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Hello,
i noted something. When you're self assured, and people know you are generally good at something, they are more cautious to open and tell you what they observe.
For fans, or casual people, You will see "haters", people who have nothing to do and only give stupid ridiculous remarks. Kind of like girls where she act sexy in a music video for only 5 seconds, and someone's "fan boying" her. For fans or casual people, they will give general remarks, "IT was great", "It was so much fun" although you noted that they don't understand the concept.
In a way, when you are self assured, people are more cautious with what they say. Is that a bad thing? Not really, but you do want people to sit with you, and tell you what they see and where they come from. Recently, my mates have all been "general" when they talk to me, but one mate was persistent when he noted something. and i was aware i did some error in between. So yea, Self awareness is very vital, for yourself, and your wellness and building healthy relationships with people.
Zac
i noted something. When you're self assured, and people know you are generally good at something, they are more cautious to open and tell you what they observe.
For fans, or casual people, You will see "haters", people who have nothing to do and only give stupid ridiculous remarks. Kind of like girls where she act sexy in a music video for only 5 seconds, and someone's "fan boying" her. For fans or casual people, they will give general remarks, "IT was great", "It was so much fun" although you noted that they don't understand the concept.
In a way, when you are self assured, people are more cautious with what they say. Is that a bad thing? Not really, but you do want people to sit with you, and tell you what they see and where they come from. Recently, my mates have all been "general" when they talk to me, but one mate was persistent when he noted something. and i was aware i did some error in between. So yea, Self awareness is very vital, for yourself, and your wellness and building healthy relationships with people.
Zac
