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INTRO
I was back to the mall for another day game session.
I haven't really started approaching yet, I just came to the mall. I was walking, on my way to get a can of soda.
APPROACHING
I caught her eyes, she smiled, I smiled back, we passed each other.
However, few minutes later I saw her again, she was smiling again. Strong signal. I approached.
HOOKING
I didn't feel like I had to do anything to hook her. She was already hooked
I don't remember my opener, most likely I said that I saw her great smile and had to stop to say hi, or something. It was clear from the get go that she is either strongly attracted to me or horny as fuck. It was clear to me that it's going to be a favorable set. Doing 60yoc hand caresssing confirmed her attraction. She held my hand long.
I asked her what is she doing here, and she told me that she is at work. I got little surpised because she didn't wear any uniform, she didn't wear clothes which looked like she is a shop attendant or something. I digged a bit deeper and she said that she is a clothes buyer. So basically she is doing shopping for other women. Cool. I guess it's a pretty cool job for a woman who likes shopping.
She was smiling all the time and her body language was very open, so I invited her for a drink. She gladly accepted, it's hot these days in the city, and she was thirsty.
INSTADATE + DEEP DIVE
I led her to my favorite cafe. We talked a little bit more about work. I asked her age (35) and if she is single. I also asked her the variation of the golden question: "If I were to ask you, what do you really like to do, apart from typical things like sleeping, eating and working/studying, what would you say?". She said, that she loves being around water. I only started experimenting with this question, so I didn't take this chance to deep dive with her. I didn't follow throught on this one unfortunately.
2ND GENERATION VERBALS + SEX TALK
The first time I raised a sexual topic she mentioned that it's a bit early to talk about topics like that. I replied: "Relax, sex is a natural human need. Like eating or sleeping. Everyone needs it, everyone does it. I don't get why people freak out when talking about it." We switched topic to something else, and came back to the sexual topic again.
She asked me what kind of woman I like, and I told her that I like adventorous woman. I told her that few months ago, in the same shopping centre I met a girl and we ended up having an adventure in the changing room. She asked me, what kind of adventure. I told her: "You know, man-woman type of adventure. [smile]".
I asked her if she ever thought of an adventure in a changing room. She said "Not really. It's too much something I think of as my job. I like more comfort. I like doing this in bed." At least she admitted that she likes sex.
In the meantime, I started touching her hands and looking deep in her eyes. I told her that I have problems with muscle tension in my face muscles. She said that I should use this face massagger (she showed me on her phone). She reacted well to my touch and there was lots of sexual tension when I looked into her eyes. However, it was a little weird at the same time. I felt this weird tension in my face which made me feel weird. Maybe it was shame of some kind. Shame of sexual feelings in a public space. Or something.
Later on, I proposed that she move her shopping bag so I can sit next to her. She gladly did. When I was sitting next to her, caressing her hands and arms, I thought about pulling her to the changing room to test the waters.
PULLING SIGNALS
Fact is: I didn't see any obvious horniness signs. I don't even know what to look for. It's super common that I pull too early, without clear horniness signs and then I have to fight resistance later.
PULLING
Anyway, I told her that I want to buy a t-shirt and I asked her if she can give me a female opinion. She agreed and we headed to the store. I checked the logistics before, so I know this is the best store for changing room sex. This is the same changing room which this other chick gave me head.
We entered the shop, I took some random t-shirt and I led her to the changing room. She was hesitant to enter at first, but simple "come on" and pulling her hand was enough. When we were insided, and when I closed the door, she realized that this the changing room I was talking about. "Oh, so this is the changing room." she said.
ESCALATION
Inside, I put the t-shirt away, started looking into her eyes, kissing her, touching her arms. The first real test was her boobies. She actually let me touch them. I slid my hand under her top, touched it and took them out of her top. I kissed her tits, then came back to kissing. Back and forth.
And this is basically my final base in this interaction. When I wanted to escalate further, she stopped me, told me that I'm greedy and left.
I followed her outside, normalized the conversation, we went to another store together (I wanted to buy this face massager), but I realized that it was too much of me for her comfort zone.
Her objections were:
"You are greedy." - I think it means that the pace was too fast for her
"I'm little ashamed." - I guess she didn't feel comfortable banging in the changing room.
Anyway, I took her phone number and we are meeting tonight for drinks. So I guess, TBC.
I was back to the mall for another day game session.
I haven't really started approaching yet, I just came to the mall. I was walking, on my way to get a can of soda.
APPROACHING
I caught her eyes, she smiled, I smiled back, we passed each other.
However, few minutes later I saw her again, she was smiling again. Strong signal. I approached.
HOOKING
I didn't feel like I had to do anything to hook her. She was already hooked
I don't remember my opener, most likely I said that I saw her great smile and had to stop to say hi, or something. It was clear from the get go that she is either strongly attracted to me or horny as fuck. It was clear to me that it's going to be a favorable set. Doing 60yoc hand caresssing confirmed her attraction. She held my hand long.
I asked her what is she doing here, and she told me that she is at work. I got little surpised because she didn't wear any uniform, she didn't wear clothes which looked like she is a shop attendant or something. I digged a bit deeper and she said that she is a clothes buyer. So basically she is doing shopping for other women. Cool. I guess it's a pretty cool job for a woman who likes shopping.
She was smiling all the time and her body language was very open, so I invited her for a drink. She gladly accepted, it's hot these days in the city, and she was thirsty.
INSTADATE + DEEP DIVE
I led her to my favorite cafe. We talked a little bit more about work. I asked her age (35) and if she is single. I also asked her the variation of the golden question: "If I were to ask you, what do you really like to do, apart from typical things like sleeping, eating and working/studying, what would you say?". She said, that she loves being around water. I only started experimenting with this question, so I didn't take this chance to deep dive with her. I didn't follow throught on this one unfortunately.
2ND GENERATION VERBALS + SEX TALK
The first time I raised a sexual topic she mentioned that it's a bit early to talk about topics like that. I replied: "Relax, sex is a natural human need. Like eating or sleeping. Everyone needs it, everyone does it. I don't get why people freak out when talking about it." We switched topic to something else, and came back to the sexual topic again.
She asked me what kind of woman I like, and I told her that I like adventorous woman. I told her that few months ago, in the same shopping centre I met a girl and we ended up having an adventure in the changing room. She asked me, what kind of adventure. I told her: "You know, man-woman type of adventure. [smile]".
I asked her if she ever thought of an adventure in a changing room. She said "Not really. It's too much something I think of as my job. I like more comfort. I like doing this in bed." At least she admitted that she likes sex.
In the meantime, I started touching her hands and looking deep in her eyes. I told her that I have problems with muscle tension in my face muscles. She said that I should use this face massagger (she showed me on her phone). She reacted well to my touch and there was lots of sexual tension when I looked into her eyes. However, it was a little weird at the same time. I felt this weird tension in my face which made me feel weird. Maybe it was shame of some kind. Shame of sexual feelings in a public space. Or something.
Later on, I proposed that she move her shopping bag so I can sit next to her. She gladly did. When I was sitting next to her, caressing her hands and arms, I thought about pulling her to the changing room to test the waters.
PULLING SIGNALS
Fact is: I didn't see any obvious horniness signs. I don't even know what to look for. It's super common that I pull too early, without clear horniness signs and then I have to fight resistance later.
PULLING
Anyway, I told her that I want to buy a t-shirt and I asked her if she can give me a female opinion. She agreed and we headed to the store. I checked the logistics before, so I know this is the best store for changing room sex. This is the same changing room which this other chick gave me head.
We entered the shop, I took some random t-shirt and I led her to the changing room. She was hesitant to enter at first, but simple "come on" and pulling her hand was enough. When we were insided, and when I closed the door, she realized that this the changing room I was talking about. "Oh, so this is the changing room." she said.
ESCALATION
Inside, I put the t-shirt away, started looking into her eyes, kissing her, touching her arms. The first real test was her boobies. She actually let me touch them. I slid my hand under her top, touched it and took them out of her top. I kissed her tits, then came back to kissing. Back and forth.
And this is basically my final base in this interaction. When I wanted to escalate further, she stopped me, told me that I'm greedy and left.
I followed her outside, normalized the conversation, we went to another store together (I wanted to buy this face massager), but I realized that it was too much of me for her comfort zone.
Her objections were:
"You are greedy." - I think it means that the pace was too fast for her
"I'm little ashamed." - I guess she didn't feel comfortable banging in the changing room.
Anyway, I took her phone number and we are meeting tonight for drinks. So I guess, TBC.
