Totally screwed up last night.. help appreciated.

[zalmanswheel]

Hey chasers,

Haven't been around a lot, came for help..

I met this girl yesterday and I instantly liked her simply because she is so smart and cute at the same time. From her bodys actions and reactions I'm sure she is into me, and that she possibly likes me as well.

So as we were partying at local music festival, we drank a lot of alcohol. Everything was going really well for me, until we changed our location from festival to a local night bar. What happened is that I got drunk, but in a way where my brain wasn't functioning at all but hibernating instead, so I got anxious about this whole situation and made everything worse by not really talking to her because I couldn't think of an topic to chat about, nor was I feeling talky. So she asked my kinda-friend why am I so boring (unsure what he replied to her, because I guess he likes her too). And this is my main concern. At the end of the evening I kinda got back in game but she is still wtf on me.

Now, to resolve this particular messup of mine, I thought of kindly apologizing to her on friday night. Do you think this is good approach and can you guys guide me on a better solution?

Thanks in advance.

(sorry for messish english)

 

[Alchemist]

I'd advise to move quickly and set up another date as soon as possible so that you can deep dive her again and show her your sexual smooth side rather than the drunk guy who ignores her. Make sure you don't sound needy or try to talk to her over text about that day. Don't even mention it unless she asks. I guess "show, don't tell" would work here. Since if she meets up with you again you can make her some nice food or bring her to your place for some tea and give her an amazing night, rather than apologizing to her, which I think would be too much.