Texting a busy, high-profile lawyer

[Higher]

Hey folks,

Met this chick couple days ago. She's hot and very feminine, and was all giggles and smiles when I approached. We talked a few minutes, then she had to go and catch her flight back to Monaco. She suggested we keep in touch, so we traded digits. Sent her an icebreaker, to which she replied.

Now, we live a bit far away from each other, so I have to play slow. Sent her a morning text today asking if she had a good start into the week. My texts are usually short and amount to max 2-3 per session. She replied at lunchtime with something like "Hey, a bit busy but in general fine ".

This is when I realized that I might have made a mistake. I don't wanna be "that guy" that texts her when she's in some courtroom trying to save her Fortune 500 client from a 20 years prison term.

How and when would you text this one? Short pings at lunchtime only? Longer texts on the weekends? Any tips?

Thanks as always!

-En

 

[HoofHearted]

Text her only to get her out.

My current idea about texting

Nonboring hello/ping -> "soft close" -> gauge response -> schedule

"Hey lady, where you been, caught up high stakes legal drama and international finance intrigue haha"

Her: some stupid shit, doesnt matter. (If she doesn't respond, try again another time to see if the lead is cold)

"Haha, too funny. I also believe in the merits of white collar crime. Have you ever done xyz/been to some stupid ass place, doesnt matter?"

Her: green light, go. Gauge her response. If red try again another day.

If green, schedule something for within the next 48-72 hours tops.

To me, beyond that, texting is something else. If you're doing it too much, your life may be turning virtual, and you may need to put the phone down and go meet more women/other people to achieve those sought feelings/relationships in real life.

 

[Calibration]

Any tips?

Texting is a mine-field. I used to struggle with texting in the past and still make a lot of mistakes.
Look up all the "Calls & texts" threads from @Skills , it'll help your text game in general