TC journal

[TheChased]

Alright guys, I have been thinking about making a journal and decided it would be good for me to get things down on the "paper".
I think an introduction is at is place and a little background story on my life with girls.

I'm a 23 years old student who lives his life up in the cold Scandinavia. (Then you know if my English is not the best)

Background: (You can skip this if this doesn't interest you)
At the age of 20 I found this site and wanted to get good with girls in more than just relationships. I lost my girlfriend because I smoked to much and had my occasional partys with drugs. So I decided to quit all drugs and get my life straightened out. This turned out to go alright, got my self 2 FWB and some lays in nightgame. After about four months with this I had to turn down both my FWB as they started to get feelings for me. I found my self a new girl after about a week or two. I started to get feelings for her and after a while we got in a relationship that lasted two years. So after five relationships I decided that I wanted to stay single a while and get really good with girls. It's been three months since we parted our ways. This has turned out to go okey, but not so good as I wanted to, so time to change things up.

Some info about me as a seducer:
I would like to say I'm good with girls, but not the best. I've been with a model, and all my partners have been really hot.
I do not do day game. So nightgame, social circle and semi-social circle is my thing.
Fundamentals is great, I often get girls open me up, but not the "10's and 9's".

Some things I'm going to work on right now is pulling home girls that I find okey, so this will have me get better with the up top girls. I need more reference points basically. I have found my self turning down lots of cute women that is obviously DTF. She's touching me sexually and all kinds of stuff, but I am thinking in my head "This girl is below me, I can get a better one." And then I go home with my dick in my hand.

Enough about all this shit, lets get this journal going. If you want to know something, just ask me. I really like getting feedback, so feel free to tell me if there's something I could have done in a better way.

-TC

 

[TheChased]

It's Sunday now, and I'm sitting in my bed thinking about the weekend. It did not go as planed.

Wednesday:
Went on a date with a girl. Lets name her HippieGirl. We had scheduled for a coffee, but she came a bit early and asked me if I could meet her at *this* bar. I complied and we had a beer, talked a bit and then went to the harbor. Deepdived her, and she said she told me she had just told some of these things to her best friends. So I asked her if we should go to her place and continue our conversation there. She did not comply. Her word: "I don't really want to go home, I want to have an adventure." Bleeh.. So we went to a new bar. Had a glass of wine there. Talked a bit, I used touch and all that shit. Sat outside with a blanked over us and stuff. Anyways, when we left I was about to man-handle-kiss her. But what do you know, this guy she knew comes by and said hello. In less than two minutes the date was ruined. Now we where going for a beer, and this guy was joining us. Dude.. wth.. When all this was over, I followed her almost to her door. Told her we were parting our ways now, and gave her a hug. Looked her in the eyes and was about to kiss her. I don't know what happened, but she managed to makes it in to a new hug. To this day, I don't know if she knew I was about to kiss her or if she did it because she didn't want to be kissed. I said goodbye and went home.

Friday:
I had set up a date and it went down the drain. You can read about it in the general forum. (Didn't know if it was okey to post it in the FR forum as I had fucked this chick before)

Saturday:
I was a bit tired from the day before and didn't really want to go out. But a guy I know texted me and said he was in town and asked if I wanted to go out with him. I accepted and we went to his place. After some beers we got invited over to a hotel room by a girl he knew. We went over and it was now me, him and HotelGirl. Both of them started to get pretty drunk after a while. So my buddy decided he should take a nap before we went out. I just talked a bit with HotelGirl. It was just 30mins until we were suppose to go out. She had been touching me all night, but after my buddy fell asleep, she started to make these moaning sounds or something when she touched me. It was a bit weird, but I knew what she meant by it. I wasn't really attracted to this girl, she was to drunk and weird. I started to get a bit tired and then I laid down on the bed. She then mounted me. My thoughts: What the fuck?. Hahah.. she then started to kiss me on the neck. I just laid there! She was a bit to drunk for my taste. After a while we kissed lightly, but then I stood up and tried to wake my buddy so we could go out. Nothing.. It was impossible to wake him. I even slapped him in the face. My buddy: "Noo, me need sleep". So I decided to go out alone. The night turned out to be boring, nothing really special happened. I had a long conversation with one girl, but nothing happened there. I was to tired, so I just went home.


Yeah.. I should start taking action, could have, should have just fucked that girl. I know I wouldn't learn anything game-vise from it, as I already had her. But I think it's a state of mind thing. I have lost some girls because I thought I could get something better that night. Sometimes it has turned out great, but I don't like the odds of missing out on a cute woman in hopes of something better. There will always be something better. A less cute one today could become a new and cuter girl tomorrow.

In the the light of the week I started to text(facebook) a girl that have been giving me some looks at collage. I know I should only use texting and what not to get a date going, but yeah.. was in a bad mental state. I think I fucked it up at some point, she stopped to text me back. Haha, got to get my shit together now. I know I can be a better man. Thinking of asking HippieGirl out for a new date.

Cheers
-TC

 

[TheChased]

My mind has not been on top today. I don't know what's happening, but I'm so much in my head and I have no spark. I feel like I have to get out and just be social all the time, meet new people and get this spark I know I have inside me back. I didn't care about anything today, friends and other people where talking, but I just participated in the conversations when I really really really had something to say. But it was hard, it was like I didn't care about what they said. I hate it. I've been in the far other end, the social butterfly, and I would actually say that it was better than this. Sleep has been on and off. So it's probably done a impact. I've been to lazy to work out, if I'm going to be honest here. So this has to change too if I want to improve. It's GOING to change, right this moment! A lot of work is a head of me, but I will take it on with open arms. Embrace the change!

I have done a lot of research this month on GC, but now I'm going to apply it. So I'm steering myself in a better direction. Enough reading and research, now it's action time!

Getting a new haircut today, as I have found that a bit shorter hair is better for me than the hair length I have now.

See you next time, with a better haircut and more action taken!
-TC

 

[TheChased]

Yeah baby, stuff has happened already!

Got that haircut, but it's too short now.. I was bowling with some friends and a random girl said I looked 7years younger than what my real age is. But she was eyeballing the rest of the night, so she probably regretted saying it, as she most def wanted me Hahaha, whatever, it will grow out!
Also started working out again, and I feel better already! The muscles will come back pretty fast I think. Because of muscle memorization, my knowledge is far better than two years ago, and I'm working out with a friend who's a personal trainer.

I have a good wardrobe and a good sense of style already, but I felt like I had to upgrade some stuff to make it even better. Bought me a nice scarf, two new casual shirts that fits perfectly, and three new white V-t-shirts. Trowed away some clothes with fits that didn't work, so I don't waste time when I'm looking through my drawers.

No dates this week as my schedule has been a bit packed, but next week will be good. I will come back to that later. For the weekend I'm going out both friday and saturday. A swedish girl from Tinder asked if I was going out this weekend, so we'll see if I meet her. I don't like meeting girls I already has a chance on when I go out. As I want to meet new girls/people when I go out. I did some research on tinder on the forum here, and I must say it is golden. I only have 4 good pics in different situations, I get some rapport and then ask for their number or a date right away. Must say, after I started using smileys, the girls are much warmer. I also have tried some different tactics to see what gets best responses. I'm more keen on meeting women in real life than over Tinder, but I haven't tried it before, so I'm doing it for fun mostly and experience.

I texted HippieGirl yesterday, so heres how the conversation went:
[12] Me: The week has treated you well? What do you say about having some fun again?
[12] Her: Yeah, a bit You? Yes, but I'm broke so it will be hard-_-
[12] Me: My weekend was a bit heavy, but fun We can make some food, you need that anyways
[13] Her: hahah, yeah the weekend was awesome That can work
[19] Me: haha, nice! My week is pretty packed now, what days work for you next week?
No response yet, but no worries. Just gonna wait until sunday or monday and see what happens.

Also got four numbers, one girl who I think knows my ex. I think they're studying the same thing, and have classes together. I would like to fuck her just because of that. I really like challenges So that could be fun. She was up for a coffee with me next week, so we'll see how it goes.

One of the girls I'm going to lay out how some of the conversation went:
We had talked a bit and she asked if this was my hometown.
Me: Yes, how about you?
Her: Yeah, me too.
Her: I don't know, but I feel like I know you from somewhere, but I can't pinpoint it.
Me: Hmm, I don't know. Must have made an impression tho.
Her: Haha, yeah! But it's getting late now, I need my sleep! We'll meet again suddenly.
Me: How about you give me your number and we'll let that happen?
*She gives me her number*
Her: Sleep well!
Me: You too!

Next day I sent her a text:
Me: Your day has been good? Save my number -TC
Her: The day has been alright this far I'm doing some schoolwork now.. Tired :/
Her: You?
Me: It's been good. I'm done with my math-assignment Do you work at school or at home?
Her: Sweet What math do you have? Yeah, I'm working from my home. Wasn't that effective really...
Me: I'm taking ****, it's not that bad I only work at campus, it works best for me
Her: Agree, it's much better. I end up doing other stuff when I'm home.
Me: Indeed! You seems cool tho, what do you say about us meeting over a coffee next week?
Her: I'm traveling to **** next week, but how about we make something work when I come home?
Me: That we shall do What kind of misbehavior are you going to do there?
Her: Not much I hope! I'm going to work with blablabla...
This conversation went on to be a bit longer than I'd like, but it seems like she's on. I don't think she'll flake as she seemed pretty interested. But feel free to comment on it.
The other two girls I'm going to send the icebreaker text tomorrow, then set up dates next week.

Probably gonna come back here on sunday and tell how the weekend went, and if someone flakes on setting up dates. If everything works alright I will have a busy week.

Have a nice weekend
-TC

 

[TheChased]

Hey guys!
The weekend was good!

Friday:
Nothing special happened, had a good evening with a buddy. He invited me to his place, and it was a couple of friends of him there. They're kind of a musician gang, so they played some music too. It was great. Later me and my friend went out. He's a natural, so I like hanging out with him, we're quite similar on how we handle dateing and stuff. It was kind of a bro-night you could say, because we just hung out and talked.

Saturday:
Went to a birthday party for a friend of mine. BirthdayGirl was touching me all night, she gave me these looks with lust too. She gave me all kinds of signs, So I went with her to the toilet and started to kiss her. Then she started to put on some makeup when I had to pee. I told her I was hard, so I couldn't go. She then came over to have a look, hahah. Then she sat down on her knees and sucked my dick. What a birthday present! I bent her over the sink and pulled down her panties, and was about to put it in, but then someone knocked on the door and said they had to pee. She got a bit freaked out, so no fucking for me.. The party went on for an hour more, then we went out to the clubs. When we came to the club, a girl that gave me her number on a note a couple of years back(without me asking, but I never called her..) said Hi to me. So I know she wouldn't be that hard to pull, but when I was about to go talk to her she was talking with a guy I had talked to earlier. He told me he was going to fuck her, so I just let him have her. I then asked BirthdayGirl if she wanted to go home with me, she said yes. She was a bit drunk at this point so in about one hour I lost her. Ohh well, so I took the bus home. I sat down with a cute girl, she had her earplugs in, so I asked what she was listening too and if I could listen with her. No problem, I then introduced myself and talked a bit with her. Turns out her night wasn't that good, so she wouldn't answer all my questions. She said she was too tired. What? Anyhow, I didn't ask for her number.. Should have done that! I don't think she'd given it to me, but you don't know before you ask. It was fun tho.

Sunday:
Woke up and sent a text to BirthdayGirl if she wanted to eat pizza with me. She was really hungry, so she said yes. I told her I could pay as a present to her, and that we could eat it at my place. We ate the pizza and then I asked if she wanted to watch a movie with me or something. Her word: "Like Netflix and chill?" hahaha. I said I just wanted to lay down, so my bed would be a fine spot to chill. Well, you guys know where this is going. Anyhow, we watched like 10minuttes of this shit, then I just started to kiss her. She told me we couldn't do this, because she was going out to dinner with a guy she's seeing. I just told her that it would be okey and took off her clothes. I wouldn't call it LMR, because her actions spoke much louder than her words. While we were doing it, she said I couldn't come inside her because of the guy. Whatever, after some time she was about to come, I told her I couldn't go much more if I had to come on her tummy. She said "whatever, come inside me!" When everything was over and we had cleaned up our mess, her guy called her and said he was at her place. So she had to go, she said I fucked with her head. I asked why, it wasn't like he was her boyfriend. She said yes, but it wasn't right anyway, because they are dating. We kissed each other on the cheek and bid farewell.

Good weekend I would say, I hope she took a shower when she came home. After she had left I asked some of the girls from the week if they would like to have a coffee with me this week. Until now three have complied. I just started with "Was your weekend good?" Then they said yes and asked about mine. I said it was good, and asked if they liked coffee. Two said yes, and I asked if we could meet, and they complied. The other girl said no.
Me: "Haha, and here I was about to ask if you wanted to meet over a coffee."
Her: "I would have said yes if I liked coffee"
Me: "Smoothie then? I know a good place" (Great with a backup-plan if the girls don't like coffee)
Her: "That I can say yes too!"

I don't know if I have time for more than three dates this week, so I don't know if I should ask more girls for coffee yet.. We'll see what happens!

 

[TheChased]

Gad damn! I wanted to do something new with my facial hair yesterday, so I tried the chinstrap. (I'm an idiot)
Had it on today, but it just looked more ridiculous every minute.. So I had to shave it off. I lost my identity... Have been rocking the 3-days stubble for about 3 years now, and it's so fucking weird to actually see skin in my face, hahaha! Look like a kid now, but it will work it self out in a couple of days. Hope the dates won't go bad because of this, we'll see!

Cheers
-TC

 

[tvktvk]

I'd like to chip in here as well, a lot of great stuff! Just be a little more proactive and push for things a bit more. Seems like sometimes you just go with the flow, things get out of hand and you don't get the optimal result. Like with hippie girl(you let her choose the bar and suddenly there's a third wheel on your date) or birthday girl(you let her get away that night, altough you fucked her later haha).. seems like you need to take more control of your interactions, you have to lead more.

By reading your stuff I'm suspecting your quite the handsome mafakka and have great fundamentals Fix your game a bit and I think we'll have another RDawg on the boards, haha! Oh btw, where in Scandinavia are you from, I live in Norway Looking forward to read more LR's man.

tvktvk

 

[TheChased]

Haha dude this is a great journal. it just sounds like you're having fun all the time, great positive energy! That's funny how it played out with birthday girl. "My dick is too hard to pee" lol so funny Good stuff! Where are you getting all your numbers, just out at night? Or mixing in some day approaches?

Two from tinder(but I don't know about swedishgirl, she sounds like a girl who's nice to meet at night, easy pull.), one from nightgame(the one I laid out the conversation on) and one girl I met when she was working. You could call it day-game or semi-socialcircle, but I actually know her because of a guy I knew a time back, had her as his girlfriend. So I just asked if she would meet me when she was available.

By reading your stuff I'm suspecting your quite the handsome mafakka and have great fundamentals Fix your game a bit and I think we'll have another RDawg on the boards, haha! Oh btw, where in Scandinavia are you from, I live in Norway Looking forward to read more LR's man.

Wrote it in your LR, but Norway here too man!

Yeah, I should try to lead more. As with HippieGirl, I even thought of it when we were together, I actually just liked her idea about meeting for a beer, so it was hard turning it down. So should probably work on that. I'm not really sure what happened when the guy came along, it all happened so fast, could probably have done something to prevent it tho.

When It comes to BirthdayGirl, I couldn't do shit, she was really drunk. And I had bean dealing with this shit for too long, and when her boss from work came along and started to make a conversation. (At this point I had tried to get her to a taxi for about 10min) I just said "fuck this" and walked away. Tried to call after checking a bar out for some other girls, but yeah, no luck on either.

As noted in the intro, I'm a bit out of shape when it comes to game, after a long relationship. So it needs some polishing. Better logistics is something I probably also should fix.


Also, I have a problem. I have three girls who's cute in my class, one of them seems interested in me, one seems normal towards me and the last(and prettiest) seem either interested in me or she's just a very social girl. And what I'm afraid of is fucking it up with one of them(or just fucking one of them), and losing the chance on all three because of that. I want to at least get to fuck two of them, haha. I have played a bit aloof, but still go in to conversations when they walk by so they notice me.
How do you guys think I should go about this?

 

[TheChased]

Alright, my date went swell! We went out for a coffee and deep-dived a bit, pushed some sexual conversations (she did as well, lol). I don't have the logistics to pull girls home after first date, because I live with my mom at the moment, works in night-game tho. Just before we said good bye, she said something about doing something again but at her place or something, I can't remember. But i said we could make food or something and she was really enthusiastic about it, she want's the D! Only problem, she has a roomie, and I'm trying to work on a plan to move her to the bedroom.. If anyone has something to chip in, it would be great. Maybe ask her if we could talk a little more private or something? I don't know, could come off weird. Could ask if she would show me her room, that could also work. Even saw SwedishGirl at the same place we were having our coffee, so I sent her a text later and asked if she was at that place, ofc it was her! Maybe gonna ask if she want to meet on friday? She looked prettier in real life than her pictures actually!

Have another date tomorrow with the girl who's taking the same classes as my ex, I so want to fuck this bitch because of it! I don't even know if she knows it, they're only about 25 people, so they def know each other. I'm going to ask about her logistics (How do you live, do you have a roomie and stuff like that, but in a nonchalant way). It works so much better if I can come to her place. Hope to have at least two new LR next week, but we'll see!

Thinking of going out both friday and saturday. Saturday I'm def gonna go out, I'm invited to a birthday-party to a random dude. Got the invite from the guy who fell asleep at the hotel. It could be fun, hope to slay some random chick, and I will if I take action and lead well! I've been reading a few LR's, and read the LR from RDawg when he was on springbrake, man... sounds too fun. I hope to have a double lay some time soon, it would be awesome. I have done two lays in one day before, but it was with the two FWB I talked about in the intro, my dick was still wet when I met the other chick and fucked her. Didn't even use a condom on any of them!

Ohh btw tvktvk, I have worked a lot on my looks and fundamentals as those are things I could work on while I was in relationships. (Fuck I've been in many..) But I'm no tall guy, 173cm or something and I look a bit young, so I'm not the most handsome madafacka you see on the streets. Still, I have fucked a 39 year old woman and a girl who's like 185cm, so I don't even know if I look young... I'm not really sure anymore, but I don't really care about that, I can only work with what I got. And my experiences tell me it's no problem, so why care at all.

Anyhow, I will update on how the date went tomorrow probably!

Catch you on the flipside
-TC

 

[TheChased]

Okey! This was my first Tinder-date... TINDER IS FUCKING DANGEROUS!
Let me just start with saying that this chick did not look like her pictures! Her looks just... No... She wasn't fat or anything, and her face was okey minus, but she didn't have a chin. It just.. like... went from face to throat with no chin. I only thought fat people could have those things. I even had a problem recognizing her when I met her.
I just looked at the clock every five minute.... I didn't care about the interaction, so it got awkward at times. I even tried to see how long it would be silence, and if she would brake the awkwardness! Hahaha, just had to have some fun with this bullshit.
I talked with one of my buddies after the date, and he said I should've just said my grandma was giving birth, so I had to go. It would've been so fun if I actually did that! hahaha
I won't bang this chick even tho I wanted too, because of the ex thing. She even said she knew me from some place, but didn't know where. I certainly did not tell her where she might know me from. Well, I'm not seeing this broad again, it looked like she liked the way I look tho. So I won't be surprised if she sends me a text any time soon, not gonna respond to that one!

Anyhow, now that I have experienced that, I have set up a plan on how to ditch without coming off as an total asshole. I tell her pre-date that I may have to leave one hour after the date-time is set. That way I have an excuse to leave if she doesn't look like much.

 

[TheChased]

Yeah man, great weekend!

Friday:
Went out with a friend of mine and we met two girl friends om him. A cute one and a not so cute one. Not much to say here actually. The not so cute one was very receptive, but the cute one wasn't. She was being nice and all that, but I got nothing when I talked with her, and she wasn't that receptive. I knew SwedishGirl was out that night, and I thought about seeing her, but suddenly my buddy told me that our driver was picking us up now. I wanted an early night anyways, so we just left the place and left. As I didn't get anything from the cute girl.

Saturday:
LR is up on the boards https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=11543
Think I'm going to fuck this chick again as mentioned in the LR, she's moving to another city in a few weeks. So it's perfect for that. She's really cool too, fun to talk with.

 

[TheChased]

Date #2 with the girl I haven't named yet... ups! The girl that went swell from last week, lets name her Shortie.

The date all in all went good, didn't get the chance to fuck her tho.. Her roomie came home early, so that fucked shit up.
We made some food, flirted some and then sat down to eat. That's when her roomie came home. I just couldn't get my self to ask her if she wanted to show me her room as it would just be too weird. We kissed at the end of the date. Anyhow, I think I fucked up and ended up getting in the boyfriend-zone. Because I kind of got the feeling of her wanting more now. I don't think I will have any problems of actually fucking her on the next date, but I'm afraid of her getting feelings that are going to get hurt.

I'm thinking of just telling her that I can't be in a relationship right now and if she doesn't want to proceed then it's okey. BUT I will tell her this on date #3. That way she probably will fuck me anyways, and I don't have to be worried of her getting hurt. I won't be bummed out if she doesn't fuck me tho, because I don't want to deal with all them feels man! lol

I've done this before and it just ended up with me not texting the girl back after we fucked. Then I got bad feelings afterwards because I was a douchebag. It was easier then, but Shortie is just so sweet, so it would be though being a douchebag to her. This is something I have to work on... Nightgame is just so much easier. You don't even need to remember her name.

Plans for the week:

• Going to see CokeGirl again for some fucking on Thursday, so that will be fun.
• Friday I'm going to party where it's going to be a lot of girls, so I like that.
• Saturday I don't know yet, but maybe I'm going to a club where they're going to have gogo-girls and shit. The theme is Hot and Sexy, so everyone will look smashing It's only for students, so everyone will be around my age too.

 

[TheChased]

The week is going good, just having fun right now!

Thursday:
I fucked

Friday:
I flirted a great deal with one of the girls at the party, she seemed quite interested, but I didn't pursue her. We were going to hit the clubs, and she's 19, so she couldn't join us. She went on to be a little bitchy at the end, and because of GC I knew that this was because she was horny. She still had that horny look when her eyes were planted on me.
When I came to the pub of my choice, a girl came up to me and said hello. We talked for like 5 minutes and I just made out with her and then she went to sit with her friends. Another girl also came up to me and said Hello, I could probably have kissed her too, but I didn't. I think I had an really sexy aura going for me. Then I mingled a little and had some fun, my buddy then wanted to go for another club. I told him to wait 2 sec, and I went to the table where the girl I made out with sat and made out with her and then I immediately left. I asked her today about it, she said she didn't know who it was and thought it was a random creep. She had to ask her friends who it was, and one of the guys at the table know who I am, so he told her. Hahaha, I think I startled her. I just told her I thought she would recognize my lips. Her response: "I was a bit drunk, so it wasn't that easy!"
After a while I got a bit too drunk and lost everyone, and everyone had gone home or to after-parties. So I just went home and decided it would be best since I'm going out today too. I was just pushing boundaries and never went for a pull, just played around and had fun.


So today I'm going to that hot and sexy event, we'll see what happens! Maybe an LR will come up tomorrow?

 

[TheChased]

Alright!

Saturday went down to be just party party party, and no fucking. Had a great deal of fun, but nothing sexual happened..
Was a bit bummed out by this the next day, but ohh well!

Monday-Wednesday I was on a trip with my fellow students, nothing special to mention.

Yesterday (Thursday) I went to Shortie again, and LR is up on the board! Yeah baby!
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=11656