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Most guys when they are about to open a girl at ________________ club, bar etc.... and witness the girl rejecting a dude, will get scared, "if she rejected that dude she will reject me"...... Others, wait for things to cool off, and open properly later which is a valid way to open and works....
But there are situations in which you are nearby and she witness you seeing she rejecting other dudes, so it really gets complicated in this scenario....
What i have done with high odds is to open situationally with " A lot of creepers tonight" or a variation of this, it opens really good! my mental masturbation theory is:
- You flash secret society credentials as understanding her.
- she will assume you are not a creeper and will not do the creepers actions.
- She does not have the leverage anymore, since you are agreeing with her action.
- This destroyed here negative pattern, if you open other wise, i rejected dude a, let me reject dude b dynamic.
- This will destroy the every dude in the club is the same in her eyes view.
So when to do it? best to do right after you witness the rejection to the other dude, so the rejection to other dude is hot (max 5 to 10 second post she rejecting the other dude)
Use it as a ping to buy time and read body language and reaction... Wait for her to respond she usually will say "yeah blah bblhah blah" something about creepers and how annoying they are. (Every time i have used it they contribute and hook right away)
^ if the above does not happen, follow up with a transition (@Teevster has an opener on guys picturing women naked wanting to fuck them, there he goes me i am not like that, i don't like sex, in fact i hate sex blah blah, that transition, can work here) if someone can link it (if you are not good at transitions, you can use that one)....
It is very simple but effective, my ratio is really high in this scenario when opening, they all open and hook.... Again simple but effective, when you are there and she just rejected a dude, and she knows you witness the rejection.
But there are situations in which you are nearby and she witness you seeing she rejecting other dudes, so it really gets complicated in this scenario....
What i have done with high odds is to open situationally with " A lot of creepers tonight" or a variation of this, it opens really good! my mental masturbation theory is:
- You flash secret society credentials as understanding her.
- she will assume you are not a creeper and will not do the creepers actions.
- She does not have the leverage anymore, since you are agreeing with her action.
- This destroyed here negative pattern, if you open other wise, i rejected dude a, let me reject dude b dynamic.
- This will destroy the every dude in the club is the same in her eyes view.
So when to do it? best to do right after you witness the rejection to the other dude, so the rejection to other dude is hot (max 5 to 10 second post she rejecting the other dude)
Use it as a ping to buy time and read body language and reaction... Wait for her to respond she usually will say "yeah blah bblhah blah" something about creepers and how annoying they are. (Every time i have used it they contribute and hook right away)
^ if the above does not happen, follow up with a transition (@Teevster has an opener on guys picturing women naked wanting to fuck them, there he goes me i am not like that, i don't like sex, in fact i hate sex blah blah, that transition, can work here) if someone can link it (if you are not good at transitions, you can use that one)....
It is very simple but effective, my ratio is really high in this scenario when opening, they all open and hook.... Again simple but effective, when you are there and she just rejected a dude, and she knows you witness the rejection.