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However, we like we could talk for long like old time friends do. But we are not friends. Strangers. We are getting to know each other's- innerselves. Only, they are not enough conversation loops that could drive home my vision of that vibe that I have in mind.
I would open and be short of words, well, I guess in my mental reservoir of conversations: I have had but little. Introvert me you'd say. Only PUA, is here to change your habits so that you can run good game on autopilot.
I dreaded a conversation with a beautiful woman because I knew I'd be scared of what to say and what topics to keep on talking about.
Anyway, that's not me anymore. Bye to the old me
. I did my usual digging on YouTube and found a suitable technique- I've field tested it. Besides, it is a recommended technique for just making the woman:
-talk more about herself, be open minded around you,
-thereby, feel like you've known her for a long time because she only tells her close friends about her dreams of being a fashion model.
Meanwhile- you two, just met some seconds ago. Thanks to Austin Summers a pua coach for that. It's an acronym- FORD. Meaning. Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams.
I'll deep dive into them as I've made it my natural inclination in conversations. I used blackberry mobile phones alot- but that was back then. All those phones are built from the factories to constantly open four applications, I guess, that's why the batteries didn't last longer. Lol
For the sake of this post: we are gonna assume those four apps stand for FORD. Family, occupation, recreation, dreams.
Family: let's say you meet up a woman at the grocery store and she's shopping with her baby strapped to her body. I can start to make funny faces at the baby(don't touch the baby because of corona).
Definitely, I will get the mother's attention, we would start to talk about childbirth and share inside thoughts about children.
She'll eventually tell me something weird that her baby does. I'll take on the mantle of convo and belittle myself, tell her some weird stuffs about me. So that I seem relatable and don't come off as too high value.
Occupation: I had an approach in the premises of a mall two days ago. She was leaving with some packs of food, without company.
We got into conversation about what her best food is? Transitioned to telling her how: she resembles a childhood friend that was just like family to me- he was a bell ringer and they had the same name, talked about her work, a bit(occupation).
She had to head back to work so we exchanged numbers. In about 5minutes, of conversation, she knows about my childhood friend. This is something a stranger doesn't just tell you upon the first 30 seconds of conversation. She starts to feel open minded about having deeper conversation with me.
At least, only two of us have this sort of joke to amuse us where I called her bell ringer a couple of times, she laughed.
Assuming, she had more time on the table I'd have continued in the 'occupation thread', that is- I'd ask her why she does what she does for a living? If she says she likes the pay but she doesn't like the job. I'd ask: which job would she have loved to be doing?
Note: I use why to know their motivations.
Recreation: when she's not at work what does she do with her spare time? What does she do frequently when she's off work?
What are her hobbies? Does she like to hangout? Does she smoke weed? Haha Does she go swimming? Is she the type that loves to work out?
As usual remember to ask why she loves to do them. Her analytic descriptions of the recreative habit she possesses shows us just how passionate she is about that thing or idea or concept.
It's like talking about women and pick up with a pua. He'll light up and talk for longer, be more interesting and interested. It will basically make him high and elated- on fucking drugs!
Dreams: Yes they do come true as the soul knows. Anytime I delve into this thread or last app. It's like a time machine to the future where you now know this other female robot and the future self.
Remember, no one knows about those ideal dreams the subconscious mind chose in this world of so many realms. It is sacred as it hasn't been realised yet just like a pregnant woman puts to birth after nine months. It forms a perception in the dreamer's mind that will put to birth in the future. How soon? Depends on the woman.
She doesn't tell strangers about this perception in her mind but here: she is with this intriguing masculine figure, at this moment. And she's telling him all about them or giving him a glimpse of her future which she only tell her family, friends and lovers'.
I consider this moment very important as we create the bonding of mutuality. I seem like her old-time friend she can talk to about her aspirations, hopes and dreams.
Nobody knows if she might not end up living her dreams but for the sake of rapport and keeping the convo going. This helps a whole lot I'd say in my experience.
I might tell her my own dreams, too. Share a little bit of it to make her invest. She'll eventually tell me more about her dreams: I want her to tell me more about her innerself than I've really told her about my innerself.
Eventually, we'd be talking about the future and her dreams, I could easily bring in her relationships with other men and how many kids she wants to have? Some women would always want to know how many kids I would also love to have?
I usually tell them 12, they laugh. I laugh. I'll tell them I'll have more than one wive: they'll take it as a joke and say because I know that one woman can't birth those amount of kids in one lifetime.
Don't mind me I can be very playful around women when sexualizing the conversation.
But anyways, that's all I've got to say for those looking for a technique to open four unique threads of conversation in the world of picking up beautiful women.
The funniest part of this technique is that I found out that those topics around those four applications- Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. Are just what almost every friendship, family and couples conversations are all about.
Little wonder, the familiarity it gives is one filled with enthusiasm, both parties end up happy and you don't seem like a boring chode. Haha
The vibe this technique produces is one of familiarity, relatability and easy access to sexuality as both parties are in a bubble of open-mindedness(no judgements).
Ciao
Mr Stif
I would open and be short of words, well, I guess in my mental reservoir of conversations: I have had but little. Introvert me you'd say. Only PUA, is here to change your habits so that you can run good game on autopilot.
I dreaded a conversation with a beautiful woman because I knew I'd be scared of what to say and what topics to keep on talking about.
Anyway, that's not me anymore. Bye to the old me
. I did my usual digging on YouTube and found a suitable technique- I've field tested it. Besides, it is a recommended technique for just making the woman:-talk more about herself, be open minded around you,
-thereby, feel like you've known her for a long time because she only tells her close friends about her dreams of being a fashion model.
Meanwhile- you two, just met some seconds ago. Thanks to Austin Summers a pua coach for that. It's an acronym- FORD. Meaning. Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams.
I'll deep dive into them as I've made it my natural inclination in conversations. I used blackberry mobile phones alot- but that was back then. All those phones are built from the factories to constantly open four applications, I guess, that's why the batteries didn't last longer. Lol
For the sake of this post: we are gonna assume those four apps stand for FORD. Family, occupation, recreation, dreams.
Family: let's say you meet up a woman at the grocery store and she's shopping with her baby strapped to her body. I can start to make funny faces at the baby(don't touch the baby because of corona).
Definitely, I will get the mother's attention, we would start to talk about childbirth and share inside thoughts about children.
She'll eventually tell me something weird that her baby does. I'll take on the mantle of convo and belittle myself, tell her some weird stuffs about me. So that I seem relatable and don't come off as too high value.
Occupation: I had an approach in the premises of a mall two days ago. She was leaving with some packs of food, without company.
We got into conversation about what her best food is? Transitioned to telling her how: she resembles a childhood friend that was just like family to me- he was a bell ringer and they had the same name, talked about her work, a bit(occupation).
She had to head back to work so we exchanged numbers. In about 5minutes, of conversation, she knows about my childhood friend. This is something a stranger doesn't just tell you upon the first 30 seconds of conversation. She starts to feel open minded about having deeper conversation with me.
At least, only two of us have this sort of joke to amuse us where I called her bell ringer a couple of times, she laughed.
Assuming, she had more time on the table I'd have continued in the 'occupation thread', that is- I'd ask her why she does what she does for a living? If she says she likes the pay but she doesn't like the job. I'd ask: which job would she have loved to be doing?
Note: I use why to know their motivations.
Recreation: when she's not at work what does she do with her spare time? What does she do frequently when she's off work?
What are her hobbies? Does she like to hangout? Does she smoke weed? Haha Does she go swimming? Is she the type that loves to work out?
As usual remember to ask why she loves to do them. Her analytic descriptions of the recreative habit she possesses shows us just how passionate she is about that thing or idea or concept.
It's like talking about women and pick up with a pua. He'll light up and talk for longer, be more interesting and interested. It will basically make him high and elated- on fucking drugs!
Dreams: Yes they do come true as the soul knows. Anytime I delve into this thread or last app. It's like a time machine to the future where you now know this other female robot and the future self.
Remember, no one knows about those ideal dreams the subconscious mind chose in this world of so many realms. It is sacred as it hasn't been realised yet just like a pregnant woman puts to birth after nine months. It forms a perception in the dreamer's mind that will put to birth in the future. How soon? Depends on the woman.
She doesn't tell strangers about this perception in her mind but here: she is with this intriguing masculine figure, at this moment. And she's telling him all about them or giving him a glimpse of her future which she only tell her family, friends and lovers'.
I consider this moment very important as we create the bonding of mutuality. I seem like her old-time friend she can talk to about her aspirations, hopes and dreams.
Nobody knows if she might not end up living her dreams but for the sake of rapport and keeping the convo going. This helps a whole lot I'd say in my experience
.I might tell her my own dreams, too. Share a little bit of it to make her invest. She'll eventually tell me more about her dreams: I want her to tell me more about her innerself than I've really told her about my innerself.
Eventually, we'd be talking about the future and her dreams, I could easily bring in her relationships with other men and how many kids she wants to have? Some women would always want to know how many kids I would also love to have?
I usually tell them 12, they laugh. I laugh. I'll tell them I'll have more than one wive: they'll take it as a joke and say because I know that one woman can't birth those amount of kids in one lifetime.
Don't mind me I can be very playful around women when sexualizing the conversation.
But anyways, that's all I've got to say for those looking for a technique to open four unique threads of conversation in the world of picking up beautiful women.
The funniest part of this technique is that I found out that those topics around those four applications- Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. Are just what almost every friendship, family and couples conversations are all about.
Little wonder, the familiarity it gives is one filled with enthusiasm, both parties end up happy and you don't seem like a boring chode. Haha
The vibe this technique produces is one of familiarity, relatability and easy access to sexuality as both parties are in a bubble of open-mindedness(no judgements).
Ciao
Mr Stif
