my side and starts to chat with us. She asks "Where are you guys going", so we just started joking around for a couple minutes. So she decided to get in the back seat and chat with us some more. We start talking about her work, how she travels 5 months of the year to different auto show events.
After a few minutes, she starts asking me about some of the local trendy spots I would recommend to her. She says "I sit in my hotel rooms with a bottle of wine, bored out of my mind and need to go out somewhere". I give her a few spots, she writes them down. The conversation was going great, I was teasing her about her weight saying that she needs to go to the gym, even though she was perfect, I was giving her pregnant pause when I didnt like what she was talking about. I thought, I came off as a confident guy. However, after ending the conversation and telling her we needed to get going, I thought to myself, maybe she didnt just want to find out about some local spots, maybe she really wanted a strong confident men to hang out with and show her a good time while shes in the city. She kept saying things like "Im young, outgoing, etc etc.
So my question to you guys, how should I have pushed that conversation to where I would portray myself as a confident men, who can show her a good time and ended up with her number. Keep in mind that she is a 27 year old, very well educated woman. I dont have too much experience dealing with girls who are just absolute stunners. I know that I have to treat them like any other girl and not be intimidated by her looks. But more importantly what can I do so something like this doesnt happen again? Should I just be more aggressive and push the envelope as soon as see signs of her being interested? Thank you guys.
