The fat girls dilemma

[Wolfie]

Hey I got a question for you I found a mix of beautiful girls and fat chicks are attracted to me but fat chicks react very strongly and aggressively asking for number's, staring etc.


Does it mean I have low sexual value am i weirdo?

 

[Spyce D]

Hey I got a question for you I found a mix of beautiful girls and fat chicks are attracted to me but fat chicks react very strongly and aggressively asking for number's, staring etc.


Does it mean I have low sexual value am i weirdo?

Same thing happens with me ..

So , I have realised that it's better to go for girls who want you too ( as a beginner) cuz you gain experience . But , that's totally up to you to decide your standards .



And one more thing chase wrote in one article that hot girls are more subtle when giving iois .

Hotter Women are Subtler (and Hook Up Less)

As a woman’s beauty increases, so too does her subtlety… while her number of sex partners falls. Do you recognize the signs beautiful women give you? Recently I found myself in an unfamiliar part of a familiar town. Kind of on the outskirts. And something stuck out at me: the women here were, on...

www.girlschase.com

Maybe that's why you are facing this cuz believe me ... Me too .

Anyways , be happy about it and no just cuz fat chicks like you , you ain't a weirdo .

Never say stuff that are self loathing .

All the best .

 

[DarkKnight]

No.. fat girls are just more overt with their interest..

I have low sexual value am i weirdo?

Come on man..

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

No.. fat girls are just more overt with their interest..

Come on man..

Yeah fat chicks gotta work harder, they got less suitors (sometimes none)

 

[ulrich]

Fat girls are more desperate and therefore more aggressive.

Fit girls have no need to express interest because guys approach them more often so they are more subtle.

Pretty normal phenomenon.

 

[Wolfie]

Fat girls are more desperate and therefore more aggressive.

Fit girls have no need to express interest because guys approach them more often so they are more subtle.

Pretty normal phenomenon.

Do you suggest practising your skills with fat chicks is it morally wrong

 

[ulrich]

Do you suggest practising your skills with fat chicks is it morally wrong

Not wrong at all. As long as you like them and they like you, it is perfectly ok.

Just don’t ignore hotter girls.

They may be signaling you too (but in a shyer way)

 

[Wolfie]

Not wrong at all. As long as you like them and they like you, it is perfectly ok.

Just don’t ignore hotter girls.

They may be signaling you too (but in a shyer way)

Maybe I just wanna fuck them and not have anything serious......maybe that's why I feel a bit guilty

 

[Skills]

watch this video

 

[KJ Francis]

I am an expert in this subject. One issue is dick softness over time. First couple times there is still the excitement factor of a new girl, then it fades quick. So you may set an expectation of a fuck buddy or fwb arrangement and end up hurting her. Even if she's expecting a very casual thing, you may think you'll be fine seeing her every couple weeks or whatever, then you realize... no, you aren't.

That video from Skills is hilarious. And it depends on the girl, 'cause it depends HOW fat and the vibe you have with her otherwise.

 

[KJ Francis]

Update from last night: another potential pitfall is a broken bed frame.

 

[King Indra]

I am an expert in this subject.

Alas, me too. My twenties were spend slaying a lot of dragons.

One issue is dick softness over time. First couple times there is still the excitement factor of a new girl, then it fades quick.

100%. This is invariable and happens the moment the novelty wears off. It sucks, and you can tell it hurts them.

Most of the time, I keep the apologies to a minimum and not make a big deal out of it. Often, they leave of their own accord because in addition to being chubby, they're often young and there is no shortage of simps where I live, willing to give them attention.

So you may set an expectation of a fuck buddy or fwb arrangement and end up hurting her.

Gotta break a few eggs. I don't like not 'leaving them better than when you found them,' but when they start asking for more than you can offer, and more than the two of you originally consented to because they 'catch feels,' and are oxytocin high and eager to stop competing with other women for you, there's really no way to avoid things ending on a sour note.

Even if she's expecting a very casual thing, you may think you'll be fine seeing her every couple weeks or whatever, then you realize... no, you aren't.

Can confirm. It usually ends with a paragraph via text accusing me of 'not knowing what {I} want' and I usually leave that grenade with the pin stuck in it.

She, even if fat, has done it to someone else. She, even if fat, will find someone else and is ready to find someone else. Even chubby chicks have backup plans. She'll live.

 

[Chase]

Lol.

Fat girls go for guys they think won’t reject them.

If they don’t think they have a shot with you, they will leave you alone. But if they do, and they think you are sexy, they will be over you like white on rice.

I don’t think it is necessarily a problem… I have known skilled playboys who shagged more than a few fatties, and basically fatties would go for them until/unless they saw the guy had set his sights on a hot girl, at which point they’d become demoralized and give up. But if there were no hot girls around or none were biting the guy would just encourage them and pick up the fat girl.

It is not necessarily the case that if you are attractive to fat girls you won’t be attractive to thin girls. You can be attractive to both. But yes, the fat girls (if they like you) are going to be much, much more aggressive. They have to be, to compensate for their lower mate value.

The only guys shagging fat girls is a problem for IMO are the dudes who are just banging tons of fatties and not getting thin girls at all. I mean, it’s not a problem if the dude is happy with that… but if he isn’t, he needs to find a way to break his FAT GIRL ADDICTION.

Could be a tall order though for a guy with a lot of positive sexual history with fat girls and none with thin girls. Thus the danger of fatties: the possibility of a man associating rippling rolls of fat with sexual delights, and warping his sex drive to the point where his dick only really stiffens for giants.

Chase