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These speech meet approaches aren’t quite as satisfying as street approaches… Yeah, I’m two for two, but it just seems too easy. Considering that I had time to build up my value and show off on stage in front of them, the girls were all dressed in their classiest attire, and it wasn’t a totally out of the blue kind of thing (unlike the street…) Yeah, it looks like I’m about to get some higher success rates doing this, but I honestly feel like it takes the thrill out of the chase.
Using these meets as my main venue is NOT what I intend to do… They’ll simply serve the purpose of providing me a crutch of exposure in order to further my daygame success. I won’t have these opportunities forever, and in any case, it just seems too easy.
At this speech meet, I had memorized my speech and now was able to fully tap into my arsenal of gestures, eye-contact, and expressions, many of which I learned from seduction. I got multiple comments from judges that my eye contact, pauses, and vocal effects were my most powerful assets, and that they could feel themselves agreeing with me as I presented my energy to the audience. Same controversial topic, same controversial stance, far better speaking ability; this is what I mean by showing off on stage in front of the girls.
On the street, girls have nothing to base my value on, besides race (hollywood really doesn’t help there, ) and the brass I exhibit when I hit on them in broad daylight in random places. Since I do have a bit of a racial barrier in my way, my goal has always been to make my brass balls so big and heavy that come in anyway like a wrecking ball… At these meets however, my value is exhibited very clearly to them. Public speaking and connecting with an audience comes really easy for me because of my daygame experience, and I make it my business to make sure everyone in the audience knows this… But this also the very reason these don’t feel as good as daygame approaches. I’m relying on a TON passive value, and I won’t always have that luxury.
Kristina:
During my speech, my eyes seemed to wander into the direction of this brown haired girl with big blue sparkly eyes. As I spoke not from my head, but from my soul, I sought to drive my points into the hearts of my audience, and I saw her nodding her head with every point I made. Briefly, I think I smiled at her, but afterwards continued on. I was first, and after me, all the other contestants went. At the end, we were given our critique sheets back, and left the room. She was walking far behind me, so I walked slower to have her catch up… I got impatient though and just walked back and approached.
Me: “Hey, what’s up?”
Her: “Oh, hi!”
Me: “I really liked your speech today.”
Her: “Oh really? Thank you!
”
Me: “Yeah no prob. How long have you been at this?”
Her: “Haha, this is actually just my first meet.”
Me: “Really? I figured everyone was more experienced than me. This is my second.”
Her: “REALLY? Haha, you seemed so much more experienced than that. I thought you were a four year contestant.”
Me: “Naw… I just have experience arguing and working my mouth.”
Her: “Haha, same here *goes on about how she can never follow directions without arguing*”
Me: “Haha you rebel. I’m the same way too… in fact, I tend to do the opposite of what people tell me.”
Her: “Hahaha, oh my god!”
Me: “Do you want to hang out before the third round? I think the break is supposed to be longer this time.”
Her: “Umm… sure!”
Me: “Cool Let’s find out what time round three starts and then we can be on our way.”
So the girl and I spend some time roaming around the school, walking and talking. I suggest that we go this direction and she follows… I lean myself on a locker and sit down without telling her to, and she does the same. She was putting in far more effort into the conversation and interaction than I had ever seen from a girl from my daygame sessions.
Me: “When’s your birthday?”
Her: “10/19”
Me: “December nineteenth…”
Her: “No October.”
Me: “Oh yeah! …You’re a Libra.”
Her: “Hell yeah, I’m a Libra!”
Me: “Well, that explains the sparkly eyes.”
Her: “Haha, wait, you’ve got all the star signs memorized?”
Me: “Yep, it was a phase I went through not too long ago. The only two I’m not keen on are Taurus and Scorpio.. Polar opposites, same problem.”
Her: “Haha, oh my god. *Goes off on a story about how she has 2 taurus friends that are the exact opposite of each other*”
Me: “Maybe it’s because they have different rising signs.”
Her: “What?”
Me: “Like there’s more to a person than their sun sign. That’s just what most people know because all you need is your birthday.”
Her: “You mean there are deeper signs than that?”
Me: “Yeah, if you’ve got the time and location of your birth. There’s your moon sign and rising sign for starters.”
Her: “Hahaha, what?”
Me: “Here, I’ll explain them Let’s walk again.”
And so we walked and talked some more before we went upstairs. The third round was starting soon, and so I grabbed her number so we could hang out afterwards.
Me: “What’s your number? We’ll meet up after the third round.”
Her: “Okay! It’s *gives me number*”
Me: “And that’s Kristina with a K?”
Her: “Yep! Do you... want my last name too?”
Me: “Sure, whatever floats your boat.”
Her: “*last name*”
Me: “…Are you Italian?”
Her: “Hahaha yesssss!”
Me: “Haha, cool. I’ll see you after this round then?”
Her: “Sure!”
I said goodbye and outstretched my arms. She assumed I was just making a gesture, but after holding it for a bit, she got the signal and hugged me back. After that, we parted ways.
Or so I thought. Turns out, we ended up in the same room once again, thus eliminating the need for her number. As soon as I left, I walked right back to her, and she told me we were both in 205. Whoops. Despite having plans to hang out afterwards, she was hungry and wanted to eat something, and soon after, I found out that I made it to finals. The last time I saw her was when I gave her a hug in celebration. (Might not have been very tactful considering she didn't make it, but I was happy, so it doesn't really matter to me.)
I can tell very easily that my passive value is playing a huge part in this because this contrasts with my daygame interactions so much. She was following every single one of my movements and suggestions, putting in a lot more effort into the conversation than I was, and despite being less directly flirtatious with my words like I am in daygame, I feel like we were really flirting anyway.
With that in mind, I want to articulate once more that this isn't what I intend to rely on, because my end goal isn't about getting girls as easily as possible. I want to improve my skills with girls as a whole so that I may be versatile and do this kind of thing anywhere I go. Relying on situations where I can display a ton of passive value just doesn't seem like it’d be constructive to that goal.
But this girl ought to be fun We’ll see if the emotions carried over to the next day. I’ll text her today sometime around noon
Using these meets as my main venue is NOT what I intend to do… They’ll simply serve the purpose of providing me a crutch of exposure in order to further my daygame success. I won’t have these opportunities forever, and in any case, it just seems too easy.
At this speech meet, I had memorized my speech and now was able to fully tap into my arsenal of gestures, eye-contact, and expressions, many of which I learned from seduction. I got multiple comments from judges that my eye contact, pauses, and vocal effects were my most powerful assets, and that they could feel themselves agreeing with me as I presented my energy to the audience. Same controversial topic, same controversial stance, far better speaking ability; this is what I mean by showing off on stage in front of the girls.
On the street, girls have nothing to base my value on, besides race (hollywood really doesn’t help there, ) and the brass I exhibit when I hit on them in broad daylight in random places. Since I do have a bit of a racial barrier in my way, my goal has always been to make my brass balls so big and heavy that come in anyway like a wrecking ball… At these meets however, my value is exhibited very clearly to them. Public speaking and connecting with an audience comes really easy for me because of my daygame experience, and I make it my business to make sure everyone in the audience knows this… But this also the very reason these don’t feel as good as daygame approaches. I’m relying on a TON passive value, and I won’t always have that luxury.
Kristina:
During my speech, my eyes seemed to wander into the direction of this brown haired girl with big blue sparkly eyes. As I spoke not from my head, but from my soul, I sought to drive my points into the hearts of my audience, and I saw her nodding her head with every point I made. Briefly, I think I smiled at her, but afterwards continued on. I was first, and after me, all the other contestants went. At the end, we were given our critique sheets back, and left the room. She was walking far behind me, so I walked slower to have her catch up… I got impatient though and just walked back and approached.
Me: “Hey, what’s up?”
Her: “Oh, hi!”
Me: “I really liked your speech today.”
Her: “Oh really? Thank you!
”Me: “Yeah no prob. How long have you been at this?”
Her: “Haha, this is actually just my first meet.”
Me: “Really? I figured everyone was more experienced than me. This is my second.”
Her: “REALLY? Haha, you seemed so much more experienced than that. I thought you were a four year contestant.”
Me: “Naw… I just have experience arguing and working my mouth.”
Her: “Haha, same here
*goes on about how she can never follow directions without arguing*”Me: “Haha you rebel. I’m the same way too… in fact, I tend to do the opposite of what people tell me.”
Her: “Hahaha, oh my god!”
Me: “Do you want to hang out before the third round? I think the break is supposed to be longer this time.”
Her: “Umm… sure!
”Me: “Cool
Let’s find out what time round three starts and then we can be on our way.”So the girl and I spend some time roaming around the school, walking and talking. I suggest that we go this direction and she follows… I lean myself on a locker and sit down without telling her to, and she does the same. She was putting in far more effort into the conversation and interaction than I had ever seen from a girl from my daygame sessions.
Me: “When’s your birthday?”
Her: “10/19”
Me: “December nineteenth…”
Her: “No October.”
Me: “Oh yeah! …You’re a Libra.”
Her: “Hell yeah, I’m a Libra!”
Me: “Well, that explains the sparkly eyes.”
Her: “Haha, wait, you’ve got all the star signs memorized?”
Me: “Yep, it was a phase I went through not too long ago. The only two I’m not keen on are Taurus and Scorpio.. Polar opposites, same problem.”
Her: “Haha, oh my god. *Goes off on a story about how she has 2 taurus friends that are the exact opposite of each other*”
Me: “Maybe it’s because they have different rising signs.”
Her: “What?”
Me: “Like there’s more to a person than their sun sign. That’s just what most people know because all you need is your birthday.”
Her: “You mean there are deeper signs than that?”
Me: “Yeah, if you’ve got the time and location of your birth. There’s your moon sign and rising sign for starters.”
Her: “Hahaha, what?”
Me: “Here, I’ll explain them
Let’s walk again.”And so we walked and talked some more before we went upstairs. The third round was starting soon, and so I grabbed her number so we could hang out afterwards.
Me: “What’s your number? We’ll meet up after the third round.”
Her: “Okay! It’s *gives me number*”
Me: “And that’s Kristina with a K?”
Her: “Yep! Do you... want my last name too?”
Me: “Sure, whatever floats your boat.”
Her: “*last name*”
Me: “…Are you Italian?”
Her: “Hahaha yesssss!”
Me: “Haha, cool. I’ll see you after this round then?”
Her: “Sure!”
I said goodbye and outstretched my arms. She assumed I was just making a gesture, but after holding it for a bit, she got the signal and hugged me back. After that, we parted ways.
Or so I thought. Turns out, we ended up in the same room once again, thus eliminating the need for her number. As soon as I left, I walked right back to her, and she told me we were both in 205. Whoops. Despite having plans to hang out afterwards, she was hungry and wanted to eat something, and soon after, I found out that I made it to finals. The last time I saw her was when I gave her a hug in celebration. (Might not have been very tactful considering she didn't make it, but I was happy, so it doesn't really matter to me.)
I can tell very easily that my passive value is playing a huge part in this because this contrasts with my daygame interactions so much. She was following every single one of my movements and suggestions, putting in a lot more effort into the conversation than I was, and despite being less directly flirtatious with my words like I am in daygame, I feel like we were really flirting anyway.
With that in mind, I want to articulate once more that this isn't what I intend to rely on, because my end goal isn't about getting girls as easily as possible. I want to improve my skills with girls as a whole so that I may be versatile and do this kind of thing anywhere I go. Relying on situations where I can display a ton of passive value just doesn't seem like it’d be constructive to that goal.
But this girl ought to be fun
We’ll see if the emotions carried over to the next day. I’ll text her today sometime around noon