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The girl i am going out with kissed another girl in front of me

HHjj

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I have been going out with this girl a couple of months now. She is doing her semester abroad and she is probably gonna be here for 2 more months. We started this out as a casual relationship, but it somehow got serious. The sex has been good, but it was not mind blowing or anything for either of us. She always had this feeling that I am too good for her something. There is a bar at her dorm and she always hangs out there socializing with other people. She never wanted me there because she said she thinks I get bored there it's a bit uncomfortable for her( I was there with her once it was a bit boring for me as I didn't know any people). But this day one of my friends wanted to check this place out, so i came with him spontaneously. I tried calling her before but couldn't reach her. But we got there anyway, she pretty drunk socializing with a lot of people, guys and girls, getting a little touchy and everything. She told she made out with one of her lesbian friends and she was sorry. I acted out normal but she kept making out with her in front of me for many times. Every now and then she told she is sorry or asked me if it was bad, but she kept doing the same. She also tried kissing me sometimes in the middle. She was pretty drunk, I guess some guys tried with her and I don't know what happened. Finally I put her room and she passed out. As this started out as a casual relationship I was seeing other women in the beginning, but a couple of days ago she told she was jealous of it and kinda wanted me now to see other women. She is gonna be here for a couple of months and I don't know what to do.

P.s: she is in a long distance relationship that I came to know after a week of hanging out with her. She lied about breaking up with him after a few days which she admitted a couple of days ago.
 

topcat

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but a couple of days ago she told she was jealous of it and kinda wanted me now to see other women
this is the only thing i have an issue with..
she has a whole relationship back home and is snogging half of campus, but you must be exclusive?

throw that hoe back in the water..

if you’re happy being her comforter while she explores, carry on. if you can stomach keeping her as a fun chick, then enjoy her.

if you really want an exclusive relationship though, she ain’t the one..
 

HHjj

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this is the only thing i have an issue with..
she has a whole relationship back home and is snogging half of campus, but you must be exclusive?

throw that hoe back in the water..

if you’re happy being her comforter while she explores, carry on. if you can stomach keeping her as a fun chick, then enjoy her.

if you really want an exclusive relationship though, she ain’t the one..
Just 5 mins ago, a guy came knocking on her door at 3 in the morning. He called her before but she couldn't pick up as she passed out but I was there next to her and I just saw a call.
 
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StrayDog

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She sounds a bit like a hot mess and so not worth the investment. If you're looking for a more solid LTR find someone who exhibits qualities conducive to such an endeavor. Otherwise don't distract yourself with someone who just doesn't have it together. I mean, if y'all are just in it for a fun, drama-free time and you can keep it that way. Have at it. Otherwise, you have other cats to whip (as they say in France)
 
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