It’s getting easy, or I am getting better, at least I can say today was very easy.
Approached 3 sets, one was a double, did the “where is Coles thing” for 2 sets, another one was in a library I talked a bout the libray closing time, the girl was too young and too shy to continue.
The other 2 in the mall, first of them had a big body, I am much more relaxed approaching small girls, once I saw this big lady I decided to approach her, I continued the convo a bit saying “apparently you come here often” and “do you work here”, but the thing with “where is Coles?” is that it opens the sets pretty well, but doesn’t have the grip for you to continue, ofcourse the compliment openning has got lots of grips but might be surprising for her.
I did the “where is Coles thing” much better than before, much more relaxed, higher energy, talked slowly.
The compliment openning reveals I am attracted to her appearance, there is that risk with it that some ladies take it as intrusive and might not respond well (all the 4 I openned yesterday responded well, 2 attractive ones loved it, the mid 40 yrs one also replied very well but I could feel she didn’t buy it, the last one got very shy, so maybe they actually like it just like Chase says, but it is not an easy openning for me atm, will definately try that more and get better in it, since it has got a lot of potential, maybe the risk with it is much lower that I feel). Compliment oppenning makes me excited, after I oppenned 3 sets today I was thinking to open another sitting one with compliment but didn’t.
Got two locked eye contact from two gorgeous girls, didn’t open them, but atleast now I have a plan for such situations, lock eye contact, move towards her, say: “Hi!””I mean look at that amazing style you have got, it is very attractive and eye-catchy” do the smile and continue “caught my eye and didn’t let it free.”
Approached 3 sets, one was a double, did the “where is Coles thing” for 2 sets, another one was in a library I talked a bout the libray closing time, the girl was too young and too shy to continue.
The other 2 in the mall, first of them had a big body, I am much more relaxed approaching small girls, once I saw this big lady I decided to approach her, I continued the convo a bit saying “apparently you come here often” and “do you work here”, but the thing with “where is Coles?” is that it opens the sets pretty well, but doesn’t have the grip for you to continue, ofcourse the compliment openning has got lots of grips but might be surprising for her.
I did the “where is Coles thing” much better than before, much more relaxed, higher energy, talked slowly.
The compliment openning reveals I am attracted to her appearance, there is that risk with it that some ladies take it as intrusive and might not respond well (all the 4 I openned yesterday responded well, 2 attractive ones loved it, the mid 40 yrs one also replied very well but I could feel she didn’t buy it, the last one got very shy, so maybe they actually like it just like Chase says, but it is not an easy openning for me atm, will definately try that more and get better in it, since it has got a lot of potential, maybe the risk with it is much lower that I feel). Compliment oppenning makes me excited, after I oppenned 3 sets today I was thinking to open another sitting one with compliment but didn’t.
Got two locked eye contact from two gorgeous girls, didn’t open them, but atleast now I have a plan for such situations, lock eye contact, move towards her, say: “Hi!””I mean look at that amazing style you have got, it is very attractive and eye-catchy” do the smile and continue “caught my eye and didn’t let it free.”
