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There's a QT at a coffee stop I visit. We've chatted sporadically here and there as she makes coffee in the past. I decided to ask her out. Just went with a discussion about coffee, how she was probably an expert in it now, whether she'd like to try a place together...
I think the rapport was fairly good. It certainly felt natural and synced up. In response, she said, 'I don't know about that.' I said, 'well bear it in mind', and left it there. [Edit: one other thing that comes to mind is that before i got interested in her i recall asking her what she did outside of being a baristerette, and she was rather evasive. So she's slightly standoffish when it comes to anything personal. Maybe a defence mechanism for the job]
I'm anticipating people typing something up about "persistence." Maybe they are right. Should I have persisted? If so, how? Should I open up the prospect of it with her again? Or is there something else worth doing?
I think the rapport was fairly good. It certainly felt natural and synced up. In response, she said, 'I don't know about that.' I said, 'well bear it in mind', and left it there. [Edit: one other thing that comes to mind is that before i got interested in her i recall asking her what she did outside of being a baristerette, and she was rather evasive. So she's slightly standoffish when it comes to anything personal. Maybe a defence mechanism for the job]
I'm anticipating people typing something up about "persistence." Maybe they are right. Should I have persisted? If so, how? Should I open up the prospect of it with her again? Or is there something else worth doing?