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[Pinochet]

Hello,

I have two questions:

• What does it mean if a woman calls me "vulnerable"? I have often heard this about myself from women but didn't understand it as I don't speak Girl. Is it good or bad? Is there anything I can do about it to fix it?
• If a girl looks up to you (sycophantic behavior, etc.) what's a way to leverage that and let her know you like her without immediately giving away all of the Power and disappointing her slightly?

Thanks for help,
Pinochet