Tramp's Journal

[Tramp]

Newbie Assignment
How's it hanging guys. I'll write an intro in a bit, but want to get right to my newbie assignment post first.

Day 1/2/3/4

For my Day 1 newbie assignment, I decided to skip right to Day 3 and Day 4’s assignments. I know the good spots in town, and I've been working on my posture since Chase’s post on it! Definitely still needs work though, I’m a very skinny guy so my walk needs different tweaks than a muscular guy (If anyone's got pointers for skinny dudes, post it!)

Day 3’s assignment. I needed to make eye contact with 10 or more people. The first thing I noticed is how seldom strangers initiate/hold eye contact in my town. In the mall, on the bus, the cafes, very few people made eye contact with me, even the employees. In fact, most of the people that made eye contact with me were the girls I said hi to and they held it too. When I did manage to make eye contact with a stranger, they’d be the first to break eye contact, with most of them breaking eye contact by looking down.

The Day 4 challenge was definitely tougher, but felt great to complete! I used two locations to get it done. I gotta say, it was tough to start it but it got easier as it went on. I said hi to very attractive girls that I wouldn't even approach normally! What was funny is how normal these beautiful girls are… Mentally, I normally see them as high and mighty, like all guys do. They’re just normal people though, some are actually kinda shy. I’m most proud of the fact I didn't cheat on this challenge or skew the challenge to make it easier. I walked right up to 6 beautiful girls and said “Hi.” I even asked a girl out. She declined, but I’m proud for trying.
Cheers to not sleeping on the street because of an incomplete challenge! Bring it on Day 5, I'm coming for you.

- Tramp

 

[Tramp]

Report for August 9th and 10th, since I didn't get to write about last night's outing.


August 9th

The day before, I failed to talk to anyone at all. Approach anxiety got the best of me. This day though, something was different. I felt different. I had remembered a party I went to awhile back where I met this girl. My guy friend liked her, although I honestly didn't know until the night was over. The second I entered the room I knew she was mine. By the end of the night, me and her were outside... You can imagine what we were doing. I remember my friend driving me home. He turned to me and basically asked "How did you do that?" And after remembering him ask me that question that night I remembered the Tyler Durden quote, "I am free in all the ways that you are not."

I'm not one for mantras, but this one stuck... because I want to look back on myself, look back on every man and woman living each minute not going after what they want, and tell them "I am free in all the ways that you are not."


That said, I got off the bus and had to catch up with this cute girl wearing extremely short shorts. I was bright and chipper, since I'm not even ready to be constructing a sexy vibe because of approach anxiety, and I said "I saw you and just had to tell you you look very cute." I told her my name, and she seemed offput. She told me she had a boyfriend, and I left with a smile saying "No wonder this seemed awkward for you! Well great meeting you!"


I walked around the mall, and honestly couldn't really find any cute girls. Although some were in groups which I was a bit nervous to handle, but most girls were either older, 23 looking (if anybody has experience of how an 18 year old male can get with these older girls, let me know!). I was going to stores around the mall looking for sunglasses, when I walked into Target. There was a very cute blonde girl temporarily standing in the middle of the hall/walkway, so I knew I had to act fast. I tapped her arm lightly, didn't look at her eyes until she looked at mine, and I said "Hi, I saw you standing here and just had to tell you you have the cutest style I've seen a girl wear today. The blue looks great on you." I looked at her up and down when I said the blue part and joked how we were both wearing blue. She liked it and she seemed very pleased with me, so I invited her to come help me look for shades (her friend tagged along, but I didn't break circle.) We lightly bantered and I found out about her. At a high point when we were laughing, I asked her if she'd grab a coffee with me sometime. She said she had a boyfriend.

Now, last time a girl told me she had a boyfriend when I asked her out, I said we can go as friends, we went out to coffee, and on our second date we kissed, her boyfriend was gone, and we later ended up having sex. So I figured I could pull that one out again with no problems. Let me know if I should be doing something different when a girl says she has a boyfriend.


So I told the blonde girl we could go as friends, and she agreed and gave me her number. I texted her an icebreaker text later, and she replied within the minute (the ones that reply way later generally don't end up leading anywhere).


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August 10th

Went to the mall again to return the shades I bought yesterday, they barely blocked out anything. I roamed the mall again, but couldn't find any cute girls that weren't with their mom, family, or boyfriend. The only girls that were approachable were:

- The cute girl with glasses with her friend by a kiosk. I didn't act fast enough, I had stopped on the other side for 4-5 seconds and they moved on. I should have just tapped her arm when I passed by the first time.

- The blonde girl with her other girl friend and her guy friend. I don't know how to handle approaching girls when guys are next to them, I've only done it twice, and the second time didn't end up so hot.

- The two very hot brunettes in Macys, but they were in the girls clothing section. How should I have approached them?

- The other two cute brunettes in Macys, again in a girl's clothing section.

- The cute blonde girl shopping in the girl's sections, and hitting the fitting rooms.

- Hot older women roaming the mall alone. I love older older women, but I think it'd be awkward for them if I hit on them. How do I approach much older women, like women that are 35-45?

- The very cute brunette girl with her mom at Fred Meyers. How do you handle girls when they're with their mom's?


Today I didn't cold approach any girls, so I spent my time talking to employees to get in a social mood, and then I asked a gorgeous older woman at Fred Meyers what time it is.

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[Tramp]

Report for Aug 17 and Aug 18


August 17

Went to the city center and museum with a friend of mine.

Before we left, I was telling him I am baffled by how generally unintelligent a lot of beautiful girls our age seem to be. I'll walk through a park, see gorgeous girls with skater dudes, and I can hear their conversations, all they'll be talking about is partying. I'm fine with girls partying, but if that's all they have to offer conversation-wise, I'm going to have problems relating because I don't drink or smoke weed. I have met a few beautiful girls that were very intelligent and didn't talk about partying, so I'm not stereotyping here, I'm just taking note.

Had a conversation with my friend to about how all the guys getting these girls have buzzcuts and snapbacks, and whether I should just dress like that instead of fighting it (kinda like Chase and the chin strap facial hair thing in California). I think it looks corny, but it gets pussy, so I guess I'm wrong.

Me and him started realizing that all these kinds of dudes are just assholes in general, and maybe we should try that today a bit. I told him about Hunter Moore, who is referred to as the biggest asshole on the Internet, and yet girls send him nudes all the time and dream about fucking him. I've even seen a few pictures of girls I know on his account. This dude tweets stuff like "I would definitely do a line of coke off your ass" or "You look like you have a hairy asshole" or "If she's got a lot of ink, it's because that pussy stink" and girls just eat it up. It could be just because he's somewhat famous, and whoever he retweets gets a ton of followers on twitter instantly, but he's not a terrible looking dude either and I've seen dudes say this kind of stuff and girls dig it too.


And when I told my friend this, that's when he showed me a comedian named Jeff Ross. His job is to roast people, anybody. He had a special called "Jeff Ross Roasts America." And some girls love this guy a LOT. He had volunteers get up on stage to get roasted and a tan brunette babe got on and he said "Holy shit, a lost Kardashian." and she just replied with "You are so sexy!" If you look up Jeff Ross with his long hair, he is the polar opposite of sexy lookswise. He replied to the Kardashian chick with "Somebody get this girl a black cock!" and later when he was done roasting people and they had to leave, this chick waited until last to talk to him and he said "Security, escort this girl to my hotel room."

Gets better. Next show, a gorgeous girl in a tight little off-the-shoulder dress came on stage and he said "You look like you just got raped!" and she had a somewhat humurous but very surprised facial expression and Jeff said "Look, they took half your dress!" He asked what she is studying in school and she said "MBA" but he cut her off and said "I know it's not fashion" and everyone laughed. She seemed like she was a bit hurt. He grabbed her in his arms and said "It's ok, you're amongst friends here" and then asked later on "When can I see you again?" and she just sweetly said "After the show." Jeff replied with "Ever suck dick for coke?" Chicks eat this up with him.


So that day, we decided to a tad more assholish. I approached a cute French girl in the musuem, and I was staring into her eyes directly and rarely broke eye contact and I could see her loving me more and more. I found out she's only in Seattle for another week with her exchange family and she gave me her home number because she doesn't have a cell phone here, and only has Facebook, so kind of a lost cause. But I could tell that she really digged me, I pulled her in for a goodbye hug, and she just melted and snuggled in my arms, and rubbed my back. Intimate hug I guess.

Moving on, me and my friend exited the musuem, and I approached a way older woman walking down the sidewalk with "Hey, I saw you walking and I couldn't walk off without telling you that you have the most elegant walk I've seen today." She replied, "Oh really? Thank you! It's not slouchy or anything?" and I said "It's incredibly sexy." We then said goodbye, I let her walk off after that, because I honestly had no idea where to go from there.

My friend and I circled back around, and talked to two girls sitting down. I did my opener, talked to one and didn't break circle, and said "Why are you sitting here alone? That's kind of weird" and we went on with our conversation. I didn't know what to say so I just asked her what there was to do around here, got a reply, and just blanked on what to say from there, so I said bye.

My friend and I went back into the musuem, and this cute 30 year old looking woman didn't hold the door for us and so I said loudly "Thank you!" (in a playful tone). She replied back "Oh I'm so sorry!"" and I said "You're hot, we'll let it slide" and she just seemed baffled, she literally stuttered a bit and said "Oh, thank you!" She seemed to enjoy it, but I didn't pursue anything from there.

I approached another girl in the musuem, an Australian girl here on vacation, and I stared very boldly into her eyes like with the French girl and she digged it. I asked if she would grab a cup of coffee tomorrow with me since it's her last day in Seattle, and she said yes. Got her number and left.


Approached two Asian girls in a music room in the musuem where you can jam on instruments, and I approached them saying "Hi, I just saw two sexy Asian girls playing guitar and couldn't pass it up. I'm Hunter." At first they seemed offput, but then they were loving me, especially her friend. I got both of them to show me their skills on the instruments and had her friend sing for me, but I didn't grab any numbers because I didn't want to bus all the way to the city for a date.


Finally, my friend and I left and went back to the mall way far from the city for a bit. I approached this really cute girl in Pacsun, and this is where the most learning occurred. I looked at the men's shirt rack that was right next to the girls clothes section and when she walked by I tapped her arm, looked at her eyes when she was already looking at me and did my opener. Her friend overheard, and said how cute it was. I asked the girl I was approaching "So what kind of clothes do you usually wear? Besides pretty much nothing at all... It's okay, half naked is very in" and her friend was laughing but the girl I was approaching wasn't. Conversation went on a bit, I slightly moved her with me, and then I asked her if she was single and she said yes. I asked her friend, who already introduced herself to me so I wasn't breaking circle first, how far away they lived from my city and she said 15 minutes. I asked the girl if she would grab a coffee with me and she was on the fence about it, but her friend kept saying "Do it! Do it!" Finally, I just said "Here, let's exchange numbers and then we can schedule our coffee. Cool?" and we exchanged numbers.

When my friend and I left, he said "Wow, that girl didn't really seem into you, she was hatin'!" And wouldn't you know it... when I sent her my icebreaker text a few hours later she seemed to dig me! All I said was glad to meet you and she replied "Glad to have met you too So are you and your rapper friend picking up any other girls?(;" and I replied 20 min later with "Oh, only Crystal and Tamara.... (; I have to go, but have a goodnight" and she replied "Oh haha, ok goodnight Tramp"



Learning Lessons Today:
1. Don't set a goal like "I will approach 7 girls today." It never works out. Just approach whoever is attractive, and push to approach hotter girls.
2. I definitely should run my mouth a bit more these days, because it gives me confidence and seems to work. Test the limits on this one.
3. Always push for the number close even if they don't seem interested.




Aug 18

Went on a date with the Australian girl I met. Turns out she wasn't as cute as I thought (it was dark in the museum when I met her). First, we talked on the way to Starbucks. It was way crowded, and they said I could only get a cup of water down at the end, couldn't find it, so we just left outside and sat by the fountain in the square. I asked her questions about her travels around the world, what Australia is like, etc. Then we layed down in the grass and I asked her what the craziest thing she's ever done was. It took some coaxing, but she finally told me it was hooking up with a French guy near a harbor, and then waking up the next morning in the parking lot naked. Pretty cool.

Overall, the date kept lagging and I couldn't find anywhere we could have sex and she had already checked out of her hotel room so I was out of logistical options. I didn't have the balls to yank her into the bathroom either. All we ended up doing was kissing, and it was pretty lame how I even got that far, I said "Let's just cut the foreplay" and then kissed her. Pretty lame. Great thing is she was 25, so I kissed a girl 7 years older than me. Not bad. She guessed I was 21 and I told her I was 22.

I walked her to her bus station and kissed her goodbye, which she didn't seem to like because she then pulled her face away and just gave me a hug.


Later, while walking back, I approached a sexy girl in short shorts sitting down. I don't think I established too good of a connection, but she agreed to coffee with me. I sent her an icebreaker text that day, and just got a reply today (Aug 19th). Guess we'll see!


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