The right way to approach

[harjas0123]

I'm in high school.....i'm kinda interested in this girl....
The prob is shez a year younger and our classes are in 2 different buildings (same school though) and i only see her in the recess or at the end of school and she is always surrounded by a lot of friends....
I've been trying to contact her out on facebook but she rarely comes online....
So, should i keep waiting for her to come online or should i just ask her out for some ice-cream or coffee??
I'm quite popular in school and also good looking and follow the fundamentals

 

[JMP_123]

If you know the actual times you will see her or cross paths with her during the day try and go out of your way to pass by her and chat. Anything you do face to face will definitely go over much easier than clunky Facebook convos back and forth. Also messaging girls on FB is just giving them an easy excuse not to answer and it could make you look lazy.

I'm 6-7 years out of HS and I notice how much interactions like these are crutched on depending on Facebook or some other social media/texting nowadays. No one seems to be personal anymore...I say go up to her and chat with her personally, that will go the farthest.

 

[harjas0123]

Hmm..okay...
I'll go upto her and have a chat with her the next time i see her...
But the thing is i dont know any1 in her group...
I dont want it to be awkward...i dont wanna come out as desparate

 

[JMP_123]

You see that's another problem a lot of people are having these days. They don't do things b/c other people or themselves "label" it what they think it is. I don't think walking up to a group of girls and talking to the one you're attracted to as "desperate." If you walked up to a group of 5 girls to talk to one of them, and another girl gives you a shitty look tell them to blow off. That in itself is a challenge!

Same with this "awkward" thing, people don't do things now because they think it's awkward? Remember, anyone can label anything they want and someone else can label it totally different.

Go at the situation head on and talk to the girl.

 

[Addicted2height]

I would just walk up to the girl with a smile and be like "Hey ???! How are you? We don't talk enough lets meet up for a hot chocolate sometime. Ill give you my number and let me know what your schedules like"
Or something along those lines, obviously letting her talk as well

I wouldn't worry too much about all her friends, shes the one you want the attention and attraction from
https://www.girlschase.com/content/5-essential-insights-how-meet-girls-groups

Hope it works out well