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Hello Guys,
The Pickup community has not addressed this clearly in my opinion. I feel that it has not kinda hit the message the right away. I'm trying to get to the gist of why we do what we do. And I hope that we reach somewhere by the end of this post.
You see.
People still celebrate Christmas.
People still consider themselves in this religion.
Ultimately, people still consider friendzone as a legit tactic.
Now, why do we this?
There is a saying in real estate: Location.
There is a saying in business: close to the customer.
Friendzone is just males being close to the customer. Of course then there is levels. The smarter ones will be Girlschase members. And then there is a smart level where it becomes a very nuance, often political and dark strategy type of game in social circles.
Now, like many things, there's negative per se consequences to any variable. And in this case, the 'email List', the 'friendzone', has a negative to it.
Chase don't hang out anymore with FWB beyond certain period. If I remember right, this is the exact reason he noted. That reason of the negative side of things.
There's 2 ways to manage 'email list' = limits
Make sure the ads you running (cold approach, tinder, etc) is the girls you screen hard for what you want, because they will be in your 'email list' = limits
or have a strict stop gap.
Because they might be one of your baby mamas/stds/false rape accusations.
So it's important you want to understand your limits. I'm not sure if 'limit' is that the right word.
z@c+
The Pickup community has not addressed this clearly in my opinion. I feel that it has not kinda hit the message the right away. I'm trying to get to the gist of why we do what we do. And I hope that we reach somewhere by the end of this post.
You see.
People still celebrate Christmas.
People still consider themselves in this religion.
Ultimately, people still consider friendzone as a legit tactic.
Now, why do we this?
There is a saying in real estate: Location.
There is a saying in business: close to the customer.
Friendzone is just males being close to the customer. Of course then there is levels. The smarter ones will be Girlschase members. And then there is a smart level where it becomes a very nuance, often political and dark strategy type of game in social circles.
Now, like many things, there's negative per se consequences to any variable. And in this case, the 'email List', the 'friendzone', has a negative to it.
Chase don't hang out anymore with FWB beyond certain period. If I remember right, this is the exact reason he noted. That reason of the negative side of things.
There's 2 ways to manage 'email list' = limits
Make sure the ads you running (cold approach, tinder, etc) is the girls you screen hard for what you want, because they will be in your 'email list' = limits
or have a strict stop gap.
Because they might be one of your baby mamas/stds/false rape accusations.
So it's important you want to understand your limits. I'm not sure if 'limit' is that the right word.
z@c+
