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Hey my fellow seducers,
Been working on my cold approaches lately and just my socializing in general. I've finally gotten consistent at approaching daily and soon I'll be able to approach without himesitation. Now while Imy conquering that I got a even bigger problem haha. Closing for me is a bitch. These last two weeks I think I've lost at least 4 girlseither because I hesitated trying to # close, didn't know the proper way to close in a certain situation, or just didn't last in an interaction at all. This shit is super frustrating because I'm shooting myself in the foot by bit taking my opportunities when they present themselves.
An example of this was two weeks ago at school. This girl Inamed my Spanish class thought left class at the same time I did. I had wanted to talk to her so I opened her and we had a good connection going. I teased her and she seemed to be in a good mood. Even when I told her I'm this way and she's that way SHE suggested we split off a little further so I knew she wanted to keep talking to me. Push comes to shove I'm in my head like "fuck I know she wants me to set up the date. I end up pussying out knowing I may have ruined my oppurtunity. I see her again next week and she fakes a smile and shit was just awkward (auto rejection #1)
Then today this girl at my job I introduced myself too last week I fucked up with. I saw she was alone so I sat at her table and said "why are you sitting alone?" She tells me she's new and we talk for a little bit then return to work. Now today I see her and I compliment her saying she always has this cute smile on my face. She seems receptive and we end up sitting together during lunch. However this other girl who I tried asking out and got rejected sat with us ( she has a boyfriend of like 5 years.)
I think to myself fuck what to do now. Me and the girl I like talk majority of the time and I feel she would be open to hanging with me, however I don't know how to close her with the other girl around. Eventually lunch is over she leaves and I can tell she feels a certain way about the situation(auto rejection #2 smh.)
I hate my inability to close. I keep fucking up my oppurutunities. I'm trying not to be to hard on myself but auto rejection sucks ass. I know what I did wrong with the girl from my Spanish class but do you guys know what I should've done differently with the girl at work? Also could you just give me some more pointers about closing in general. Once I get past this sticking point I'll have much more success than I currently have now
Been working on my cold approaches lately and just my socializing in general. I've finally gotten consistent at approaching daily and soon I'll be able to approach without himesitation. Now while Imy conquering that I got a even bigger problem haha. Closing for me is a bitch. These last two weeks I think I've lost at least 4 girlseither because I hesitated trying to # close, didn't know the proper way to close in a certain situation, or just didn't last in an interaction at all. This shit is super frustrating because I'm shooting myself in the foot by bit taking my opportunities when they present themselves.
An example of this was two weeks ago at school. This girl Inamed my Spanish class thought left class at the same time I did. I had wanted to talk to her so I opened her and we had a good connection going. I teased her and she seemed to be in a good mood. Even when I told her I'm this way and she's that way SHE suggested we split off a little further so I knew she wanted to keep talking to me. Push comes to shove I'm in my head like "fuck I know she wants me to set up the date. I end up pussying out knowing I may have ruined my oppurtunity. I see her again next week and she fakes a smile and shit was just awkward (auto rejection #1)
Then today this girl at my job I introduced myself too last week I fucked up with. I saw she was alone so I sat at her table and said "why are you sitting alone?" She tells me she's new and we talk for a little bit then return to work. Now today I see her and I compliment her saying she always has this cute smile on my face. She seems receptive and we end up sitting together during lunch. However this other girl who I tried asking out and got rejected sat with us ( she has a boyfriend of like 5 years.)
I think to myself fuck what to do now. Me and the girl I like talk majority of the time and I feel she would be open to hanging with me, however I don't know how to close her with the other girl around. Eventually lunch is over she leaves and I can tell she feels a certain way about the situation(auto rejection #2 smh.)
I hate my inability to close. I keep fucking up my oppurutunities. I'm trying not to be to hard on myself but auto rejection sucks ass. I know what I did wrong with the girl from my Spanish class but do you guys know what I should've done differently with the girl at work? Also could you just give me some more pointers about closing in general. Once I get past this sticking point I'll have much more success than I currently have now
