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This is something i have been doing, but i took it up another notch accidentally (tldr.- instead of getting the number how i usually do now a days, phone ran out of battery for hb, so i had to write in a napkin old school since i don't carry my phone)...
So how does this work, have you ever seen a crime show and the cop says: "you have the right to remain silent everything you say will be used against you in the court of law"
for those of you who don't sell, in sells as you are talking to a client, you are taking mental notes in person, on the phone you are writing down what is being said... Why? to find clients' hot point, get a profile of the clients, and use that against the client....
Have you dated one of those girls that when you are in a fight she brings up past shit, to not take accountability for her present mistakes (i hate women that do this, and i correct that behavior fast, 0 tolerance for this), but just to give and example of using stuff against the person.
So let me explain to use how me and many other guys do this instinctively, specially more guys in the biz and sales side that are also seducers like me.
In person as she is giving details they are remembering little things she is saying: - Profession, hobbies, friends names, kids (if any age and name), exes situations etc.. etc..
So what you do when saving the number is that you for example save her number as "Claudia the nurse from Paris, or Brenda Turkish tourist) this help you get a picture and helps memory to know who the girl is.... The second thing you do, as fast as possible is to write as many details when you edit a contact in the note section....
So how to use:
- in normal banter any type of convo. of "we just met" "find her friends" "barely know you and the likes" this could be done in person and in text, what you are going to do is give back to her, her own biography profile..... You will see the pupils in the eyes change, her attraction increase instantly, and she sometimes will blush or get overwhelmed..... After the back to her profile autobiography you will say "and finally you have a crush on skills" "or finally you get really turn on by skills" (Obviously your seducer name or nickname)...
Here is an example on text on how i do it (you don't have to text like me, i am more of a bit trollish texting style i am just giving example in text, you don't have to use my style is to show application)
skills: Morning sun emoji
hb: morning how are you?
skills: not good :-(
hb: why?
skills: cause I miss you...
hb: how so we just met
skills: yeah but i know everything there is to know about you, your name is Sandra, you are from Australia, you are a nurse, you are a Leo, you have a dog name Pluto, you dated your Cuban ex for 6 years, and you have a massive crush on skills... Boom!
how you like them apples, i told you i know you....
In person,
skills: we just have this amazing vibe and chemistry can you feel it
hb: yeah but we just met
skills: but i know everything there is to know about you, your name is Sandra. blah blah blah...(autobiography)
^ you can do the same when they go:
hb: where are my friends or i have to find my friends
skills: i am your friend
hb: but we just met...
skills: so, your name is Sarah blah blah blah (autobiography)
or in text or in person to let go to isolation together...
skills: follow me to the after party, or stay with me, i will drive you home. or in text: lets split a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony (credit pwf))
hb: but we just met, or i barely know you
skills: I disagree, your name is Sarah blah blahb blah (autobiography)
^ does not even have to make sense guys.....
I can also see it during about to have sex objection handling.....
skills: taking off clothes
hb: isn't this too fast we just met
skills: i know everything there is to know about you, your name is Sarah, Blah blah (autobiography)
It shows you are a good listener, smooth, calibrated, pay attention to detail etc.... all of this creates massive levels of attraction....
field test it....
So how does this work, have you ever seen a crime show and the cop says: "you have the right to remain silent everything you say will be used against you in the court of law"
for those of you who don't sell, in sells as you are talking to a client, you are taking mental notes in person, on the phone you are writing down what is being said... Why? to find clients' hot point, get a profile of the clients, and use that against the client....
Have you dated one of those girls that when you are in a fight she brings up past shit, to not take accountability for her present mistakes (i hate women that do this, and i correct that behavior fast, 0 tolerance for this), but just to give and example of using stuff against the person.
So let me explain to use how me and many other guys do this instinctively, specially more guys in the biz and sales side that are also seducers like me.
In person as she is giving details they are remembering little things she is saying: - Profession, hobbies, friends names, kids (if any age and name), exes situations etc.. etc..
So what you do when saving the number is that you for example save her number as "Claudia the nurse from Paris, or Brenda Turkish tourist) this help you get a picture and helps memory to know who the girl is.... The second thing you do, as fast as possible is to write as many details when you edit a contact in the note section....
So how to use:
- in normal banter any type of convo. of "we just met" "find her friends" "barely know you and the likes" this could be done in person and in text, what you are going to do is give back to her, her own biography profile..... You will see the pupils in the eyes change, her attraction increase instantly, and she sometimes will blush or get overwhelmed..... After the back to her profile autobiography you will say "and finally you have a crush on skills" "or finally you get really turn on by skills" (Obviously your seducer name or nickname)...
Here is an example on text on how i do it (you don't have to text like me, i am more of a bit trollish texting style i am just giving example in text, you don't have to use my style is to show application)
skills: Morning sun emoji
hb: morning how are you?
skills: not good :-(
hb: why?
skills: cause I miss you...
hb: how so we just met
skills: yeah but i know everything there is to know about you, your name is Sandra, you are from Australia, you are a nurse, you are a Leo, you have a dog name Pluto, you dated your Cuban ex for 6 years, and you have a massive crush on skills... Boom!
how you like them apples, i told you i know you....
In person,
skills: we just have this amazing vibe and chemistry can you feel it
hb: yeah but we just met
skills: but i know everything there is to know about you, your name is Sandra. blah blah blah...(autobiography)
^ you can do the same when they go:
hb: where are my friends or i have to find my friends
skills: i am your friend
hb: but we just met...
skills: so, your name is Sarah blah blah blah (autobiography)
or in text or in person to let go to isolation together...
skills: follow me to the after party, or stay with me, i will drive you home. or in text: lets split a bottle of wine in my romantic balcony (credit pwf))
hb: but we just met, or i barely know you
skills: I disagree, your name is Sarah blah blahb blah (autobiography)
^ does not even have to make sense guys.....
I can also see it during about to have sex objection handling.....
skills: taking off clothes
hb: isn't this too fast we just met
skills: i know everything there is to know about you, your name is Sarah, Blah blah (autobiography)
It shows you are a good listener, smooth, calibrated, pay attention to detail etc.... all of this creates massive levels of attraction....
field test it....
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time to start using the notes!