Hey guys!
So after reading this site for a long while and being held back by approach anxiety, I finally made my first approach a few months ago. I made about 7 in total (over a few weeks) and just as I was beginning to hit my stride, Corona virus hits and we go into lockdown.
So to keep my momentum up, I opened a tinder account. I've been talking to this particular girl (on the phone) for almost 2 weeks now. We've talked 4 times in total (lasting a few hours each time, which was completely unintended on my part) and I feel like I've maintained enough of a sexual frame so far to avoid things devolving into the friendzone.
I'd like to see her when this lockdown is over (and she talked about seeing me in person before I mentioned anything), but I'm slightly worried about things devolving one way or another in the time until this lockdown ends (probably a couple months where I am).
What I'm mainly worried about is stagnation. In my last (and only) relationship, my GF and I would sex talk and masturbate together on video call when we couldn't see each other. Is this something worth pursuing with this girl? And if so, is there any good way of transitioning into this? We have quite a playful vibe and often have sexually suggestive conversations, but doing it without having already had sex with the person seems more difficult than doing it with a girlfriend.
So after reading this site for a long while and being held back by approach anxiety, I finally made my first approach a few months ago. I made about 7 in total (over a few weeks) and just as I was beginning to hit my stride, Corona virus hits and we go into lockdown.
So to keep my momentum up, I opened a tinder account. I've been talking to this particular girl (on the phone) for almost 2 weeks now. We've talked 4 times in total (lasting a few hours each time, which was completely unintended on my part) and I feel like I've maintained enough of a sexual frame so far to avoid things devolving into the friendzone.
I'd like to see her when this lockdown is over (and she talked about seeing me in person before I mentioned anything), but I'm slightly worried about things devolving one way or another in the time until this lockdown ends (probably a couple months where I am).
What I'm mainly worried about is stagnation. In my last (and only) relationship, my GF and I would sex talk and masturbate together on video call when we couldn't see each other. Is this something worth pursuing with this girl? And if so, is there any good way of transitioning into this? We have quite a playful vibe and often have sexually suggestive conversations, but doing it without having already had sex with the person seems more difficult than doing it with a girlfriend.
