Tips on approaching a girl working & being set up on a date

[ChalupaBatman]

I have a couple of newbie questions I could definitely use y'alls help with. The first is when I was at Best Buy today I saw a very cute girl working there and really wanted to approach her and talk with her but I just didn't know what to say. We did end up making eye contact and I felt like she was aware of me there. I was wondering how y'all would approach a girl who was working and number close her? It seems much different than just cold approaching at a bar and I admit I was definitely thrown off.

My second question is that my friends are setting me up on a date with a girl who broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago. I am really hesitant on these types of situations because they have never worked for me. I feel like it already places me at a lower perceived value by the fact I am having to be "set up" on a date. They want me to meet her for lunch and I agreed but what are y'alls thoughts on this?

 

[charming]

Re: Tips on approaching a girl working & being set up on a d

Hey CB!

Day game is becoming my favorite context for meeting women. They're everywhere (the gas station, the grocery store, the mall, restaurants, walking/running on the street, yoga, intramural sports, pilates, cooking classes, etc). Women don't expect men to approach them in these contexts. They think it only happens in the movies, or it's the stuff of fantasy and dreams. This is to our great advantage. They want sexy men to approach them, talk to them, and sleep with them.

1) I've actually become fairly proficient with approaching women while they're working. I think a key element to this is being sexy AND discreet. When sexy men approach and talk with women, the grateful distraction will often cause them to neglect their current task or assignment, sometimes to their detriment. We want to seduce them and give them what they want, not cause them undue social anxiety or risk their income. The key is discretion. It requires lots of self awareness in all honesty. Be aware of who will overhear your conversation (ie her co-workers, managers, and other customers). I think elite eye contact and non-verbal flirting are key to successful seductions in these settings. I highly recommend Eye Contact Flirting and Elite Eye Contact. Establish attraction with your eyes, and then discreetly and swiftly approach. Observational approaches have been the most successful for me (ie "Your name tag says one thing, but the sticker says another, so what's your real name?"). If I can get her smiling and laughing I've made an impression, think of how you generally feel at work (stressed, tired, bored, daydreaming) play into those emotions and offer her some relief. Then on a high note, ask what time she gets off. If she repsonds warmly to this question, ask what's she's doing after work. If you're logistics are in order, read: How to take girls to bed, ask her out (this should be a coffee/dinner close to your place), and number close. It'll take lots of practice and rejection, but don't give up. Fair warning: I was actually banned from a store in the mall while starting out, this isn't for the risk averse. Thankfully, I started with stores I didn't really like that much anyway! I recently seduced a cashier while she took my food order. Needless to say I wouldn't have been able to accomplish that 6 months ago. Continually practice the fundamentals. I'll look forward to your lay report in the near future!

2) I want to agree with the soundness of your thinking here. Being "set-up" fundamentally doesn't jive with you being a sexy man with lots of options. Don't rely on others to get it done, go out and meet women. You're a sexy man, act like one!

 

[Tyme2k]

Re: Tips on approaching a girl working & being set up on a d

Hey CB!

Day game is becoming my favorite context for meeting women. They're everywhere (the gas station, the grocery store, the mall, restaurants, walking/running on the street, yoga, intramural sports, pilates, cooking classes, etc). Women don't expect men to approach them in these contexts. They think it only happens in the movies, or it's the stuff of fantasy and dreams. This is to our great advantage. They want sexy men to approach them, talk to them, and sleep with them.

1) I've actually become fairly proficient with approaching women while they're working. I think a key element to this is being sexy AND discreet. When sexy men approach and talk with women, the grateful distraction will often cause them to neglect their current task or assignment, sometimes to their detriment. We want to seduce them and give them what they want, not cause them undue social anxiety or risk their income. The key is discretion. It requires lots of self awareness in all honesty. Be aware of who will overhear your conversation (ie her co-workers, managers, and other customers). I think elite eye contact and non-verbal flirting are key to successful seductions in these settings. I highly recommend Eye Contact Flirting and Elite Eye Contact. Establish attraction with your eyes, and then discreetly and swiftly approach. Observational approaches have been the most successful for me (ie "Your name tag says one thing, but the sticker says another, so what's your real name?"). If I can get her smiling and laughing I've made an impression, think of how you generally feel at work (stressed, tired, bored, daydreaming) play into those emotions and offer her some relief. Then on a high note, ask what time she gets off. If she repsonds warmly to this question, ask what's she's doing after work. If you're logistics are in order, read: How to take girls to bed, ask her out (this should be a coffee/dinner close to your place), and number close. It'll take lots of practice and rejection, but don't give up. Fair warning: I was actually banned from a store in the mall while starting out, this isn't for the risk averse. Thankfully, I started with stores I didn't really like that much anyway! I recently seduced a cashier while she took my food order. Needless to say I wouldn't have been able to accomplish that 6 months ago. Continually practice the fundamentals. I'll look forward to your lay report in the near future!

2) I want to agree with the soundness of your thinking here. Being "set-up" fundamentally doesn't jive with you being a sexy man with lots of options. Don't rely on others to get it done, go out and meet women. You're a sexy man, act like one!

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