Tickling as an escalation tool

[DesiBro]

I ran across this technique by accident the other night - a girl who I was preparing to escalate on mentioned in passing that she is really ticklish, so I decided to test it out. Tickling her provided me an excellent reason to have my hands under her clothes, and she was excited to rip off my clothing as well so she could tickle me. When I was feeling too ticklish, I would distract her with a passionate kiss. All in all, I thought it was a lot of fun and a great way to switch up my escalation routine.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

This is one of my favorite escalation tactics. I was having some difficulty with my escalations a while back, and this was the ultimate problem solver for me. I'm naturally a pretty fun guy, so this works great!

 

[Smurf]

Hell yeah!

I was hoping I wasn't the only one doing this. You guys are tickling each other, then boom you're right up against each other. Great way to close proximity.


Jake.

 

[Richard]

Believe it or not - I highly recommend playful things like this as first steps to escalation.

Personally, I use play fighting as my escalation starter because it's fun, builds kino, and gives me an excuse to either take them to the ground or pull them in close. Sex is fun and I approach it that way - it's not super serious, but is sometimes wild (in which case I don't play fight and instead go straight in) - but in my "natural" state play fighting or tickling are excellent tools.

-Richard

 

[Oskar]

I see tickling as a good way to release tension if things are about to boil over too much, but I try to avoid it. I knew guys some years ago who would use it too much in a desire to remove ALL tension, so early on in my seducer development I learned to avoid it.

But yeah, tickling can be great for setting a playful frame. Though obviously not everyone likes it. Some girls were tickle-tortured in the past by their fathers for example... so be wary

Oskar

 

[Mr. oblivious]

I see tickling as a good way to release tension if things are about to boil over too much, but I try to avoid it. I knew guys some years ago who would use it too much in a desire to remove ALL tension, so early on in my seducer development I learned to avoid it.

But yeah, tickling can be great for setting a playful frame. Though obviously not everyone likes it. Some girls were tickle-tortured in the past by their fathers for example... so be wary

Oskar

I was going to make this comment before but im guessing you would tickle as a natural part of the interaction so you will be able to tell if she is respond positively to it or not and weather to continue or not.

 

[Oskar]

I was going to make this comment before but im guessing you would tickle as a natural part of the interaction so you will be able to tell if she is respond positively to it or not and weather to continue or not.

Yeah, of course. I just took that as self evident, but it's a good thing to point out.

Thanks!

Oskar

 

[metomeya]

Sounds like tickling is sort of like the kiss problem.

You don't kiss in the club, because it will release too much sexual tension for her, but you do kiss her at your place (or whatever you have privacy) to escalate.

So you should only tickle if you can escalate (private area and you can touch other parts of her body to turn her on).

I never used tickling (at least not to seduce), but I would think if you are going to do it you need to escalate by "accidentally" brushing up against her breast, having your arms around her while tickling so your crotch is against her ass, going under her clothes, and finally going for the kill while she is laughing.