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So on tinder there are now an abndance of girls that seem absolutely stunning but they are escorts! I've never been with one and never would for the sole purpose of sex...but... I'm wondering if anyone has taken one of them up on their offer and then sucessfully managed to make her into a FWB/girlfriend - these are some of the hottest girls around and they could be a lot of fun! Anyone know of anyone successfully pulling something like this off - would just be an interesting read I'm sure...
 

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girlsfollow,

girlsfollow said:
but... I'm wondering if anyone has taken one of them up on their offer and then sucessfully managed to make her into a FWB/girlfriend - these are some of the hottest girls around and they could be a lot of fun! Anyone know of anyone successfully pulling something like this off - would just be an interesting read I'm sure...

Chase actually noted this before.

He said that those "high end" clients tend to make this girls their girlfriend, and some of them, wifes. However, i shall warn you here. Socialite demands $450,000

This are just one examples of similar cases although this is a stewardess.

Zac
 

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ZacAdam said:
girlsfollow,

girlsfollow said:
but... I'm wondering if anyone has taken one of them up on their offer and then sucessfully managed to make her into a FWB/girlfriend - these are some of the hottest girls around and they could be a lot of fun! Anyone know of anyone successfully pulling something like this off - would just be an interesting read I'm sure...

Chase actually noted this before.

He said that those "high end" clients tend to make this girls their girlfriend, and some of them, wifes. However, i shall warn you here. Socialite demands $450,000

This are just one examples of similar cases although this is a stewardess.

Zac

I ain't sayin' she a gold digger...
 

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Thinkingenigma said:
I ain't sayin' she a gold digger...

Loved to agree, but when your ex wife brings lawyers and froze your assets because you tried to hide them, that's fuck up. You can say he is selfish but everyone is.

Zac
 
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I'm referring to the stewardess you posted about. I don't see where that has anything to do with his selfishness or lack thereof. Just poking fun at her.
 

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Oh you mean, sarcastically

Haha!! She's has more than a ton of handbags. I will definitely heed Chase advice on pre nup agreement. XD

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Turning an escort into a girlfriend might be difficult except you have the money to prevent her from seeing other clients (men).

girlsfollow said:
So on tinder there are now an abndance of girls that seem absolutely stunning but they are escorts! I've never been with one and never would for the sole purpose of sex...but... I'm wondering if anyone has taken one of them up on their offer and then sucessfully managed to make her into a FWB/girlfriend - these are some of the hottest girls around and they could be a lot of fun! Anyone know of anyone successfully pulling something like this off - would just be an interesting read I'm sure...
 

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One thing I'd point out -

Tayo said:
Turning an escort into a girlfriend might be difficult except you have the money to prevent her from seeing other clients (men).

It's actually quite common for these women to accept payments in order to "not need to prostitute themselves out anymore"... only to keep doing it anyway. Many of them will have multiple benefactors who will give them money and ask them if it's enough and ask them if they've been staying away from prostitution, and the woman will smile sweetly and say, "Mmm-hmmm!" and then as soon as she leaves it's off to see the next guy.

Of course, much of the time, these rich guys have wives already, or other women they're serving as benefactors to, so I suppose everyone's playing everybody else to some extent. He pays the money, she makes him feel like he's got her all to himself... even if that's just a fantasy.

I don't know too much about the ones who actually turn these women into girlfriends or husbands, but I wouldn't recommend it if fidelity is at all a concern.

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Chase,

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I don't know too much about the ones who actually turn these women into girlfriends or husbands, but I wouldn't recommend it if fidelity is at all a concern.

Chase

SORRY BOSS! XD

I hope i didn't misquote anything, but i remember seeing that you noted some of this guys travel a hell lot and have this girls as girlfriends while having wifes at home.

Whatever it is, it must be a "payment exchange affair", not an "extramarital affair". :p

Zac
 

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ZacAdam said:
I hope i didn't misquote anything, but i remember seeing that you noted some of this guys travel a hell lot and have this girls as girlfriends while having wifes at home.

Whatever it is, it must be a "payment exchange affair", not an "extramarital affair". :p

Zac

No, no, I wasn't refuting your quoting of me at all. I do recall mentioning on here before that women who go into being high class escorts very frequently exit by selecting one of their customers to commit to and wed. Much of the time these women have numerous romantic or even marriage offers from very wealthy, successful men to become their permanent partners.

Even Salma Hayek is rumored to have met her multibillionaire husband this way while serving as an alleged escort in Cannes (many Hollywood starlets supposedly escort themselves out as high as $30K or $40K / night in Cannes during the film festival).

I was more talking about anyone here reading, if you're being honest with yourself, don't expect that you can "turn a ho into a housewife", so to speak, like these naïve rich guys do. Many guys who are wealthy got wealthy in the first place because they didn't know how to get women without money. Not all - there are lots of financially successful men who are just ballers and players. But especially the guys who get wealthy working as corporate suits - these guys are different from, say, self-made millionaires, because they haven't done all the battle and carving and climbing that a business owner has, they've just climbed the corporate ranks. Despite their money, they usually won't have access to attractive young women, so paying for one and then trying to swing her over into monogamy is usually the best shot they see for themselves.

The fantasy seems to be "once she realizes how amazing I am and how well I'll take care of her, she'll never want another man." The reality's a bit more complicated than that, though.

Chase
 

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overall...I say stay away from the hoes... except you are in your 50s and have excess cash... when money is not really an issue! For now, build your business & investment portfolio and don't pay for sex until you are above 50 - then it "might" be okay!

Chase said:
Zac-

ZacAdam said:
I hope i didn't misquote anything, but i remember seeing that you noted some of this guys travel a hell lot and have this girls as girlfriends while having wifes at home.

Whatever it is, it must be a "payment exchange affair", not an "extramarital affair". :p

Zac

No, no, I wasn't refuting your quoting of me at all. I do recall mentioning on here before that women who go into being high class escorts very frequently exit by selecting one of their customers to commit to and wed. Much of the time these women have numerous romantic or even marriage offers from very wealthy, successful men to become their permanent partners.

Even Salma Hayek is rumored to have met her multibillionaire husband this way while serving as an alleged escort in Cannes (many Hollywood starlets supposedly escort themselves out as high as $30K or $40K / night in Cannes during the film festival).

I was more talking about anyone here reading, if you're being honest with yourself, don't expect that you can "turn a ho into a housewife", so to speak, like these naïve rich guys do. Many guys who are wealthy got wealthy in the first place because they didn't know how to get women without money. Not all - there are lots of financially successful men who are just ballers and players. But especially the guys who get wealthy working as corporate suits - these guys are different from, say, self-made millionaires, because they haven't done all the battle and carving and climbing that a business owner has, they've just climbed the corporate ranks. Despite their money, they usually won't have access to attractive young women, so paying for one and then trying to swing her over into monogamy is usually the best shot they see for themselves.

The fantasy seems to be "once she realizes how amazing I am and how well I'll take care of her, she'll never want another man." The reality's a bit more complicated than that, though.

Chase
 

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wow this has spiralled out of control a little - haha I wasn't ever proposing making these women into chaste lifetime partners in exchange for money! I thought maybe there were some that werent fully into the whole profession that maybe could be be seen as girlfriends/fwb - Ive seen some documentaries on female pornstars that have either FWB or bf's - was just curious if anyone had experiences like that - would be interesting! But I never really expected you could change someone fully engrained in that life just by paying them more!
 

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wow this has spiralled out of control a little - haha I wasn't ever proposing making these women into chaste lifetime partners in exchange for money! I thought maybe there were some that werent fully into the whole profession that maybe could be be seen as girlfriends/fwb - Ive seen some documentaries on female pornstars that have either FWB or bf's - was just curious if anyone had experiences like that - would be interesting! But I never really expected you could change someone fully engrained in that life just by paying them more!

Haha, I understand.

I think so long as you go in expecting not-monogamy, you're fine.

Although if any shred of you is imagining a Pretty Woman-type situation, I'd suggest a viewing of Louis Theroux on what the porn world looks like:

Louis Theroux Weird Weekends S01E02 - Porn

... as well as being informed on sexual health in the porn industry despite all the testing they do:

Ex-Porn Star Tells the Truth About the Porn Industry

Women who go into both porn and prostitution tend to fall into one of two camps:

  • 1. Inveterate, hedonistic sex hound, or

    2. Steely-eyed, coldly calculating gold digger

The former choose their profession because if they're going to be sleeping with lots of different men all the time anyway, why not get paid for it, too?

The latter choose their profession because they view it as a good way to build status (porn star) or to get quick access to wealthy men (escort).

That said, if you're mostly screening for someone to run a sex-heavy FWB or open relationship with, so long as you're aware of any sexual health risks, these can be excellent places to look, and the sex you'll have with these women (well... the hedonistic ones, anyway) can be out of this world. They will tend to be some of the most orgasmic and dynamic women you'll have in bed (prepare for a workout). Maybe only female athletes and artists come close if we're talking average sexual performance by career (and of course, crazy chicks of all stripes, especially the "can't-hold-down-a-job-and-not-really-sure-where-she-gets-her-money-from" types).

Chase
 

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Wow. Pretty interesting. Thanks for sharing that. Its funny, how the porn.industry can bring out old primal instincts that probably happened in the caveman days. How delusional Hollywood makes everything seem. Especially with the romance movies, that woman love so much.

I recently was sleeping with a stripper until she gave me.something. she was going to school to be a vet tech. You could see her grades slowly decline she was almost in like a funk of alcoholism, all over guys, trying to pull the girls and guys I was friends.with.to the strip club she became.obsessed with money degraded on. It was a mess so I walked away from the situation as I have seen this before. She tried telling me that she made 1300 bucks in four hours, on a week day there had to have been something else going.on. when mentioning it to her, she had a little micro expression of disgust and anger.

Was seeing a flight attendant who opened up to me about cocktailing at a strip club. She had just moved from mexico, and this guy was obsessed with her and her boss made her go.to the private room with the guy where he made her gove him a blow job. Her boyfriend at the time.didnt care and was obsessed with the money it would bring.in so.she.left got a job as a flight attendant. Its all interesting. Just my experiences. Its not really worth it. It may sound glamorous, but sleeping with strippers, and shit never been with a born star, just be careful.
 

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maximus6004 said:
Wow. Pretty interesting. Thanks for sharing that. Its funny, how the porn.industry can bring out old primal instincts that probably happened in the caveman days. How delusional Hollywood makes everything seem. Especially with the romance movies, that woman love so much.

I recently was sleeping with a stripper until she gave me.something. she was going to school to be a vet tech. You could see her grades slowly decline she was almost in like a funk of alcoholism, all over guys, trying to pull the girls and guys I was friends.with.to the strip club she became.obsessed with money degraded on. It was a mess so I walked away from the situation as I have seen this before. She tried telling me that she made 1300 bucks in four hours, on a week day there had to have been something else going.on. when mentioning it to her, she had a little micro expression of disgust and anger.

Was seeing a flight attendant who opened up to me about cocktailing at a strip club. She had just moved from mexico, and this guy was obsessed with her and her boss made her go.to the private room with the guy where he made her gove him a blow job. Her boyfriend at the time.didnt care and was obsessed with the money it would bring.in so.she.left got a job as a flight attendant. Its all interesting. Just my experiences. Its not really worth it. It may sound glamorous, but sleeping with strippers, and shit never been with a born star, just be careful.
Thanks maximus! this is exactly the kind of story I was interested in!

You make it clear just how the whole fantasy doesn't play out in reality.... should be easy to think but it only comes home when you hear exact experiences like this!

CHASE - yep thats the documentary I was talking about, I've watched all the louis theroux shows - but this reminds me that the pornstars bf is NOT happy with what she does and just does not work!
 

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I was just thinking about it today. My friend has an exact example of two things chase has talked about. He doesnt see whats happening but I do. So this girl whose house we actually crashed at after the strip club. She is a stripper and my buddy told me the story about her. They used to date she became a stripper. Moved out to vegas became a prostitute, she is pretty btw, and married a couple baseball players. Well they cheated on her and well she eventually dated down. My buddy is successful but not a baseball player well now she is back to what is probably her 8 as she was hurt by the 10 n 9 guys. She did it for the money, to find a rich guy. He says he wont get with her and will only be her friend because he wont be with a girl who turned tricks. Basically she is dating down the list. Texts were shown where she mentioned why dont we just get married we talk all the time and have a history. Its interesting to see everything happen it becomes sort of predictable.
 

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He should not even be communicating with her... he is just sinking his own ship.

maximus6004 said:
I was just thinking about it today. My friend has an exact example of two things chase has talked about. He doesnt see whats happening but I do. So this girl whose house we actually crashed at after the strip club. She is a stripper and my buddy told me the story about her. They used to date she became a stripper. Moved out to vegas became a prostitute, she is pretty btw, and married a couple baseball players. Well they cheated on her and well she eventually dated down. My buddy is successful but not a baseball player well now she is back to what is probably her 8 as she was hurt by the 10 n 9 guys. She did it for the money, to find a rich guy. He says he wont get with her and will only be her friend because he wont be with a girl who turned tricks. Basically she is dating down the list. Texts were shown where she mentioned why dont we just get married we talk all the time and have a history. Its interesting to see everything happen it becomes sort of predictable.
 

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Eh, he jas a horde of woman and he only wants to be friends with her. Im not going to complain she has a nice place downtown that we crashed at when we were drinking. Thats his own problem I just see things differently. Try telling people they are doing things wrong it doesnt go over very well
 
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