Tips for a newbie

[Lucky]

Hi guys i wanted to ask if you could give any tips for a new guy starting out I know the basics but with the moves that I'm supposed to make I can't get the guts to do it, I can flirt, I got some of my fundamentals right and i'm surprisingly alright with push and pull tactics but besides that I'm pretty bad plus so anything would be helpful.

 

[Ken]

Lucky(;,

What spefically do you need help with? We can't help you if we don't know what specific things you need help with.

 

[foggy]

Hmmm what do I wish I had known when I first started out?

For me as a man, if I see a fat, unattractive women in the corner of my vision I am not going to pay attention to her. It's the same with women. They are not even going to look at you if they don't find you attractive in any way. There's a good chance that random women who hold eye contact with you for more than just a quick second, or are willing to look at you a second time, are attracted to you (or find something interesting about you). Approach these women and spark up a conversation with them. I used to think that these looks and eye contacts mean nothing, but they actually do.

 

[Lucky]

Thanks Backstory
And Ken how would you overcome the fear of making a move on a girl?

 

[Regal Tiger]

The thing that helped me out the most was lots of over escalation and clumsy escalations early on. I pulled the trigger every chance I got and a lot of times I didn't even have a trigger when I was trying lol.

Just reckless escalation (though obviously you want to pull back if she's not into it) because I was frequently surprised in the beginning. Still get surprised every once in a while.


Another is just focus on one thing at a time. I would obsess about one thing at a time.


Definitely those two things are my greatest pieces of wisdom.

Best of luck!

 

[Ken]

Lucky(;

Like, what type of moves? Kissing a girl? If that's the case, I'll let you know when that happens.

 

[Lucky]

Yeah kissing a girl and overcoming the fear to do it