Taking this "phone relationship" forward/ not screwing it up

[Anonymous]

So there's this girl I met online (I know what you're thinking) who doesn't live in my city. We exchanged numbers and the next day we spoke on the phone for 2 hours. And every day after that.
Of course we were not exclusive and were dating other people, but every night just after she climbed into her bed she would give me a call and would speak for more than an hour at least. This has been going on for around a week now. I initially approached the whole thing as just a fun way of getting to know someone and never imagined I would get serious about her.

I've been pretty laid back, charming and at the same time suggestively flirty, and she's been giving me lots of investment in several ways. She's also clearly told me that she absolutely loves talking to me and finds me a great person.
We've sweet talked about the two of us being together, and totally enjoy playing & imagining it out.

We're going to meet next week for the first time, and she is clearly very excited about it. Honestly I am really excited too: I've been going out with other chicks but this one is really attractive and exudes the sort of intelligence, creativity, unpredictability, and fun that I haven't encountered in a long time.

Problem is we've been talking for so long on the phone that now that (I feel) the initial "attraction" phase could soon come to an end. I already am beginning to run out of ways to keep her completely engaged and gleeful like I've been doing till now. I know it would have been so much better to have met her earlier and taken things forward in a conclusive manner, but it was difficult to get a day we were both free on.

I find myself wondering whether I should shorten or put the phone calls on hold for a bit for now so that she starts missing/wondering about me, or whether i should start flirting more aggressively (phone sex maybe?) to build up some sexual tension for when we finally meet. Is there another option?
Appreciate your help.

 

[Tyme2k]

Re: Taking this "phone relationship" forward/ not screwing i

I will give you advice based on one experience I've had. It's not your typical "Pickup" style approach as I did this before I was in pickup. I made tons of mistakes, but I did get the girl and dated her for 4 years.. gah pretty much why I'm in the game now, regret from wasting my youth. I will also incorporate more technique I've learned in the pickup game after my story.

With my ex I too met her online, many years ago now on Myspace, I know right? But I did we messaged, then began talking on the phone. Also a connection, we lived 45 minutes away, but I was pushing to make it happen. We went on our first date where she brought her little cousin cause she didn't feel like braving it alone. Who can blame her? She was 20 at the time. At first I was upset, but knew I had to play it cool. We went bowling and I kept leading and making her invest. I also befriended her litte cousin quickly with ease, if it would have been a girl cousin I probably would have done much worse.

At the end of the date I got bombarded by her family and tried to stay calm the entire time. Today I would have been the most chill mother fucker ever, but back then I was ancy and nervous. I saw her a few more times, going on dates and building a connection. Each time I would escalate further, until finally we were able to get alone and started having sex. I cant remeber the amount of dates, but I know it was quite a few. The only reason why it worked was because I became such a solid male in her life, I was doing things to make me attractive and gave her the idea of a prince charming, great boyfriend that she enjoyed spending time with. We talked about babies and gay shit that now I would never do with a girl. Let's put it this way, I got "lucky" and if I tried this with 100+ more girls it wouldn't work with a single one.

Now fast forward to game knowledge:
-Be YOU! Be the same guy she knows on the phone, relax, stay chill, don't respond to her looks like you want to.
-Smile, challenge and ask for investiment when you should.
-Eye contact
-Be sexual and physical, but use push pull. (don't let your arm linger around her/hold hands for too long, give and take so she wants more.)
-LEAD and move her
-Take her home and escalate

She might be turned on by you already, so you can try to escalate quickly or you might need to build up attraction again to get her aroused. Play it by ear, sounds like a fun experiment haha