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Hey gents,
This is one that I've learned in sales, and the basic premise is this: after you ask a closing question, stay completely silent until the other person answers your question. Whoever talks first 'loses' (well, kind of... you'll both be better off if your intentions are good)
So in other words, you might have a situation that looks like this - a potential customer walks into a phone store. She has a few other competitors she might buy a plan from, but the sales rep does his best to convince her on his company's plan. After a bit of rapport-building and pitching, the salesmen makes his close...
And just like that, the salesperson has just lost a potential customer.
Instead, the situation should've looked a bit more like this:
During the silence, the customer was thinking to herself about the benefits of his company's plan, if she has enough money for the plan (or if not, how she can reallocate money from other parts of her budget to the plan), and whether its better than the others.
She's uncluttering her mind and continually thinking about the benefits of the plan, which emotionally compels her to say 'yes'.
Essentially, she's convincing herself to buy the plan.
If you interrupt that thought-process, you are not only stopping her from convincing herself, but you also come across as incredibly pushy. And she'll say 'no'.
This has useful applications in other areas of life as well, and I've seen it mentioned on the boards for the purposes of seduction through one of Anatman's very early LR's that you can read here:
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4730
Hope this adds another useful tool in your arsenal, fellas
~Nick
This is one that I've learned in sales, and the basic premise is this: after you ask a closing question, stay completely silent until the other person answers your question. Whoever talks first 'loses' (well, kind of... you'll both be better off if your intentions are good)
So in other words, you might have a situation that looks like this - a potential customer walks into a phone store. She has a few other competitors she might buy a plan from, but the sales rep does his best to convince her on his company's plan. After a bit of rapport-building and pitching, the salesmen makes his close...
Salesperson: So would you like to choose our $45 per month plan today?
Customer: (thinking to herself and rubbing her chin)
Salesperson: (fearing a potential 'no', the salesperson interjects) Well, there's no contract, so its totally up to you how long you're on for.
Customer: (now feeling the salesperson is trying to push her to buy while she was thinking about it, she gives a knee-jerk reaction to rebel) Alright...well, thank you for your time. I'll think about it!
And just like that, the salesperson has just lost a potential customer.
Instead, the situation should've looked a bit more like this:
Salesperson: So would you like to hop on board with our $45 per month plan?
Customer: (rubbing her chin) ...
...
...
(Silence still)
Customer: Um, yeah! Alright!
Salesperson: Great! Well, let's ring you up so we can get your new plan up and running.
During the silence, the customer was thinking to herself about the benefits of his company's plan, if she has enough money for the plan (or if not, how she can reallocate money from other parts of her budget to the plan), and whether its better than the others.
She's uncluttering her mind and continually thinking about the benefits of the plan, which emotionally compels her to say 'yes'.
Essentially, she's convincing herself to buy the plan.
If you interrupt that thought-process, you are not only stopping her from convincing herself, but you also come across as incredibly pushy. And she'll say 'no'.
This has useful applications in other areas of life as well, and I've seen it mentioned on the boards for the purposes of seduction through one of Anatman's very early LR's that you can read here:
viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4730
Hope this adds another useful tool in your arsenal, fellas
~Nick