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Jacksonville01

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Im trying to follow @Skills advise on texting. I started texting a girl whose number I got from Day Game. I was trying to keep it flirty and tease a bit before going for a soft close—but she’s stopped responding. Thinking of pinging her again tomorrow or the day after.

Thurday 3rd April

Me: Was cool meeting earlier : ) - [my name] @6.48p
Her: Yeah you too @ 7.36pm

Friday 4th April

Me: Hey [her name]
Hope you didn't have too much fun behind the bar last night (she said yesterday she had work that night in a pub) @12.16pm
Her: Haha never, its too much of a shit show to have fun @4.27pm
Me: I would of thought you being surrounded by alcohol would equal trouble @ 7.33pm
 
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This is the problem I had when I didn't try asking them out immediately. Which is also a bad tactic. Most of the time they stop responding, whether that's from the start or 1 or 2 messages later.

So I don't know what the fix is. Some would say it is because the interaction wasn't good enough. Who knows.
 
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Im trying to follow @Skills advise on texting. I started texting a girl whose number I got from Day Game. I was trying to keep it flirty and tease a bit before going for a soft close—but she’s stopped responding. Thinking of pinging her again tomorrow or the day after.

Thurday 3rd April

Me: Was cool meeting earlier : ) - [my name] @6.48p
Her: Yeah you too @ 7.36pm

Friday 4th April

Me: Hey [her name]
Hope you didn't have too much fun behind the bar last night (she said yesterday she had work that night in a pub) @12.16pm
good just some nitpick Hey her name is unnecessary, just start with hope you didn't....
Her: Haha never, its too much of a shit show to have fun @4.27pm
she responded that is good..... but then
Me: I would of thought you being surrounded by alcohol would equal trouble @ 7.33pm
This was meh! but not terrible, but you also did not give her something to respond to, do statements follow by questions..... You could have taken her last thing different ways:

- i hear you i know this other bar which i think fits your vibe better, and is fun is called blah have you been there?... Keeping convo thread and forcing to respond sample

- or you can go i hear you, anyways what are you doing besides thinking of me and smiling? cutting thread and asking a question... and flirting

- or i am here at the gym trying to cool fit and sexy for our upcoming date... high value activity follow by soft close (feeling the waters) if she does not reply in 5 to 10 minutes in this one, you can go what are you up to??


Anyways, baby step eventually you will get it... But try to do this format Statement or answering to thread with a question, so you can give girl something to respond to... you need to carry text convos...initially unless is a really green girl things just flow..

 

Jacksonville01

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good just some nitpick Hey her name is unnecessary, just start with hope you didn't....

she responded that is good..... but then

This was meh! but not terrible, but you also did not give her something to respond to, do statements follow by questions..... You could have taken her last thing different ways:

- i hear you i know this other bar which i think fits your vibe better, and is fun is called blah have you been there?... Keeping convo thread and forcing to respond sample

- or you can go i hear you, anyways what are you doing besides thinking of me and smiling? cutting thread and asking a question... and flirting

- or i am here at the gym trying to cool fit and sexy for our upcoming date... high value activity follow by soft close (feeling the waters) if she does not reply in 5 to 10 minutes in this one, you can go what are you up to??


Anyways, baby step eventually you will get it... But try to do this format Statement or answering to thread with a question, so you can give girl something to respond to... you need to carry text convos...initially unless is a really green girl things just flow..

ok thanks for the feedback will take note for next time, definitely helps.
I've been recently going through all your posts on texting.

I ended up pinging her early with - “Uh-oh… didn’t think you were the shy type 🙈” as I remember someone recommend that on here to resurrect texts
 

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ok thanks for the feedback will take note for next time, definitely helps.
I've been recently going through all your posts on texting.

I ended up pinging her early with - “Uh-oh… didn’t think you were the shy type 🙈” as I remember someone recommend that on here to resurrect texts
i would not have done that.... Cause it was your fault that you did not give her anything to respond to, and last sentence meh! that is used by pwf for girls that ghost or don't respond in totally different context....

you just have just waited 24 hours and morning sun emoji...

it may come across uncalibrated and done.... But hopefully i am wrong and she may respond.
 

Jacksonville01

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i would not have done that.... Cause it was your fault that you did not give her anything to respond to, and last sentence meh! that is used by pwf for girls that ghost or don't respond in totally different context....

you just have just waited 24 hours and morning sun emoji...

it may come across uncalibrated and done.... But hopefully i am wrong and she may respond.
ok was actually thinking whether I should do the morning sun emoji. At least now i know better for next time. Thanks
 
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