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I’m not able to figure anything out, so please help me understand what actually happened! I approached a girl 4 times, nothing! Never do something like that, usually approach only twice at most, but she was DAMN FUCKING HOT and SHE CONFUSED THE HELL OUT OF ME!
So I see this hot chick at the park, wearing super shorts, and white tee. Some event was about to begin. She seemed to be walking around with a paper, and I assumed that she was involved in the event somehow.
At first when I noticed her, I intentionally walked past her, pretending not to notice. She didn’t see me noticing her, and probably she checked me out while I acted indifferent. A bit later, when I was watching her talk to her friends, she gave me brief glances. To me, it seemed like she was interested, but she didn’t want to be obvious, and didn’t expect me to approach or anything.
FIRST ENCOUNTER
So there is this room like structure where performers get prepared, and I’m standing near the door, looking to my left, with half of the curtain covering me. She comes my way from the right, I can tell she is approaching but don't turn, and I only look at her once she is in front of me, trying to get inside the room which I was half-blocking.
I take this as my chance, and open with ‘Are you organizing this thing, what events are gonna happen?’ My look was probably totally bored, and kinda even a bit annoyed. I tried too act aloof.
She responded a bit, and another dude came inside, and she asked him to explain to me what was going to happen in the event. The dude explained to me like for 30 seconds, and I didn’t give a damn really but pretended to listen. PROBABLY I ACTED TOO ALOOF?
So that’s the first encounter.
SECOND ENCOUNTER
After about half an hour or so, I see this girl again, standing near the stage, and I go near the stage, and stand for her to see me. She sees me, and I signal her from about 10 feet away. I use my hand in a ‘Come over here’ motion, and she signals with her hand pointing at her, as if ‘Asking meeeeee????????’!
I signal again to assure that it’s her, and she is now slowly coming over, with slightly annoyed or bored look, probably wondering ‘WTF!’.
As she comes near me, I look into her eyes, expressionless, say ‘You look really nice!’
2 or so seconds of silence, and she walks to the stage saying something, which sounded like ‘I’m busy now’. But I wasn’t sure.
THIRD ENCOUNTER
Time passes, after moving about the park for 45 minutes or so with my friend, I see her again standing beside the stage. I go and say ‘Hey!’. She looks at me, I say ‘I didn’t hear what you said then’. She didn’t understand, so I repeated. She said, ‘I said I’m busy’.
Not gonna happen! Left the scene.
The following part is the reason I bothered to write this FR in the first place.
Now this girl has blown me off twice, but when I’m sitting at the sitting area near the stage, she comes halfway from the stage near the area, after about 3 minutes of blowing me off, and talks to somebody in phone. This happens twice, and I can tell she probably knew that I was sitting near the area where she was standing calling someone.
Now that maybe because of the stage noise, and so she had to be somewhere else to hear properly what the caller was saying, but after rejecting me, I find it strange that she chose this specific location to take her calls. I do not pay much mind, and continue to banter with my guy friend.
Again, this girl comes my way from a 20 degree angle or so, now no phone, as if looking for someone, and returns after 2 or so seconds. Doesn't look at me directly, but I can tell she knows I'm there. I find it a bit weird. At this point, I again start to assume that she is interested but not showing it.
FOURTH ENCOUNTER
So at last, I think of taking my chance again, and sit near the same door in which I first talked to her. She comes after a bit, and I say ‘Hey’ again, with no expression or a bit bored look maybe, she says ‘I’m busy’, nothing else.
But then, she stands for like 3 seconds near the door, looking inside. I’m sitting outside the door, and her back is facing me, she is about 4 feet away. After standing for that 3 seconds or so, she retreats.
All this while, it seemed like she was a bit interested, but didn’t like to show it. It could be that she was not interested at all, but having seen how girls act uninterested many times, I feel like she was actually interested, even if just a little bit. But for some odd reason, she never showed it.
What do you think guys? Is it my imagination, or was she actually interested? Did I do something wrong in handling?
Or is it that she only wanted attention?
- Kevin
I’m not able to figure anything out, so please help me understand what actually happened! I approached a girl 4 times, nothing! Never do something like that, usually approach only twice at most, but she was DAMN FUCKING HOT and SHE CONFUSED THE HELL OUT OF ME!
So I see this hot chick at the park, wearing super shorts, and white tee. Some event was about to begin. She seemed to be walking around with a paper, and I assumed that she was involved in the event somehow.
At first when I noticed her, I intentionally walked past her, pretending not to notice. She didn’t see me noticing her, and probably she checked me out while I acted indifferent. A bit later, when I was watching her talk to her friends, she gave me brief glances. To me, it seemed like she was interested, but she didn’t want to be obvious, and didn’t expect me to approach or anything.
FIRST ENCOUNTER
So there is this room like structure where performers get prepared, and I’m standing near the door, looking to my left, with half of the curtain covering me. She comes my way from the right, I can tell she is approaching but don't turn, and I only look at her once she is in front of me, trying to get inside the room which I was half-blocking.
I take this as my chance, and open with ‘Are you organizing this thing, what events are gonna happen?’ My look was probably totally bored, and kinda even a bit annoyed. I tried too act aloof.
She responded a bit, and another dude came inside, and she asked him to explain to me what was going to happen in the event. The dude explained to me like for 30 seconds, and I didn’t give a damn really but pretended to listen. PROBABLY I ACTED TOO ALOOF?
So that’s the first encounter.
SECOND ENCOUNTER
After about half an hour or so, I see this girl again, standing near the stage, and I go near the stage, and stand for her to see me. She sees me, and I signal her from about 10 feet away. I use my hand in a ‘Come over here’ motion, and she signals with her hand pointing at her, as if ‘Asking meeeeee????????’!
I signal again to assure that it’s her, and she is now slowly coming over, with slightly annoyed or bored look, probably wondering ‘WTF!’.
As she comes near me, I look into her eyes, expressionless, say ‘You look really nice!’
2 or so seconds of silence, and she walks to the stage saying something, which sounded like ‘I’m busy now’. But I wasn’t sure.
THIRD ENCOUNTER
Time passes, after moving about the park for 45 minutes or so with my friend, I see her again standing beside the stage. I go and say ‘Hey!’. She looks at me, I say ‘I didn’t hear what you said then’. She didn’t understand, so I repeated. She said, ‘I said I’m busy’.
Not gonna happen! Left the scene.
The following part is the reason I bothered to write this FR in the first place.
Now this girl has blown me off twice, but when I’m sitting at the sitting area near the stage, she comes halfway from the stage near the area, after about 3 minutes of blowing me off, and talks to somebody in phone. This happens twice, and I can tell she probably knew that I was sitting near the area where she was standing calling someone.
Now that maybe because of the stage noise, and so she had to be somewhere else to hear properly what the caller was saying, but after rejecting me, I find it strange that she chose this specific location to take her calls. I do not pay much mind, and continue to banter with my guy friend.
Again, this girl comes my way from a 20 degree angle or so, now no phone, as if looking for someone, and returns after 2 or so seconds. Doesn't look at me directly, but I can tell she knows I'm there. I find it a bit weird. At this point, I again start to assume that she is interested but not showing it.
FOURTH ENCOUNTER
So at last, I think of taking my chance again, and sit near the same door in which I first talked to her. She comes after a bit, and I say ‘Hey’ again, with no expression or a bit bored look maybe, she says ‘I’m busy’, nothing else.
But then, she stands for like 3 seconds near the door, looking inside. I’m sitting outside the door, and her back is facing me, she is about 4 feet away. After standing for that 3 seconds or so, she retreats.
All this while, it seemed like she was a bit interested, but didn’t like to show it. It could be that she was not interested at all, but having seen how girls act uninterested many times, I feel like she was actually interested, even if just a little bit. But for some odd reason, she never showed it.
What do you think guys? Is it my imagination, or was she actually interested? Did I do something wrong in handling?
Or is it that she only wanted attention?
- Kevin