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One of the most horrible situations that occur when you're out is that a REALLY pretty girl catches your eye, but only JUST as she walks by you - e.g., you catch her looking at you, but only very briefly as she passes you by, and you don't really have time to react.
You can run after her, yes, but the hit rate on this is pretty low... though NOT necessarily because she wasn't interested.
Sometimes, it's just too jarring - even if she was curious in you, you spinning around after her that fast on a dime is just unusual / unnatural. Nobody does that. Sometimes you can overcome startling her, but sometimes it just ain't happening.
So, what can you do?
Here's something you can put into play that's great fun, and while it doesn't ALWAYS improve your success rate, sometimes it does, and it GREATLY improves your open rate... while before you might've let these girls slide by saying, "Well, it was too fast and I don't know how to open her," you'll quit doing it once you do this.
Here's all you do:
Either way, this gets you into action, and if she glances back at you, it's a far more natural progression of "surprise --> curiosity --> decision --> action" than the incongruent PUA-ish "surprise --> action" process you might otherwise follow (or, alternately, opt not to do anything at all because "surprise --> action" feels too unnatural and you just don't want to go there).
If she doesn't look back, you're still a lot more likely to open anyway, because you've already "started", and you're probably having fun by now, spinning around and smiling and stroking your chin like you're about to go solve some great mystery ("Who IS this girl, anyway?!").
This one isn't one you'll use a whole lot, but it's nice to have in your back pocket for those random situations you don't expect to run into so you don't end up beating yourself up after for missing out on a girl you probably would've really enjoyed getting to know.
Chase
One of the most horrible situations that occur when you're out is that a REALLY pretty girl catches your eye, but only JUST as she walks by you - e.g., you catch her looking at you, but only very briefly as she passes you by, and you don't really have time to react.
You can run after her, yes, but the hit rate on this is pretty low... though NOT necessarily because she wasn't interested.
Sometimes, it's just too jarring - even if she was curious in you, you spinning around after her that fast on a dime is just unusual / unnatural. Nobody does that. Sometimes you can overcome startling her, but sometimes it just ain't happening.
So, what can you do?
Here's something you can put into play that's great fun, and while it doesn't ALWAYS improve your success rate, sometimes it does, and it GREATLY improves your open rate... while before you might've let these girls slide by saying, "Well, it was too fast and I don't know how to open her," you'll quit doing it once you do this.
Here's all you do:
- Girl walks quickly/suddenly by, catching your eye just as she passes you
- You immediately and sexily swivel in place, turning around to watch her walk off (channel your best Jude Law impression)
- IF SHE LOOKS, you smile and hurry up to meet her
- IF SHE DOESN'T LOOK, you stroke your chin quizzically, smile to yourself, and then chase her down anyway
Either way, this gets you into action, and if she glances back at you, it's a far more natural progression of "surprise --> curiosity --> decision --> action" than the incongruent PUA-ish "surprise --> action" process you might otherwise follow (or, alternately, opt not to do anything at all because "surprise --> action" feels too unnatural and you just don't want to go there).
If she doesn't look back, you're still a lot more likely to open anyway, because you've already "started", and you're probably having fun by now, spinning around and smiling and stroking your chin like you're about to go solve some great mystery ("Who IS this girl, anyway?!").
This one isn't one you'll use a whole lot, but it's nice to have in your back pocket for those random situations you don't expect to run into so you don't end up beating yourself up after for missing out on a girl you probably would've really enjoyed getting to know.
Chase
