touching a girl during conversation... when and where?

[1funkymonk]

Hey all,
Looking for a few more ideas for touching a girl to show/guage interest during conversation or to ramp things up physically. Let's say the situation is you two are sitting at the bar having drinks and talking.

A couple I've used:
-Lightly touching the back of her head/hair while laughing after making fun of her
-Moving her hair/bangs out of her eyes if it has fallen

I've also found a good opener to touching a girl you've never touched before is starting a thumb war. Might be a little cheesy but girls seem to like it if you play it off like you're just having fun, but it essentially gets you holding their hand for a bit and your two thumbs wrestling has some kind of subconscious sexuality to it.

Other than what I've mentioned above, I really don't do much to touch a girl other than the quick hug hello/goodbye and the things I've mentioned can really only be done once, or rarely because they might be overbearing. I'd like more ideas where I can still be dominant, confident and control the situation but show a little interest and allow her to respond.

Thoughts?

 

[Garrett]

1funkymonk,

Good ideas you have there. Try not to hug the girl too much, because that's more something a platonic friend might do. When you meet a girl, shake her hand when you introduce yourself, but no hugging/shaking hands when you leave. Just say, "See ya " with a sexy smile and exit.

One idea for touching is, if you're walking through a door and you hold the door open for the girl, guide her through the entrance by placing your hand on her lower back as she walks through.

Another idea for touching is, if you're on the date and notice the girl is wearing an accessory, ask her to hold her hand out so you can see it. It gives you an excuse to touch her, she gives you compliance/investment, and if done confidently/smoothly, will amp up the attraction .

The key with touching is you want to be assured in the way you touch her. If you are shaking and trembling while you touch her, she may feel you're being a bit creepy, so don't think just touch and make her want you even more !

Cheers,
Garrett