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Hello Everyone,
There was a comment by a guy who feels that he should always be 'on point', with women. And If i am not mistaken, @Train noted that if women can expect certain level of standards, then men can leave the relationship as well.
Over the years, i have notice this pattern, and i see this in myself. We leave a contrary point on something because of a deeper issue.
That deeper issue. If everyone is willing to admit, and i will be the first one. We all didn't have great fathers. Adding to the fact that we are being trained as consumers, feeling that we need to go buy a course, buy this Levis jeans, buy a Mercedes Benz to feel completed. We need to leave a contrary point, and while this has other factors relating to tribe and social circle, there is a painbody too.
If women are difficult, or women are annoying: Don't Marry them. You can always don't marry them. You can always don't enter into a relationship with them.
Now, if you listen to that previous sentence, it sounds refreshing. That's the first part. The second part is, saying it yourself internally and externally in your bathroom that you can always choose a life that you want.
The reason that you need to say it to yourself, because you didn't had a great father.
I didn't had a great father. So that's our weakness. Infact, i can attest that a lot of Girlschase members are this, especially since we are living in post modernism. We need that chase, Approval.
That last bit of always needed to be approved. (And business owners knows how to abuse this)
z@c+
There was a comment by a guy who feels that he should always be 'on point', with women. And If i am not mistaken, @Train noted that if women can expect certain level of standards, then men can leave the relationship as well.
Over the years, i have notice this pattern, and i see this in myself. We leave a contrary point on something because of a deeper issue.
That deeper issue. If everyone is willing to admit, and i will be the first one. We all didn't have great fathers. Adding to the fact that we are being trained as consumers, feeling that we need to go buy a course, buy this Levis jeans, buy a Mercedes Benz to feel completed. We need to leave a contrary point, and while this has other factors relating to tribe and social circle, there is a painbody too.
If women are difficult, or women are annoying: Don't Marry them. You can always don't marry them. You can always don't enter into a relationship with them.
Now, if you listen to that previous sentence, it sounds refreshing. That's the first part. The second part is, saying it yourself internally and externally in your bathroom that you can always choose a life that you want.
The reason that you need to say it to yourself, because you didn't had a great father.
I didn't had a great father. So that's our weakness. Infact, i can attest that a lot of Girlschase members are this, especially since we are living in post modernism. We need that chase, Approval.
That last bit of always needed to be approved. (And business owners knows how to abuse this)
z@c+
